Talking about sex...?? Seduction techniques for girlfriends??

[oldskewlboyjay]

Hey i've read alot that talking about sex helps turn girls on and makes them want to maybe get more intimate but i'v never really talked about sex with my girlfriend yet. I dont know how to just do it. I don't wanna be like.. SO DO YOU LIKE SEX? lol and freak her all out. What do you suggest? She is a virgin, so she claims. My goal is to try and get her to be more initmate with me maybe take it to the next level. Right now we've only been making out. Any ideas?

 

[DonCharlie24]

kiss, kissing, if done right, will open a door to many things, plus what i always do is if i have a girl over that i want to bang bang bang, i pretend to have sex with her, like ill jokingly moan or somtehing and hump her leg, works 99.9% of the time, but i dont know if it will work on a virgin though

 

[Microphone Fiend]

if you haven't done it yet, im not sure it would be great to do a direct approach, but ya never know.....

You could start small with a couple flirty jokes, sexual innuendo, etc. And pour on the kino a little more. Holder her for longer during hugs, look into her eyes so she can see how passionate you are, etc

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

talking sex is not as effective as getting her wet

KISS KISS KISS

kiss everywhere, her lips, her neck. nibble her earlobes and flick her ear with your tongue. kiss down her neckline towards her chest. dont go for any "sweet" spots. start off slowly, then speed up. let her see how you like this. if you grind her a little she will get the idea.

remind her of your masculinity. deep, low breathing / quiet grunts are a good idea

also, if this girl is a virgin your going to have to lead the way. remove your shirt after kissing her for a bit. feel her back (under her shirt, under her bra straps) trace lines around her bra cup. once she starts breathing heavily, you can start taking of her clothes.

if you don't know how already, learn how to undo a bra without alo of fuss, it will ruin the moment

and most importantly.... GAH!!! I'm giving away all my best moves!

I'm out

 

[oldskewlboyjay]

Wow great ideas guys.. keep em comin! Thanks alot. -Jay

 

[xomel]

theres nothing wrong with "so whats ur thoughts on sex?"

its just a question....

some things to find out during this discussion.

1. does she want to lose her virginity to you?
2. when does she want to lose it?
3. what does she think of it?


if she says she wants to wait until marriage just give her the "whatever makes you happy" card and then wait til shes really horny and she will most likely go along with it.

i would post here but im too lazy, so talk to me if you want help on getting sex out of a relationship.