knglerxt
Senior Don Juan
I know women like confidence in a guy. Blah Blah Blah. But do you think women equate talkativeness with confidence? Do most girls think a guy's got low self-esteem just because he's quiet?
The reason I ask this is because I've always been a quiet guy. It's not that I'm scared of women or anything. I don't even talk that much around people I've known for years. It's just part of my personality.
Maybe some guys don't talk much because of self-esteem issues, but not all quiet guys are like that. Everybody's different. Some people are talkative, some aren't.
The only downside to it is that it really hinders my ability to meet and form relationships with women. I definitely think I can improve, but I don't think I'll ever be a "life of the party" type person, nor do I care to be.
It just seems like it's going to be hard for me to find the type of girl I'm attracted to that likes quiet guys. Most girls go after the really social, outgoing guys.
The reason I ask this is because I've always been a quiet guy. It's not that I'm scared of women or anything. I don't even talk that much around people I've known for years. It's just part of my personality.
Maybe some guys don't talk much because of self-esteem issues, but not all quiet guys are like that. Everybody's different. Some people are talkative, some aren't.
The only downside to it is that it really hinders my ability to meet and form relationships with women. I definitely think I can improve, but I don't think I'll ever be a "life of the party" type person, nor do I care to be.
It just seems like it's going to be hard for me to find the type of girl I'm attracted to that likes quiet guys. Most girls go after the really social, outgoing guys.