Talents And Skills That Can Get A Man Laid

oOh Nasty

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OP. For your own sake, you need to try to realize that trying to "adopt" a talent or become talented at something just for the sake of being able to impress women or a woman will inevitably lead to your utter failure with women.

But for a more general answer, I don't think there's any particular talent that stands out in terms of "getting laid." And in this context of getting laid, I mean, being able to choose a woman who's attention you've gotten and bang her with relative ease. The more important thing is being able to have public recognition of said talent and having public authority of that talent. Let's take Tiger Woods as an example. I know lots of women that find him highly attractive. It's not because they think golf is atractive (or even him for that matter), but because he's an elite authority figure in golf through his extreme competence and also he's quite chill and non-chalant about his dominance in the field.

Be publicly competent, add lots of stoic don't-give-a-f*ckness to it, and don't be hideously ugly. Of course, once you have the attention of the women (after gaining the general attention and respect from the public), you still have to not f*ck it up, but that's another discussion.
 

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If anyone knows what skills tend to specifically attract women of the following demographics, I would love to know:
1. White women
2. Latin women
3. Black women
4. Asian women

If you don't know about all these groups but know about some, I'd still like to hear what you have to say.
Not to sound rude but when will you start doing field reports?
 

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If anyone knows what skills tend to specifically attract women of the following demographics, I would love to know:
1. White women
2. Latin women
3. Black women
4. Asian women

If you don't know about all these groups but know about some, I'd still like to hear what you have to say.
Just be white
 

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Social, confidence, quick wit, intelligence, money, physical attributes, living an interesting life
 

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It doesn't matter what chance they have of pulling girls. All skills pull women. You bring up home modeling. If I started a home modeling business, I could pull multiple women every week. Because it's how I carry it.
You keep deflecting my argument. Not all skills are equally valid. More women are into guys that can dance than guys that can sing. Knowing how to dance hip hop is more attractive to Black women than White women.

By home remodeling, I mean not starting your own business, but not having to hire someone to fix your home when you can do it yourself.
 

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You keep deflecting my argument. Not all skills are equally valid. More women are into guys that can dance than guys that can sing. Knowing how to dance hip hop is more attractive to Black women than White women.

By home remodeling, I mean not starting your own business, but not having to hire someone to fix your home when you can do it yourself.
Your argument doesn't disprove what I just said nor was it an argument I brought up.

Let me say it again: All. Skills. Can get women. No matter their statistic, you can get women with them no matter what.

By home remodeling, I mean not starting your own business, but not having to hire someone to fix your home when you can do it yourself.

Me doing it myself would be my business.
 

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More like El Cid, Art of War, The Illead, Shakes, Marcus Aurelius, The Great Gatsby, Twain, 100 Years of Solitude (GGM), etc.
Let me add a little Russian literature that is a good place to start rather than the usual suggestions:
The Master and Margarita by Bulgakov and a Hero of Our Time Time by Lermontov. Both are fun easy reads with a lot of depth. Reading The Brothers Karamarzov is like “pushing a grand piano up a very steep hill.”
 

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You keep deflecting my argument. Not all skills are equally valid. More women are into guys that can dance than guys that can sing. Knowing how to dance hip hop is more attractive to Black women than White women.

By home remodeling, I mean not starting your own business, but not having to hire someone to fix your home when you can do it yourself.
All this nonsense about worrying what women like more shows why many have issue with women.

Who fvcking cares?

You go be the best version of you there is and if that isn't good enough then they can go fvck themselves.

But it's easier to try and be something else for someone than it is to improve yourself by taking a good hard long look in the mirror. That's why most guys have issues. They don't want to do the hard work on themselves. Or with anything else really.
 

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I've learned at my age, after years of trial and error, that I am always the happiest when things flow. When I am myself, this applies to all my situationships as well. My favorite female companion is a pleasure; she is easy-going and appreciates everything I do - the bulk. She exercises daily, has a gym physique, is curious and intuitive, eats the way I do (unprocessed), has constant, raucous, and delicious sex with me, and is communicative. It makes for an easygoing situation in all ways. Am I bored with her? No, it's been seven months, and when I see her, I instantly get aroused, clothed or not. I often wish she was still with me when she's gone. There has never been a moment when I've not wanted her that way.

Why do I feel this way? Because I can be myself with her, and she definitely notices when something is off and adjusts instantly. I do as well, to a certain extent. I like to say that I am about 5% mutable. The remaining 95% of me is me and will not change. That 5% is what I leave in place for relationships, little adjustments I'm willing to make to create harmonious interactions.

Why would you want to lie about yourself or act incompatible with your standards and beliefs? Garbage in > garbage out. If all you're interested in is an ONS, as some are, then lie - if it's that important to you. I prefer to live life on my terms, not someone else's.

Do I conduct physical relationships with women, unlike the woman I described above? I have many times. Did I enjoy them the way I want the woman above? Not. They all require compromise from me, more than I'm often comfortable making.

If you suck in general, make yourself less sucky, but if you find yourself needing to act a role or feel like you have to, you have a lot of internal work to do, ever indeed, to be happy.

Happy and confident men get laid. Plain and simple.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Your argument doesn't disprove what I just said
Sure it does. Maybe you need actual concrete proof. 1 way to prove my statement is to survey women "would you prefer a guy that can dance or a guy that can sing" and tally up the results. That can either proof or disprove my claims.

Let me say it again: All. Skills. Can get women.
This doesn't answer anyone's question. People want something more intelligent and more developed than your answers. Example: A attracts 60% of women whereas B attracts 30% of women. We don't want skills that can attract "any" women that "any" man can do.
 

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All this nonsense about worrying what women like more shows why many have issue with women.

Who fvcking cares?
Incels.

You go be the best version of you there is and if that isn't good enough then they can go fvck themselves.

But it's easier to try and be something else for someone than it is to improve yourself by taking a good hard long look in the mirror. That's why most guys have issues. They don't want to do the hard work on themselves. Or with anything else really.
That's kind of what this thread is for. Someone could be into building their skills into skateboarding or playing the piano. Someone could do either or, but would research are more women into men that can skateboard or play the piano, and what types of women are.
 

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Women are attracted to selfish men. Not complicated.

If you are doing things to get women it will make you look retarded.
You get it, chicks love when I tell stories of me trying to fire dudes at work that don’t report to me.
Dark triad seduction works, but not many guys have a backbone to do it. Refreshing when you learn about something and only realize it decades later :lol:
 

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3. Black women
-Do a lengthy stretch at Folsom for armed robbery or murder. Guys who get convicted and locked up before the age of 17 are especially desirable

-Father kids by several different women before you met her

-Cover 98% of your body in ink

-Assidously avoid speaking in anything other than slang and profanity

If you're a real life version of this oaf


You're guaranteed a Ranisha or Shaquanda of your own
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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1 way to prove my statement is to survey women "would you prefer a guy that can dance or a guy that can sing" and tally up the results
Stop listening to what women say.
 

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I swear this site is being taken over by angry blue and black pills that came here out of spite of all the mgtow and redpill videos that are all on youtube.
 

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Stop listening to what women say.
But my point is women are attract to A more than B, or attracted to B more than A. My point is, there are skills A and B, some attract more women, and some attract women more than others. People who say things like "women can be attracted to all things" are too scared to delve into the specifics.
 

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But my point is women are attract to A more than B, or attracted to B more than A. My point is, there are skills A and B, some attract more women, and some attract women more than others. People who say things like "women can be attracted to all things" are too scared to delve into the specifics.
To think that it’s a simple list or equation is folly. There are too many variables at play.
 
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