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Rudy_TubeSteak

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Nicely put there, OneArmDeeJay.

From now on I'll only have minimal phone time or even just leave a text message. She won't be a phone yuppy in a while so that'll fix the problem. Also I may msg saying when I'll be calling so she won't have an excuse not to have her phone beside her. I'll also do that with other girls who may not be the phone types.

She's not that quiet really, she gets more bubbly when she spends more time. Mind you I'd never date a quiet mime type. But yea I just can't stand girls who talk WAY too much either.


I've been trying to get her out of her comfort zone and testing her by getting her to come around my place. Well, she did so that does show that shes interested at some level

DonJuanMonk, are you actually a "master don juan" or the monkey on the community's back.Take a look at some of your posts. You sound like a veteran heckler at a kid's soccer match.
 

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I wasted 8 months of my life chasing a girl that would show attention and then completely ignore me. It would go in cycles. I kept making excuses for her, kept saying that her phone was probalby disabled or she was really busy. But I learned the hard way, a girl can meet up with you if she really wants to. The girl I was chasing came out of a 4 relationship where her bf cheated on her. She was totally mentally devastated by this and I met her a couple months after that happened. She either had a hard time trusting guys or just didn't like me, but I finally was able to NEXT her. It took 8 months o realize that but we all learn from our mistakes and I'll never let it happen again.

I can't believe how many girls I turned down b/c I thought that c*nt was worth it. I never needed a headcase like that anyways. :down:
 

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A Street Pimp's Perspective

*cracks knuckles*

alright where do i begin...

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Nat is fairly shy and inexperience from the lil info I have. I think shes a virgin too.

let me school you about women in 2005

the worst ones keep their wh0re status on the low low

the left hand does and the right hand does

even their best friends out of the loop

assume nothing

THE MINUTE YOU ALTER YOUR GAME TO COMPENSATE FOR HER SHY/VIRGIN ACT YOU WILL FAIL

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I even kissed her too which was a bonus.

ok we goig to keep score and from that we know what the score is

this chick is down with the program

ISOLATE AND ESCALATE

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The problem is that she is taking too long to reply to my msgs and never returns my phone call. But seems to like it when Im spending time with her or talking to her on the fone. Sometimes she takes a couple of days to reply to my msg or missed call.

she has other options

she is kissing you INTEREST LEVEL HIGH

but she doesn't wanna talk your ear off on the phone ?

women live to talk on the phone

this doesn't add up now does it ?

unless... she has other options

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She just doesn't use her fone much and turns it off most of the time, so she is pretty elusive even to her friends. She is also a pain in the a.ss to return fonecalls to her friends.

i do not believe that for a second

don't care what your intel ( her friends ) say

my instincts and experience tell me differently

i have posted about it before women fall asleep holding their cell phones

it is their lives

when a woman has a flat battery/phone stolen/phone off/didn't hear it ring

usually means you got a female player on your hands

now lets examine her story

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She just doesn't use her fone much and turns it off most of the time

she turns it off so it doesn't disturb her sleep ?

SHE COULD PUT THE PHONE ON SILENT that way it records missed calls and she feels popular

a woman who doesn't do this ?

there is no possible way this could be the truth

i switch my phone off when i am in the back seat of my car with one of my chicks

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But the problem is that I call her many times because I can never get through and I look desperate trying to call so many times but I only want to get through one time.

she is looking at her phone ringing and laughing at you

thinking you are just one more sucker in her line up

WHAT WOMAN NEEDS AN EXCUSE TO ANSWER A PHONE !!!

defies all pattern of normal female behavior

she is sitting with her friends and her phone rings "i wish that AFC loser with no life brad would stop calling me 30 times a day"

she says i am not going to answer it. and her friends nod their heads. she thinks how popular she looks and her friends play with their phones wishing one of their AFC pets would call so they look popular too

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We are meant to be doing something today or tonight but I've been waiting for her reply for a couple of days time.

waiting at her beck and call for 2 days ?

she is playing you

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Today's plan got cancelled

wow her man who f*cks her and feeds her cheeseburgers called and says he is in town for a few hours and asked if she wanted to hang out ( pimp code for sex )

your date gets cancelled

SHE FLAKED

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So we went down and damn....she was in IGNORE MODE

this b*tch is disrespecting you kick her to the kerb and replace her

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She was just a drunken fool and NOT acknowledging that I was there having a conversation. (playing hard to get???)

ok see the part where you called her 500 times

she showed her friends ( so she gets points for being a player and status in her wh0re clic )

you got branded with LOSER status

now we see her behaviour makes sense

SHE IS IGNORING YOU BECAUSE OF HER FRIENDS

how stupid would she look if she used your AFC actions to score points on the female player score card her and her friends keep if she showed you love in front of them

she may be a h0 but she ain't stupid

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She just looked like in lalaland

just for fun as well as being a drunk a$$ h0 she snorted a line of coke

still think she is a sweet little virgin princess ?

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When I got distracted she walked away with her friend.

the h0. using your AFC actions to amuse herself and her bored friends. b*tches like that piss me off.

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Later on I bumped into her again and motioned her over but she shook her head like she didn't wanna leave her friends.

her friends are watching

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When the club closed down I saw her again sitting on the grass so I went over and talked to her and her friend. MAn she was being rude and swearing and acting like a drunken fool. I just felt like I didn't wanna be there and when they all got picked up and didn't even say goodbye.

1. her swearing and acting up was to mke you leave

2. her friends were watching so she had to put on a good show

3. "i just felt like a didn't wanna be there" DUDE that was the idea LOL
4. she dare not say goodbye because shemade fun of you to her friends remember

IT ALL MAKES SENSE

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The other times I saw her with her friends she was in a snobbish mode as well so maybe shes acting all different when shes with her friends...Shes great when shes alone with me though.

dude i want you to read VERY SLOWLY so it sinks in what you typed above 3 times.

until you say AHHHHHH now i get it

hint : "I saw her with her friends she was in a snobbish mode"

"so maybe shes acting all different when shes with her friends"

"Shes great when shes alone with me though"

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Man I'm in a mess already...Got other things on my head I need some kind of help (or damage control and keep my backbone).

get rid of her. brutal violent. no reasons. no AFC poems. NEXT.

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I've already typed in a text msg for her but haven't sent it yet because I thought I'd post on here before doing a stupid thing...

good idea

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should I just move on not waste anymore time

YES

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Maybe I've f.cuked up along and just didn't realise it so if you guys could be helpful and point it out for me.

she is a low down dirty h0. you treated her too good and cut her too much slack.

you bought into her "shy innocent girl act"

that sh*t is just there to fool her parents who are strict/religious and to bring the true AFC out in her potential targets out so she can eliminate them from her line up

remember : Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

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And also should I just ignore what happened last night and maybe she will realise what she did and try to explain what happened cos maybe she had a horrible time with something else that didn't have anything to do with me.

grow some ball$

be a man. don't let someone treat you like $hit.

The DJ Code :

1. his pleasure comes first
2. he will quickly dump a woman who gives him trouble
3. doesn’t suck up to women or put them on pedestals
4. doesn’t let women or people disrespect him.
5. Gets pissed off and isn’t afraid to show it
6. Aren’t afraid to hurt women emotionally.
7. Doesn’t care what others think about him and isn’t looking for approval.
 

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"Hi XX, im so sorry about thurs night, actually I'm sorry about everything. I don't expect a reply I just wanted to apologise. Have a good night now and I'll see you around sometime. - Nat"

i will translate it for you

"im so sorry about thurs night" = bored and fishing for attention just want see if you are a bigger loser than i thought and will still be my puppy dog b*tch

note: text apology = no apology

in person = apology

on phone = bull$hit apology

text apology 3 days later = no apology

"actually I'm sorry about everything" = i told my friends how you call me all the time and you were given LOSER status among my friends so i am saying i hope you understand i sacrificed you for a few points on the wh0re ladder me and my friends run ( i am now in second place teehee :cheer: )

"I don't expect a reply" = i don't want you to reply

"I just wanted to apologise. " = i just wanted you to not approach me in public infront of my friends again get the picture

"Have a good night now " = i am an evil b*tch and after tearing your heart out i send you a text 3 days later muhahaha i am evil and just befoe you go to bed so you think about me and it hurts you more muhahaha *evil laugh*

"I'll see you around sometime. - " = i never want to see you again

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Also should I msg her and "reluctantly" set up another date

HELL NO !!!!

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OR should I completely ignore her until she contacts me again asking why I haven't replied yet.

if she does contact you again it will be to use you to amuse her sick and twisted mind with

like a cat playing with a mouse instead of killing it straight away

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I was going along by saying

1. Apology accepted


apology accepted ?

want me to pimp slap you ? want me to PM a damn pimp slap to you ?

:D

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Also I may msg saying when I'll be calling so she won't have an excuse not to have her phone beside her. I'll also do that with other girls who may not be the phone types.

ok listen close no woman 12 - 25 can resist a phone

they live for it

i have seen women fall asleep clutching their cell phones

do you get it yet ?

THESE B*TCHES THAT SAY THEY GOT THEIR PHONE ON SILENT OR 5 ROOMS AWAY AND DIDN'T HEAR IT RING ARE LYING TO YOU

they think you are stupid

and what worries me is you are saying that you think there may be other girls who are not phone types

NO SUCH THING


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" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 

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Hmm interesting.

I'm kind of confused of what to make out of this. A friend of mine told me shes a quiet shy girl and says she can hardly get hold of her cos she happens NOT to be a phone wh*re.

I doubt shes an AW though. She still lives with her parents. Goes out only once every fortnight. Still a virgin. A checkout chik. And gets clammy hands because she still gets edgy when I was hanging out with her and drives clumsily when she drops me off.

Hmm I'm interested about your translation of "I'm sorry about everything" line. Do all girls do that?

Do all girls actually mean what you have translated? Or are they AW material only.
 

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your friend says shy

yet she is drunken yelling screaming swearing

you say virgin

she is up in the clubs doing her thing

you heard she is quiet and goes out once a fortnight

she acts like a total b*tch and treats you like sh*t

either the b*tch has a twin sister who is her opposite or you are being taken for a ride

you hear good stories

you SEE bad ACTIONS


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" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 

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Yeah man, actions speak thousands of times louder than words in this game, just go with your gut feelings about this girl.
 

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I just went with "Yea you were pretty silly. I need to see you in person. I'm busy all mornin but I can drive to your place afterwards, you gonna b home?"

That way I can see through her actions not through her words.

I'll let you know how things sort out.

By the way she ain't the only girl I have. I have my main girl who lives in the same college as I do and she's cool about it. The problem is that she's leaving for good and I'll have to find a main b*tch soon to take her place. With Nat, I dont think she can be the main one but I'd keep her on the backburner and practise.

The reason I'm fussin over the sidedish is that I'm trying to gain experience. I' wanna see how it pans out right through the end
 

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F*ck this....LiT you are a savour lol...


I was just shagging someone just before I wrote this....this was a different girl this time, not Nat.

And then after she left, Nat msged me late at night asking when I finish my coaching course and where I'll be because she wanted to meet for lunch afterwards. I've got nothing to lose...I may have a free seafood lunch from her. I'll get her to wait for me at the rockpool then I'll make my way down...I ain't waiting for her, shes going to have to wait for me this time.

You're right....I shouldn't have to alter my game for no one.
 

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And then after she left, Nat msged me late at night asking when I finish my coaching course and where I'll be because she wanted to meet for lunch afterwards. I've got nothing to lose...I may have a free seafood lunch from her.

when she suggested the lunch date

did you say "your shout" so she knows she is paying for you

David D says something about her making it up to you

i think this b*tch needs to get kicked to the kerb for how she treated you but i guess since you at the bottom of the barrel (with her) it can't hurt to use the situation as an experiment

1. provided this flakey h0 turns up

2. hopefully get her to pay

3. suss out for your experiment who she really is

you need to take her mask off and find out if she is this good girl she pretends to be or the crazy drunken h0 you witnessed outside the club ( my money is on the h0 lol )

to do this you must disarm her

total opposite of what you have been doing

you should be able to do that easy. just pretend she is a chick who has slept with 10 dudes and run your game like you normally would

to me lunch is her saying you in the friend zone

people that be sexing have dinner

but back to the experiment you just need to see the real her if only for a moment get her guard down. it will be enough never to believe some chick is totally innocent again and never alter your game for a "virgin/shy girl"

i learnt this lesson here

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59410&perpage=20&highlight=virgin&pagenumber=1

"another true story

this HOT b*tch who was a close friend was talking to her girlfriend at the dinner table about her current boyfriend.

i overheard the following.

" i told him i was a virgin " cause i know that makes guys treat me like a QUEEN

so after a few months he hires out a hotel and trys to make me feel all special, he spent alot of money on me, he starts taking his time and asking me if he is hurting me and stuff, i got so frustrated i was thinking to myself " just hurry up and f*ck me already "

now guys this chick is a HB9 and without doubt i can name 30 guys who have slept with her and i don't even know her circle of friends

A TRUE HO

you have all been warnered as to the tricks that women use !"

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59869&highlight=virgin

dude in situation with virgin stopped being a DJ

chick lost interest

he switched back to DJ mode and her interest rose

i am lost in reading some old posts using the search feature

be back later :)


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" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 

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LiT you are like a ghost behind me saying "itoldyouso, itoldyouso, itoldyouso"

The thing with this girl is like watching a movie and like you've already seen it and your trying to tell me "hey Rudy, it's crap don't bother."

I know for sure shes not a slut but it doesn't matter cause she was disrespecting me beforehand and bottom line is, even if mother teresa disrespected me I will have to learn not to put up with that sort of sh*t.

I'm feeling a bit cut about things ending today but thats just the wussy side of me. But as someone pointed out, a girl who does not satisfy you in the beginning will just prove be to a whole lot of trouble in the future. The reality is that I was getting attached to her, a case of oneitis. When I look at it now I could screen her and qualify her and she wouldnt meet most of my standards. A waste of time. Even though I feel a sense of loss (my AFC reaction), there's not a lot of things she could offer if I were to continue.

She also wouldn't make it up to me by shouting me lunch. Another sign of disinterest. And I got the LJBF bomb too to which I asked cool do you have hot girlfriends?

Although I was feeling a bit wounded, this has been great experience along with your help LiT. I also got a nice tan at the beach Because we met up over there. It was just silly that she hung out with me for 3 HOURS before she dropped the bomb. I did get a lot of looks from other girls tho...pity Nat's going to be missin out lol

Hey LiT I'll be reading up on you and checking out your previous posts...Thanx man.
 

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the Dust settles...I'm thinking a lil more wiser now

Now that I think about it theres a few pointers I'd like to write about. Mainly my mistakes lol

1. This girl gave me hassles lately. And i put up wit it. BAM sorry Rudy...critical mistake right there. I should have dusted her off. I can admit I lost my balls there.

2. Just because she's a virgin doesnt mean shes a good girl. I know a few virgins and they are absolute nutjobs, religious fruitcakes or feminist cows. Most are losers too

3. There was a few times she done me wrong and I gathered that surely I wouldnt be with a girl like this in the first place. Once she made a mistake I shoudve demonstrated that I am able to walk away.

4. The more I got to know her, the more info about her that just seems like dead weight and just wouldnt contribute for my own pleasures. Qualify and screen. They were shy and quiet and theres probably a reason for it. Most of the sh*t I know about her just doesnt sound fun and theres a lot of "oh i dont like this and i dont like that" and hardly anything she actually like to talk about.

5. Whenever my gut tells me I'm about to be the only entertainer and I have to literally open her up...its a sign that shes NOT a keeper and cut things immediately cos it will be a total waste of time. If i keep going then I basically dethrone her loser status because Ive taken over lol.

6. do not defend a girl...her actions will speak louder than anyones words. i defended her in this thread how shes innocent blah blah blah....well even if she hasn't done wh*rish sh*t doesnt mean shes a good girl.

Anyways Im going back to study...Hey LiT I checked up on you...you have some of the best post ive seen. Awesome
 

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Would I be wasting my time if a girl doesn't return my calls?

LiT made a point that girls are pretty much surgically joined with the mobiles...So there's pretty much no excuse for not calling...

In future if a girl takes her time does that mean that
1. She has little or no interest in me whatsoever
2. Too scared to call and just relies that I call again.
3. Playing games to peak my interest. (damn you to hell cleo, dolly etc).
4. Sh*t Testing me to see my reaction.

If so what kind of responses or action suits these particular scenario?

Does it mean I next'd the girl or be patient and spit game on other girls and not worry so much about the slacker.
 
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