So went out last night. Did my thing and ended up taking the girl to a hotel. Not how I want to things going forward because of financial aspect and also because I think some girls feels slutty about going to a hotel. She half jokingly said she felt like a ***** going to a hotel. We went either way. I faced some LMR. She saying that we barely know each other. We had sex. It was freakin great. I dropped her off at her house. She texts me that she is in showwe and in bed and for me to text her when I was home. She said thanks for a great night. I told her I had a great night with her that she's fun and sweet.
After sex I made sure to tell her it was amazing and that she was great. Women say they don't like when guys come and just go to sleep so I was awake and bring affectionate but she was kind of distant after.
She came first, missionary. I then turned her around for doggy style. But she was a bit resistant and said it hurt her a bit. Is that position better used later and not the first time? I felt like she felt too exposed.
What advice do you guys give me moving forward. Do I text her later in the day to say hello. I don't want her to think I just wanted sex and that's it. That she won't hear from me again. I think there was some comfort missing. If we were to go out again and know more about each other the sex would get better and better.