Takes long to put it on = all momentum is lost?

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Matt ala Casanova
Take this suggestion.....


Stop using latex condoms and use the non-latex type. The Avanti by Durex is great!! Believe me when I say, that you can feel every bit of her.

Have HER put the condom on so you don't lose momentum. Make it only part of the experience.

Try that and let us know...

M.A.C.
I'll add taking the condom out of the wrapper and putting it on the nightstand before you get started. Keep some KY or Astro-glide handy too. While you are keeping busy with her, she can take the initiative in getting you ready by (re)lubing the condom and putting it on you.
 

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Just hand the condom to her and smile "If it's not on, it's not ON".
Let her put the sucker on :)
If she's really skilled she might even use her mouth...eh.
 

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The answer is easy, quit fuxing worrying so much. If you've gotten to the point where your putting the condom on your the mofukkin man! Don't turn into a wuss once you've gotten there!
 

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haha...i once had that problem....but not anymore....here's wat i do....i just take out my condom and have her open it up....while she's doin this i'm keepin my hands busy....and talkin lil dirty to her....she loves it...by the time she gets the condom out...she's practically beggin me to do it!!....so she insists on putting it on by herself and just jumps me!! haha...
 

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How long are you taking to put that rubber on?

I've never known a girl to cool down in the space of time it takes to apply a condom. Maybe it happens though. And yeah, read princelydeeds' post - that's on the money.
 

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I happen to disagree with princelydeeds, on the dryness issue. There's no need or excuse for putting your c*ck into a DRY pu$$y. It means you haven't done your groundwork and is therefore PREMATURE. Can you say FOREPLAY people? That puss should NEVER be dry by the time your c*ck reaches it. Never. Never never NEVER. If you wanna please your woman that is :rolleyes: FOREPLAY!!!
 

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Bugsquish has a point. You really should have her good and lubed up before you try and penetrate. I find it odd that she dries up in the time it takes for you to put on a condom. I've never had this problem, except when I rushed or skipped foreplay. Perhaps you need to get a faster with putting on a rubber. Having her put it on sounds like a good idea. She'll have your erect penis in her hands, and probably quite close to her face, which should be a turn on for her, and you have your hands free to stimulate those yummy juices.
 

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Originally posted by bugsquish
I happen to disagree with princelydeeds, on the dryness issue. There's no need or excuse for putting your c*ck into a DRY pu$$y. It means you haven't done your groundwork and is therefore PREMATURE. Can you say FOREPLAY people? That puss should NEVER be dry by the time your c*ck reaches it. Never. Never never NEVER. If you wanna please your woman that is :rolleyes: FOREPLAY!!!
This isn't meant as a flame but IMHO your attitude is totally AFC. Its like you're only thought is trying to please sum chick. Why is it always about pleasing her? What about pleasing me? Pleasing me is waaaay more important than pleasing sum broad. I don't always feel like having a whole bunch of foreplay. On occasion with the right chick, I don't mind. But with most women, I could care less for all the foreplay. Im not a two minute guy, I believe in serving the pu$$y right but if she doesnt get hers then oh well she doesn't get hers. She will get over it.

I don't know how much experience you have but, some women don't get truly wet till you insert the d!ck. Im not trying to do mass amounts of lickin, suckin and kissin with every woman every time I have sex. In fact, most of the time I'm all about me. You can call me a plumber, cause I pride myself on laying sum great pipe, but if thats not enough then too bad.
 

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Originally posted by princelydeeds
This isn't meant as a flame but IMHO your attitude is totally AFC. Its like you're only thought is trying to please sum chick. Why is it always about pleasing her? What about pleasing me? Pleasing me is waaaay more important than pleasing sum broad. I don't always feel like having a whole bunch of foreplay. On occasion with the right chick, I don't mind. But with most women, I could care less for all the foreplay. Im not a two minute guy, I believe in serving the pu$$y right but if she doesnt get hers then oh well she doesn't get hers. She will get over it.

I don't know how much experience you have but, some women don't get truly wet till you insert the d!ck. Im not trying to do mass amounts of lickin, suckin and kissin with every woman every time I have sex. In fact, most of the time I'm all about me. You can call me a plumber, cause I pride myself on laying sum great pipe, but if thats not enough then too bad.
LOL! If being good in bed makes me AFC then so be it. Some of your women may not get totally wet until you insert the di*k, but that's because you're not arousing her. Being sh!t in bed is nothing to be proud of. Cus when your woman gets a taste of me do you think she's going to go back to you?

ANYONE can have sex. But pleasing your woman is a highly rewarding experience that takes a lot of work. Trust me, it's worth it. What's better, a woman dripping wet, scratching, biting, bucking and screaming in pleasure.... or a dry unresponsive plank? So you see it's not entirely selfless. It's good for the ego too. I like my women to remember me as a damn good ****.

It's a two way thing, otherwise you might as well go buy a blow up doll.
 
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