Take some ACTION!!

[Krueg]

If you dont take action you'll never know what works for you. So, many of us are wondering:

"Should I call or text her?"

"Whats a good response to this text?"

"When should I go in for the kiss?"

"Do I use No contact?"

and the list goes on..

The trurth is there is really no right or wrong answer. Your gonna get 10 guys saying you need to do X,Y and Z. Then 5 other guys will tell you A,B,C. Its the same thing in the GYM i go to. Some guys are powerlifters, others are bodybuilding, circuit training and ect.

There has to be a point where you man up, make up your own damn mind and take ACTION. Then you will see what truely works for you. If you been doing "A" for the past 6 months and your success and knowledge isn't improving, go for a new approach and try that. All the guys on here who are good with women had to take their own risks and chances and gained from it. Only by taking ACTION for yourself. You will find what works and what doesnt work. What worked for 20 guys may not work for you.

So get out in the field and learn something!

 

[pdx1138]

true, but it can also save someone Time and money to weigh suggestions then take action.

it's those that are given advice and don't take it that usually end up with their hand.

 

[Krueg]

true, but it can also save someone Time and money to weigh suggestions then take action.

it's those that are given advice and don't take it that usually end up with their hand.

I do agree with that as well. I just dont want to see guys being.. Dependent on SS to answer everything for them and have SS brain wash you to follow a certin belief or mindset.

Its good to have options and learn things. But, the true DJ's had to fly the nest and find what works for them.

 

[youngmack]

Herd

 

[BigT]

Hey man, I've been guilty of this myself, but the answer 99% of the time to any of the posts here is: do something. Take action.

Instead, most of us are whining about how evil women are, and we indulge in negative emotions and thoughts. Of course, it's a lot easier on our egos to blame someone else, than to risk rejection. It's sad, man. I don't know how much longer I can post on this forum.

But the answer is f-ck yeah, try something. Do something.

If you dont take action you'll never know what works for you. So, many of us are wondering:

"Should I call or text her?"

"Whats a good response to this text?"

"When should I go in for the kiss?"

"Do I use No contact?"

and the list goes on..

The trurth is there is really no right or wrong answer. Your gonna get 10 guys saying you need to do X,Y and Z. Then 5 other guys will tell you A,B,C. Its the same thing in the GYM i go to. Some guys are powerlifters, others are bodybuilding, circuit training and ect.

There has to be a point where you man up, make up your own damn mind and take ACTION. Then you will see what truely works for you. If you been doing "A" for the past 6 months and your success and knowledge isn't improving, go for a new approach and try that. All the guys on here who are good with women had to take their own risks and chances and gained from it. Only by taking ACTION for yourself. You will find what works and what doesnt work. What worked for 20 guys may not work for you.

So get out in the field and learn something!

 

[Gro0ver]

Another important message is this - don't care too much.

Let me give an example. On saturday night I went to the pub with some friends. At the moment I am really feeling like I can't be bothered with women at all, I'm exhausted from some recent problems/dilemma with who is now my ex.

I saw a lady I knew from my dance class. She introduced me to a friend and told me this friend is single. I'm like "ok whatever".

I talk to this girl a bit, there's some power plays from her, I verbally outmanouvre her somewhat and just don't rise to her games at all. I can tell there's some attraction to me. Later I see her again, she's about to go and she asks me for my number. I give it to her then go for the kiss close. She kisses me on the lips but then pulls away. I just smile at her. Physically she's still near to me. 30 seconds later I do the same thing again, with the same result. I'm never usually this forward so quickly but that night I just did not give a flying f***

She says "wow, you don't like not getting what you want, do you?"
I shrugged, "I get what I want eventually" and smiled.
She says "I'll text you some time, or maybe I won't..."
Me - shrugs, "It's all the same to me".

The next day she texts me and the game's afoot.

I also had another friend of a friend interested in me that night but I'm not gonna pursue it because she doesn't seem like my type.

Lessons learned:

- Not giving a f*** is a great mindset and is literally win-win
- Be gentle but go for what you want - no girl should hold it against you for being a man. Be brave and she will be impressed, even if she doesn't comply
- The more you care about the outcome with women, the less influence you have over said outcome! (that's why NC is so important when dealing with females who have you've grown attached to)

I seriously think this kind of attitude is way more powerful then any PUA nonsense, techniques, openings, etc.