Take away there power..

[cola]

Take away their power..

He's sexy. Works out, dresses nice, smells good, walks around like he has the biggest d*ck in the country;
But he doesn't seem to care about having sex with me. I've tried to tease him, sent him half naked pics and he just brushes it off. Barely acknowledges it.
- Mind Blown.

A paradox. To get them to want to screw you show little to no interest in sex. Give them a good time, invite them on dates but never attempt to have sex or kiss.
Watch her swoon.
It may take a little bit longer than usual but the sex will be better because you didn't have to harass her for it. I promise you she is going to damn near rape you if you are just a little patient. Play your cards right.
Don't mention sex, not even jokingly. Be totally outcome dependent.

Sex is the bargaining chip they use. If you show no interest in it they can't play their game. It works I promise you. Just genuinely listen and give valuable feedback be mad cool and chill and they will jump your bones.

It also shows value. Sex must be very accessible to this guy since he doesn't act like a horny 14yr old. That is what most guys do. Damn near beg their way in their pants. So take away the need for sex before these dates. Rub one out before and after if you have to but never show any interest in sex.

If it comes up, change the subject. Just listen and genuinely get to know her. Sex will come

**mod please change there in subject to their before the grammar Nazis take me away.

 

[GS750]

Former blogger Assanova talked about this. Make women wait on sex. It can be a powerful move depending on the girl. But at the same time I think it might blow up in a guys face if he waits too long...she may think he's not interested in her, inexperienced, etc. With an needy, clingy, or insecure type, I think this would definitely backfire. She'll just find a different d*ck to jump on because she's looking to lock someone down ASAP and she needs to fvck him to accomplish that.

https://realmademen.wordpress.com/2012/11/11/make-women-wait-on-sex/

 

[prison/con.net]

and just WHY would you want to fvck a needy,clingy/insecure type? You are not going to perish for the lack of pvssy, guys. wake up. But you CAN (easily) ruin your life by "getting' the wrong pvssy! get her pregnant, or catch HIV, etc, and you can be fvcked for life!

 

[Suspens]

Girls who chase guys for sex/commitment/attention/validation are not worth your time.


A confident HB knows what she wants and will hard-next you in a moment if you play this foolish game.

 

[GS750]

I agree prison. So she jumps on a new d*ck. Probably saved yourself some massive headaches in the long run.

 

[cola]

Girls who chase guys for sex/commitment/attention/validation are not worth your time.

Who told you that? Based on my life experience this is false. That chick who you think is "high value" will chase Will Smith if he gives her his number.

Hard to get = Low interest level


You think she's going to play hard to get if she thinks your that 1 and a million guy shes been waiting for?
Call Drake or Lil Wayne and ask how often women play hard to get with them..

 

[thatfeel]

I'm not gonna lie most women are just plain boring. If sex wasn't the goal I wouldn't even bother. So to rub one put before and after dated just kills it for me.

 

[cola]

I'm not gonna lie most women are just plain boring. If sex wasn't the goal I wouldn't even bother. So to rub one put before and after dated just kills it for me.

Of course sex is the goal..Eventaully. You are hardwired that way, its how nature made you, to want to procreate. We just ain't going to tell them that.

We aren't going to let it control us anymore. We are taking away their power to play with us.
You make her hamster spin

Not attempting sex speaks volumes. Says 1. I'm in control of my urges
2. I have options.
Both uber sexy traits

 

[thatfeel]

What I meant was I can't see myself or even see it being worth putting sex off arbitrarily to make myself seem more valuable. You can get it from any girl on the first date if you plan ahead and create the environment for it to happen. Outside of this mindset women bore me. They're fun to flirt with but that's about it.

 

[cola]

Ah, I see. You just don't like hanging with them period.
Well I don't mind. I like hearing peoples stories, seeing what makes them tick.

If I were you Thatfeel i'd just bang sexy escorts.
(not sarcasm)
Might end up cheaper in the long run and you won't have to deal with the bs at all.

Despite what society tells you[you don't strike me as the type who cares what society thinks] it's no shame in that. It's an honest business transaction.

But to say you can bang any girl on the first date is just not true. If you find it to be so, make a thread explaining how.

 

[Igetit!]

Cola...you think maybe you could break this down a little farther,maybe put it into steps to help everyone get a better understanding of how this is supposed to work?

Above ALL ELSE, there's really only one question I have about this "make them wait"/"don't show sexual interest" strategy you're advocating here.....


WHEN? When do you start this? Look at everything this "Mind Blown" chick said.....

He's sexy. Works out, dresses nice, smells good, walks around like he has the biggest d*ck in the country;
But he doesn't seem to care about having sex with me. I've tried to tease him, sent him half naked pics and he just brushes it off. Barely acknowledges it.
- Mind Blown.

She's says this guy is sexy,that he works out,dresses nice,etc,etc,but that he doesn't seem to care about wanting sex with her,despite her teasing him and sending him naked pics.


Ok,uhhh.....that doesn't seem like a COLD APPROACH. It doesn't seem like this chick was just out somewhere minding her own business,then this guy stepped to her,exchanged names,and started a conversation.........it seems like they've ALREADY been out on a couple dates. I mean the chick mentioned sending half-naked pics to the dude.
That generally doesn't happen on a cold approach.


So again........WHEN EXACTLY is the guy supposed to act like he has no sexual interest in the girl?

A paradox. To get them to want to screw you show little to no interest in sex. Give them a good time, invite them on dates but never attempt to have sex or kiss.
Watch her swoon.

This sounds good and all,but if you never show ANY INTEREST,starting from date 1 to at least date 4 or 5,you'll usually run a greater risk of getting friendzoned,making her think you're not interested in her,or her questioning your sexuality than making her "swoon" and wanting to tear your clothes off.

I promise you she is going to damn near rape you if you are just a little patient.

Ok,ummm....you speaking from experience,or is this just something you read? You say to be patient. Ok,but WHEN? How many dates in is this supposed to last?

I'm sorry man,but I need "ABC"/ "Step 1,2,3" specifics

**mod please change there in subject to their before the grammar Nazis take me away.

Sorry man,I tried to edit it.....wouldn't let me.

You're 25 years old....learn the difference between "there" and "their".

 

[thatfeel]

Lol rekt

 

[cola]

No prob bro.

Cola...you think maybe you could break this down a little farther,maybe put it into steps to help everyone get a better understanding of how this is supposed to work?


1. You meet her.

2. The usual call her get her on a date.

3. Show her a good time. I mean a really good time. Focus on having fun with her and the usual building attraction. Kino, leading, Acing her tests

4. Isolate her like you usually would, get her to your place or into hers. However, this is where most guys would try to push sex. I advise you don't.

5. Wash, rinse and repeat. While keeping attraction high.

6. She will start teasing. Nude pics you didn't ask for, the infamous "let me change into something comfortable a.k.a slutty" say "nice" and ignore it.

7. Her hamsters going to spin. The hotter she is the better this works. They need that validation. Don't give.

8. She's going to either whip your d*ck out for you or do something to make it so easy for you, it's like taking candy from a baby.

9. Gunwitch method. Best sex she ever had.

10. Shes in the palm of your hands.



Above ALL ELSE, there's really only one question I have about this "make them wait"/"don't show sexual interest" strategy you're advocating here.....

See above

WHEN? When do you start this? Look at everything this "Mind Blown" chick said.....
This is after the cold approach/introduction during the dating process.





She's says this guy is sexy,that he works out,dresses nice,etc,etc,but that he doesn't seem to care about wanting sex with her,despite her teasing him and sending him naked pics.


Ok,uhhh.....that doesn't seem like a COLD APPROACH. It doesn't seem like this chick was just out somewhere minding her own business,then this guy stepped to her,exchanged names,and started a conversation.........it seems like they've ALREADY been out on a couple dates. I mean the chick mentioned sending half-naked pics to the dude.
That generally doesn't happen on a cold approach.

This is during the dating process



So again........WHEN EXACTLY is the guy supposed to act like he has no sexual interest in the girl?

During the dating proxess



This sounds good and all,but if you never show ANY INTEREST,starting from date 1 to at least date 4 or 5,you'll usually run a greater risk of getting friendzoned,making her think you're not interested in her,or her questioning your sexuality than making her "swoon" and wanting to tear your clothes off.

I disagree. If she is attracted to you she won't friendzone you.





Ok,ummm....you speaking from experience,or is this just something you read? You say to be patient. Ok,but WHEN? How many dates in is this supposed to last?

everything I post on SoSuave is from experience.
I'm sorry man,but I need "ABC"/ "Step 1,2,3" specifics



Sorry man,I tried to edit it.....wouldn't let me.

You're 25 years old....learn the difference between "there" and "their".
I've been mixing them up since 2nd grade lol

Hope that helps.

 

[cola]

http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2009/08/readers-dilemma-im-dating-a-gu
Look at this. Proof of my point she's going nuts.

 

[bigneil]

As the glamour article shows, while this theory is true, you can take it too far. There will come a time when she knows you have her, and you must make the bold move. If you fail to advance during certain key moments, the woman will decide you are either not interested, gay, playing hard to get, or too shy to make a move. Their interest level will then go down, not up. If she spends the night with you, you must make a move.

Venus favors the bold.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Big_neil is correct

Ive played this game and it only goes down well with girls that are below your smv , anything remotely higher or at least thinks its higher wont work she will merely dismiss you and find guy whos going to take control of her

You can’t let women play the game on their own they will make mistakes and eventually throw the whole thing in the bin out of frustration or boredom whichever comes first

Each sex has its own role to play in the game .......women to start it , men to finish it

If she is attracted to you She knows she has to make herself available to you ......its your job to then escalate into sex if you do not her interest will start declining rapidly

 

[El Payaso]

Girls who chase guys for sex/commitment/attention/validation are not worth your time.


A confident HB knows what she wants and will hard-next you in a moment if you play this foolish game.

You sound like a woman.

 

[Obsidian]

I disagree with the main concept. If you show no interest in sex then that turns you into an asexual being. The sexual vibe should always be there, even if it is unspoken or not acted upon.

 

[Yewki]

That chick who you think is "high value" will chase Will Smith if he gives her his number.

You think she's going to play hard to get if she thinks your that 1 and a million guy shes been waiting for?

Call Drake or Lil Wayne and ask how often women play hard to get with them..

As someone else pointed out, you're basically arguing guys with higher value can sit back and let the girl initiate sex... but, that's pretty obvious. The problem is two fold though,

1) We're not all famous celebrities
2) Why would you want a girl who is lower value than you anyways?

He's sexy. Works out, dresses nice, smells good, walks around like he has the biggest d*ck in the country;
But he doesn't seem to care about having sex with me. I've tried to tease him, sent him half naked pics and he just brushes it off. Barely acknowledges it.
- Mind Blown.

Yeah and this guy is probably above her in value and doesn't even want to bang.

 

[KingBeef]

As the glamour article shows, while this theory is true, you can take it too far. There will come a time when she knows you have her, and you must make the bold move. If you fail to advance during certain key moments, the woman will decide you are either not interested, gay, playing hard to get, or too shy to make a move. Their interest level will then go down, not up. If she spends the night with you, you must make a move.

Venus favors the bold.

^^^ THIS...

Cola, Your advice is solid (this does work on hot - extremely hot girls)....BUT, the fairly attractive/demure/shy types? this can backfire. These women know the deal, THEY NEED TO BE THE DAMSEL IN DISTRESS AND YOU PLAY THE ROLE OF THE HERO...

In my "physical peak" (which is debatable) I was very close to that guy. BUT, I wasn't going out with 9's, more of the 6.5-8 range. Reason being, THEY WERE JUST EASIER AT THE TIME...LOL. If you wait too long or ignore her (because you're busy with other plates, just not interested, you play it to conservative, etc...) you will get everything in the spectrum from straight up hate, indifference, "he must be gay," etc. This is all from experience.

Nevertheless, good post.