Take away her power of sex.

[OamImrsNemo]

So i dont know what to do about this situation it has happend multiple times. She tells me how horney she is earlier, we dont have a chance to **** yet. Then we get home and she wants to watch a movie? Ok fine. Then she falls asleep wtf how do I get this chick to put out more often?

 

[T-Mack]

I hope you're not really watching the movie! Make moves on her and get her into it so she won't fall asleep and get bored with you.

 

[OamImrsNemo]

I try but then she gets all pissy at me and gets mad. Then I get frustrated in turn.

 

[C-quenced]

So i dont know what to do about this situation it has happend multiple times. She tells me how horney she is earlier, we dont have a chance to **** yet. Then we get home and she wants to watch a movie? Ok fine. Then she falls asleep wtf how do I get this chick to put out more often?

You don't. Just go out and bang a different one lol.
I was only joking but thats a good question though.


J/J b

 

[sodbuster]

Call her on it next time-she's all horney-well we might as well do it right now on the folks kitchen table,cause you won't want to when we get you home. If she wants to watch a movie- after we fu&k. She is getting someone to go out with,cuddle with while watching a movie.She's getting HER needs met without offering sex.She's got you by the balls and you are reluctant to pull away.

SHE is teasing you,leading you on pretending to offer sex and you are falling for it. Then you need to ask us what is going on? She's a TEASE and you have no one else to replace her with,so you are worried about FIXING her. Well, I'd drop her and find a new one. It's easier to train a new horse than one who has thrown you off or run you under a short branch. You CAN train a n old horse,but it MUST involve pain or stern hands on the reins-YOU may have to pull her head back to her chest with them to retrain her.

 

[Dex Bama]

Invite her to your place or at least not her place where she has all her usual things to do when she is bored. Use Speed seduction routines, Ross Jeffries, then you must atleast be getting her hot and wet before ya'll make out. go caveman and make moves like her body is yours to feel as you please. when she stops you freeze her out, turn on the tv to something you know she will hate, maybe some boring history or somethin, she'll get bored then tried to gain you're attention back, make out with her again make your moves and keep that pattern going of freezing her out when she stops your hands.

 

[starplayer]

It's happened multiple times???

After the first time it happened you should have been very suspicious. Withholding sex is a massive red flag. It's usually caused by low attraction, but could also be a game to manipulate you. Either way, it's bad news.

So you gave her the benefit of the doubt - fair enough, but it happened again. This is when you should have realized something was seriously wrong. The second time it happened you should have backed off and withheld attention.

Seriously, I know this may be an oversimplification, but generally as a comparison of male-female dynamics: SEX = ATTENTION. Men value sex very highly while women value attention very highly. So when she gives less sex, you give less attention. It's like men and women's currencies.

At the moment it's like Sodbuster said - she's getting her needs met (attention) while you're not getting your needs met (sex). You're falling into the friendzone role of cuddle b!tch. Sort it out!

If she won't put out, stop hanging around her looking for scraps. Right now she has NO FEAR YOU WILL WALK AWAY. She's got too comfortable. Shake it up a bit. Spark attraction. Get her wet for you again. Turn her on.
COMFORT =/= ATTRACTION.

Spin more plates.

 

[DangNammit]

I'm seeing a gal who would get it on rather well. We'd get to the point where sex was the next step and she'd put the breaks on. This happened two dates in a row (even with the opportunity to have sex).

The next date, she invited me back to her place to 'hang out' - I'm thinking slam-dunk... As we were getting it on, I started to sense I was going to get more of the same as she seemed to be tensing up a bit...

Sensing this, as we were kissing, I glanced at my watch and told her I didn't realize how late it was and that I had a ton to do the next day. I pulled away a bit and started to gather myself and she attacked me ten times as strong...

Seemed to do the trick for me - 5 min later she led me up the stairs to her room.

I think there's a lot to being able to walk away from it. If you take the pressure off them, they have much more room to move...

 

[OamImrsNemo]

Well Sat night when she witheld sex really pissed me off.Then I was foolin around with her and was sucking on her neck and gave her a huge hicky! (on accident wasnt trying) nonetheless she got super pissed at me and slept on the opposite side of the bed...well I was sick of the bs and left like an hour later. She didnt notice till later the morn when she called me twice. It was like 5 am so I was passed out. Well she hasnt tried to contact me since and Im not gonna try to contact her so if she wants to call me and apologise thats fine but I see her in the wrong. So she should have to call or text me again. right?

 

[sodbuster]

DON"T get pissed, you just walk nonchelontly [sp?] away. Like you HAVE another option-she isn't that important[other places to be, other people to do]. Being pissed is acting like a spoiled brat,not a man. OR try the "going to leave "gambit

 

[OamImrsNemo]

True true being pissy was spoiled brattish... But do you think she should have to contact me for acting like a snatch or what?

 

[catman]

DON"T get pissed, you just walk nonchelontly [sp?] away. Like you HAVE another option-she isn't that important[other places to be, other people to do]. Being pissed is acting like a spoiled brat,not a man. OR try the "going to leave "gambit

Listen to sodbuster he knows his stuff very very well!! Heres my thoughts on this; This woman has some sex issues that she will prolly never admit to anybody. Next she will say if you only did this or that for me i would feel like haveing sex with you more often Then u will try to do these things for her and she will find yet another hoop that you must jump threw and this will continue until you finally give up on her and move on. The woman shuts off the sex and the man stops talking to her happens every time!! Shut her off the sex let her see how it feels!!!

 

[sodbuster]

WOMEN are NEVER wrong. She's never going to admit to being wrong AND you can't change or control it.ALL you can do is control yourself-when she doesn't live up to your standards,you warn her once. Second time, she's gone.

Like another poster once said," if I have to do magic tricks to get laid,I'll make her disappear."

SHE only has the power YOU give her.

 

[Kailex]

Well she hasnt tried to contact me since and Im not gonna try to contact her so if she wants to call me and apologise thats fine but I see her in the wrong. So she should have to call or text me again. right?

Hell will freeze over.
Pigs will fly.
The apocalypse will happen before she ever calls back just to apologize.

Don't hold your breath, it isn't going to happen.

She's not going to call you again unless she has no other options, specially since she knows what buttons to press. I'd say that you just move on entirely and forget about this girl. Even if you have nothing better to do on a given night and she calls, just don't go out with her.

There'll only be more frustration when the night ends.

 

[DanelMadr]

You lucky SOB. Just today I watched video from Mystery dealing with this problem...last minute resistance. You are lucky because I don't like Mystery that much and me watching his videos was pure coincidence. But his advice seemed reasonable...

Withholding sex doesn't have to mean manipulation attempt. Sometimes girls want to know if you will stick around no matter what. Are you two serious and knowing it?

Therefore don't let it phase you. Certainly don't call her on that.
But you can't keep cuddling with her either. You have to signal her, you are going to stick around and that you are not a cuddle b!tch either. (if you don't want to stick around and you make her believe you will...you will burn in hell:nono: )

If you value only her vagina I suggest you move on...it is better than to play silly games and lie.

On the technique or more details try to look out for 'Mystery FREEZE OUT' on youtube.

 

[the305]

The freeze out method: its trying to plant the message of "you don't want her just for sex and its ok if you just hangout" into her head 10 minutes after you tried to put your hand down her pants and she stopped you. lmao... come on now.


If you want consistent results:
You're going to need to run solid comfort/sexual game from the beginning, and always seed the "im not just talking to you to get in your pants" you cant seed that when you guys are already making out and you go to remove pants or whatever.

 

[OamImrsNemo]

Well she did end up calling me. Not apologizing but she called. We hung out and we did fvck But we had another argument later haha. But Im gonna go at it with a new mentality hopefully to stop the arguing. Also to get her comfortable and s3x more and not just be a cuddle b!tch. Only thing is and I want all your opinions on this as well. Do you think it hurts my game now that her sister hates me? After all the drama between me and chick over the weekend and now her sister doesnt like me at all.. Think that will affect anything?