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Somebody tell me....what does it mean to protray good body language so my non-verbal cues come off more as a Don Juan. It feels like one minute, I have it, the next minute, I lose it, and I think it has something to do with my body language.

And let me ask you guys this...you are probably going to think I;m crazy, but **** it, I am!

Sometimes when talkin with women on the phone or in person or even talking with people period, I feel this invisible flow, and its like its flowing between me and everybody and when I have this flow, man listen, I am the true ****ing Don juan! But when its not there, I still do the Don Juan stuff, but it doesnt work without the flow. My question is, what is the flow, if you guys know what the hell I;m talkin about. I cant really explain it, but I know it is something that happens on the inside of me and I feel it, and when its there, Wham! Im getting all the hoes, I am the man, I am the coolest mother****er around and I know it and others know it. But when its not, its like I hit bankrupt or something.

Listen, I still do the Don Juan stuff, but without that flow thing, it doesnt work. Does anybody have any suggestions on what that is, because if I know how to turn that on at all times, I will be ****ing every girl in Detroit!
 

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I suppose that the flow is 'self-confidence', the engine that helps complement the words you say with the voice tone and body language you display. Without self-confidence, you may find yourself saying all the things taught at this site without actually believing it deep inside. Women sense that and do not allow it to create attraction inside of them. There is no way you could fool them from seeing what you are actually feeling. You gotta feel proud of yourself so that the words can do their magic.
 

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Okay disturbed you are right, listen dawg, I naturally do all this don juan ****, just when that flow leaves, dawg, when I do it, its like, **** that nigga! Listen man, **** it I ll give you 1,000 dollars, just tell me more about this self confidence inner feeling ****, so I can do this don juan **** 24/7 man! (Hehe, I was playing bout the 1,000 dollars).

Just tell me where it comes from, how to get it, how to keep it, how to and all that ****! Good looking out dawg.
 

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
Okay disturbed you are right, listen dawg, I naturally do all this don juan ****, just when that flow leaves, dawg, when I do it, its like, **** that nigga! Listen man, **** it I ll give you 1,000 dollars, just tell me more about this self confidence inner feeling ****, so I can do this don juan **** 24/7 man! (Hehe, I was playing bout the 1,000 dollars).

Just tell me where it comes from, how to get it, how to keep it, how to and all that ****! Good looking out dawg.
According to the Gunwitch Method (which I mostly disagree with), you should work yourself up into a sexual state before approaching a woman. Chances are, when this flow occurred, you were horny for the women and she was horny for you.

Can I have my $1000 now? :)
 

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On Masf they call this state of mind 'vibing'. Self explanitory really, but theres an more indepth post on this concept way over there on the dark side of the moon...hehe.
 

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Now acopolyse, I didnt understand that. Okay let me explain, I do all the don juan stuff naturally, but...and this is a big but....when that flow aint there, its like, **** that dude! What is that flow, I dont know about the sexual state, because Im always like that, been like that since 3 years old! hehe! Come on....I agreed with Disturbed, I dont know where he went, but I know its some kind of inner confidence thing, because people have always told me I show a lot of confidence outside, but its got to be inside to, or it may come off as fake. Oh, and as for the 1,000 dollars, uh, bill me.
 

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listen dawg, I naturally do all this don juan ****, just when that flow leaves, dawg, when I do it, its like, **** that nigga!
Ask yourself what caused this flow to leave. I suppose that your targets did not demonstrate the response that you had anticipated when you executed your moves. That instills feelings of frustration and makes you doubt your abilities. From then on your game is dead. Tell you what, don't care about the responses and keep playing on like initially planned. If you are able to maintain the flow, chances are you are going to start seeing plausible results.

Just tell me where it comes from, how to get it, how to keep it, how to and all that ****!
I assume you have got other things going on in your life apart from girls. It could be a sports, a career or a hobby. If you could master it, you will feel very proud of yourself. This form of pride will also be evident in your interactions with girls. So if you don't got one, seek one out and make yourself perfect at it. You will soon reflect on such success to keep the flow going.
 

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Okay Disturbed, you said keep on playing like I initially planned, that is true, because I have had situations in the past, where people were blowing me off, but I didnt get frustrated or allow them to make me doubt my abilities, I continued with what I was doing, and eventually changed the whole dame atmosphere! But honestly, I just dont understand the ****! Hehe. I m this type of guy, show me and teach me, I might do it good a couple of times but I will soon **** up because I dont understand. But allow me to understand, and man, I cant be stopped by nothing! This has been proved in the past!

I think what Im trying to understand, is not women, not don juan tactics, but that inner feeling that you said is frustration which leads to doubt. But how can I maintain my intial thing, and not switch over to frustration. Man, I think I am starting to understand this ****! Now, I will have to carry a pack of condoms everywhere I go!
 

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In my opinion a Don Juan is a guy so inaffected by the outside world that insults, rejections and ignores thrown at him would not affect his intentions. That could be equated as an obnoxious jerk by others; but what others think is not in your best interests. The bottom line is that each one knows what is most important to self and should not be dissuaded from pursuing it. When you start waffling it is seen as a sign of weakness; not an attractive trait. At all costs show the alpha-male side of you and never back down on it.
 

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There are ways of getting the feeling back when you're in flow. Have you heard of the Pavlov's dog experiments?

a russian scientist would ring a bell every time he fed his dogs until he'd only have to ring the bell and they'd start slobbering.

When you're going out clubbing you're probably in a good mood because you know something usually good happens, like you see your freinds, dance and get drunk. That's why when someone says "Wanna go clubbing?" you go "YEAH!" and when someone says "Want to do my homework?" you flip out and kick their ass.

So, how to get the flow feeling anytime? Next time you're in flow, do something, like tap your thigh in a particular way or hold your thumb and middle finger together all the time you're in flow till the point where if you touch your thumb and finger together you start to feel like you did when you were really good.

It's called an anchor, because it's something that holds you to an emotion like an anchor holds a boat to the sea bed. I try to do it and it does work, but it takes a lot of practice.
 
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