T|CK's 100 approach jornal (let the games begin where 100 will be the end)

[T|CK]

Ok, props to Jayer for trying. I was inspired to start my own thread of approaches. So, I'll start with the 2 that I've already done.

Approach 1
On Sunday I was in the gym working out. The chick that was working the desk was reading a book. So, I walked over and asked her about her book. I found out it was a Christian book, and we started talking about church. I invited her to my church, and she gave me her number. I'll be calling her tomorrow.

Approach 2
Yesterday I was at the doctors office where I saw a girl I see at work frequently. Her name was called, she went in, and was out before my name was called. She told me "bye" and walked out the door. I immediately got up and walked out behind her. I stopped her in the hall, and we talked for a good 10 minutes. I ended the conversation by getting her phone number and making plans to go get a beer some time next week.

I did talk to a chick on the elevator today, but I won't count it as an approach because absolutely nothing was accomplished except a good laugh.


Approaches 2
Numbers 2
Rejections 0
Dates 0
Flakes 0
98 to go
Day 3 (08/03/08)

 

[T|CK]

I have my eye on the beautiful, blue-eyed brunette in my Sunday School class. She seemed to be right next to me talking to me everywhere I went last Sunday. So, next time I see her, I will approach her.

 

[AKA FLEX]

100 approaches shouldn't take any longer than a week if you're serious about stepping up your game. It's all about volume. To get better at anything, you've gotta do it over and over and over and over and over, on a daily basis. That's why Michael Jordan shot at least 1,000 free throws every day.

 

[T|CK]

100 approaches shouldn't take any longer than a week if you're serious about stepping up your game. It's all about volume. To get better at anything, you've gotta do it over and over and over and over and over, on a daily basis. That's why Michael Jordan shot at least 1,000 free throws every day.

This is exactly why I'm doing this. I'm not good at meeting women at all. Sitting here and reading tips on my computer will get me no where without putting it into action. It's time to face my fears and overcome them and tweak my game in the process.

I won't be counting any drunken aproaches. It's my sober game that I'm working on. Besides my mouth screws up everything when I'm drunk.

 

[T|CK]

I met a girl on plentyoffish.com, and she was totally into me, but once I found out she was taller than me, I told her that I wasn't really interested.

So, I deleted her phone number, and I deleted her from my instant messenger.

Oh well they can't get all of the men they want. Sometimes they get turned down, too.

 

[rushing dude 123]

good job man looks like ur first two approaches were done with ease thats the sort of energy u need to keep and improve.

Also well done on not including ur liquid courage , but only ur own. Being drunk usually harms my game though anyway lol.

Keep in the field man.

 

[T|CK]

You know, the more I chase these women, the more desperate I get. The more desperate I get, the more down I get. I'd rather just not look for women. I think I'm going to end this 100 approach crap and stop trying. I have so much more success when I don't try. When I'm not looking, women come to me, and that's much better than being on the chase.

I think looking for ways to get women interested in you is just a form of putting women on pedestals. When you put women on pedestals, you become so desperate and so unhappy. So, that's the end of this thread because there is no way I'm putting women above me.

I don't NEED them.

 

[ARrocket]

You know, the more I chase these women, the more desperate I get. The more desperate I get, the more down I get. I'd rather just not look for women. I think I'm going to end this 100 approach crap and stop trying. I have so much more success when I don't try. When I'm not looking, women come to me, and that's much better than being on the chase.

I think looking for ways to get women interested in you is just a form of putting women on pedestals. When you put women on pedestals, you become so desperate and so unhappy. So, that's the end of this thread because there is no way I'm putting women above me.

I don't NEED them.

I say DO NOT end this thread because making a commitment to yourself to make yourself better is not "putting women above you." You are simply improving one facet of your life. You don't have to go approach a ton of women per day, but when the opportunity arises, you should strike (and that's precisely what this is all about). It's not about quantity, but quality, and improving yourself. It doesn't matter if you take months to get to 100 approaches, but you should still do it.

With that said, it doesn't really matter if you continue to update the thread or not; just keep approaching

 

[rushing dude 123]

If my goals was to get a gf or load of girls i wud get no where, if my goal was to improve myself, talk more confident, get use to talking to girls, try find what style works for me, i would get somewhere. The whole point of this is to improve urself. The only way u can improve myself is if u aim to improve myself, instead of waiting for something to fall on ur lap. Ur right u wud get more girls if u stopped trying, but it wud b much harder to improve. Just imagine if u didn't do anything before u came to this site, u wud b no where (no girls) same rules apply. I plan to get what i want from this place and then "stop trying" and that way i get maximum outcome. I also believe the final step of a dj is to give it up and stop trying, but thats just me, the question is when will u give it up.

"I have my eye on the beautiful, blue-eyed brunette in my Sunday School class. She seemed to be right next to me talking to me everywhere I went last Sunday. So, next time I see her, I will approach her."

things like this wud screw u up, don't think about approaching her, don't even think about her whats the point. Just do ur own thing and if the oppurtunity showed itself then go. Don't say ur going to approach, just wait for the oppurtunitys to show themselves. So u walk in sunday school, u c her walking in front of u.... there!!!!!!!approach dammit. instead of thinking about it before ur even in the situation. If u can do that u can work that thing u talked about to ur advantage.

Now like always think what u like about my advice, its just advice. Go for whatever ur heart is truly telling u.

Hope u make the right choice man.

 

[T|CK]

Three hit ups in one night

Approach 3
The 1st approach was with a 40 year old, married hottie. I told her and her husband she was beautiful. She wouldn't leave me alone after that. She showed me her tits in the bar after her husband walked away. Then we went on the dance floor and she tried to shove her tongue down my throat. I quickly ended the dance and took her back to the bar and got away. I didn't need that kind of trouble.

Approach 4
I wouldn't quite call this an approach, but it was the first time I had ever met this girl. My best friend brought this girl to the bar. She kept flirting with me and touching me. My buddy got pissed. I told her he was mad at me because he thought she liked me. She shrugged her shoulders and said maybe so. So, I ignored her, but she kept coming to me, touching, and hugging me. My friend got pissed and left. I felt really bad about it. She asked me to dance, so we did and she kissed me. Dammit. She gave me her number, but I won't be calling her.

Approach 5
The same night I saw a girl I made eye contact with earlier that evening. I walked over to her and just talked about whatever. She was very interested in me. We started holding hands across the bar. A friends wanted a picture of us, so I said "let's kiss". So, we kissed for the picture. She went to the bathroom, and I left. I really wasn't into it because I had pissed off my friend.

Approaches 5
Numbers 3
Rejections 0
Dates 0
Flakes 0
95 to go
Day 3 (08/18/08)

 

[DonGorgon]

good luck

 

[T|CK]

good luck

Thanks