Sympathy for women gets you laid

[Thebestthereeveris]

If your a cool guy and actually take the womens perspexrivie into consideration she will like you more be comfortable with you which will make her more likely to sleep with you. I now ask girls on dating apps if they feel comfortable with giving their number and they thank me cause it’s so uncomfortable giving their number to a man who can potentially hurt them. She eventually did and now she’s my fvxk buddy. Solid 9 Latina. Go slow and be patient. Used to read book of pook and he said patience was his number one reason he did so well now I know why

 

[member160292]

My ex of 2 years told me I was the only one she responded to on Hinge because I crafted long messages. Sometimes being a beta works depending on the situation. I assumed she was from Japan and needed everything spelled out, luckily it turned out to be the case.

 

[Billtx49]

If your a cool guy and actually take the womens perspexrivie into consideration she will like you more be comfortable with you which will make her more likely to sleep with you. I now ask girls on dating apps if they feel comfortable with giving their number and they thank me cause it’s so uncomfortable giving their number to a man who can potentially hurt them. She eventually did and now she’s my fvxk buddy. Solid 9 Latina. Go slow and be patient. Used to read book of pook and he said patience was his number one reason he did so well now I know why

Yes,
What do you really think about it ?
How do you feel about that ?
are your biggest convo guns on the slow roll…
Use them and their derivatives enough, she’ll think you Really understand and connect with her.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

My ex of 2 years told me I was the only one she responded to on Hinge because I crafted long messages. Sometimes being a beta works depending on the situation. I assumed she was from Japan and needed everything spelled out, luckily it turned out to be the case.

Haha yes. Best scenario is she views you as the bf type who fvxk her like a top alpha

 

[EyeBRollin]

The word is empathy. Not sympathy.

Empathy is a great trait when dealing with women however there is one caveat:

She must be interested in you.

Women do not care at all when this condition is not met. Interest level is what matters. You can be the male version of Mother Theresa and it won’t matter one bit if the interest level is not there.

Yes, empathy will increase her interest level if the prospect is live.

 

[TheProspect]

Yes, empathy will increase her interest level if the prospect is live.

Oh, I'm live buddy.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Yes, empathy will increase her interest level if the prospect is live.

Compared to what, banging dead chicks?

 

[redskinsfan92]

The word is empathy. Not sympathy.

Empathy is a great trait when dealing with women however there is one caveat:

She must be interested in you.

Women do not care at all when this condition is not met. Interest level is what matters. You can be the male version of Mother Theresa and it won’t matter one bit if the interest level is not there.

Yes, empathy will increase her interest level if the prospect is live.

Bingo

 

[SW15]

Empathy and sympathy are not the same thing. Neither trait matters too much without physical attraction. I'd rather be a 6'0"+ guy with big muscles.

 

[Mike32ct]

Empathy is great to have in a relationship.

But physical attraction definitely comes first.

If you are unattractive to her but still empathic, you are a very good candidate for friendzone.

 

[Barrister]

Sympathy, by itself, simply gets you orbiter status. Yes, it can be used effectively in certain situations, but never over-do it.

In early dating, mystery and physical attraction are far more important. Letting her do the talking is generally very effective and may make her think you’re very sympathetic. But, this is more of a byproduct of being mysterious and not saying very much (in comparison to her).

 

[thelambofdeth]

Lol OP is trolling. Women don't gaf about sympathy. Especially from a rando. If anything it makes you less attractive. Now empathy from a guy they're already interested in? TOTALLY different. Women want to be understood by men they're attracted to, not pitied by some dude.

 

[Tilex]

I've never heard this one before.
This is more like 18th century, just discovering America as a Pilgrim advice.

 

[Fruitbat]

Stable, intelligent women by and large like men who are kind and intelligent shocker!

For damaged women, the reverse is true.

 

[DeCarlo]

Stable, intelligent women by and large like men who are kind and intelligent shocker!

For damaged women, the reverse is true.

Women from damaged households prefer to be treated bad.

 

[SW15]

Stable, intelligent women by and large like men who are kind and intelligent shocker!

For damaged women, the reverse is true.

Women from damaged households prefer to be treated bad.

If you're doing random cold approaching outdoors or in a gym/grocery store/mall in a large city, you're more likely to be meeting damaged women. Might even be worse later in the night at a bar/nightclub.

Be 6'0"+ with big muscles.

 

[DeCarlo]

If you're doing random cold approaching outdoors or in a gym/grocery store/mall in a large city, you're more likely to be meeting damaged women. Might even be worse later in the night at a bar/nightclub.

Be 6'0"+ with big muscles.

All the Gen Z and Zillennial gymcels say hi.
Just being tall with muscles doesnt mean you get laid. The slim Italian/Korean guy with game, personality and good looks wins everytime. Seen it many times. (Or check out the "Eboys")
It's 2022, we're in the 2020s. Many guys are trying to "looks max" now. Having muscles isnt as special as it used to be. That was true for the 2010s imo.

 

[SW15]

All the Gen Z and Zillennial gymcels say hi.
Just being tall with muscles doesnt mean you get laid.

It makes it a lot easier to get laid. Sure, more men are obsessed with amplifying their looks. Big muscles are the 2nd best asset that you can have, besides being 6'0"-6'5".

 

[thelambofdeth]

All the Gen Z and Zillennial gymcels say hi.
Just being tall with muscles doesnt mean you get laid. The slim Italian/Korean guy with game, personality and good looks wins everytime. Seen it many times. (Or check out the "Eboys")
It's 2022, we're in the 2020s. Many guys are trying to "looks max" now. Having muscles isnt as special as it used to be. That was true for the 2010s imo.

Sure, most guys with all that will have no trouble getting laid, but most guys who are ripped are going to have good looks, game, personality or any combination of those. In most cases they won't be totally devoid of all other positive attributes, and second only to good looks, being in great shape is the most important physical aspect a man can have.

 

[DeCarlo]

Sure, most guys with all that will have no trouble getting laid, but most guys who are ripped are going to have good looks, game, personality or any combination of those. In most cases they won't be totally devoid of all other positive attributes, and second only to good looks, being in great shape is the most important physical aspect a man can have.

I agree looks is the most important factor. Just saying "just get muscles" doesnt work anymore in the 2020s. Literally every youtube video, reddit thread and Andrew Tate type mofo online is telling guys to Looksmax. And even if only 10% do that, thats still a ****load of guys. Ive seen waaay more in shape men in the last two years than the 2010s as a decade.

So what Im saying is yes it matters, but its not all that matters. Youd even argue nowadays considering the 'tinder experiments' videos even show and prove even Chad builds only convert a minority of leads with OLD that it isnt as important as it used to be.
Also, not all cultures of women desire a chad build.

And even the States I have had women tell me they love to **** guys that look like Thor but wouldnt want one in a relationship. Also its the reason most looksmax guys have to go out every weekend to refill their roster. They dont retain much.

And I disagree most looksmax guys also have personality and game. Id argue a lot of guys looksmax because they dont have those.

It's easy to go to a gym and pump iron. Although painful.
It's very hard to look in a mirror and admit you have a trash personality and need to develop social skills.
I've done both and the latter is 10x more difficult.