After a month and a half the first hoover came today. It was a phone call and then a text that said "I understand why you don't answer I just miss my best friend. Take care." I have not and will not answer it. I only post because this is better than therapy. You all lived it and know that the hoover is a part of the post-credits script. No relative, friend or therapist could be as much help as this board is.
I do wonder if there will be more to come and whether or not it's be a long, overly dramatic text/email or some insidious, vicious jealousy ploy. Her birthday is only 3 weeks out. I can only imagine how the traumatic loss of control for such a spoiled princess has the potential to amplify and ruin "her day". I'm not longer confused and in the fog...it just pains me that it wasn't unconditional love after all.
Understanding fully that these people have zero capacity for empathy, it seems they feel regret when they know they've truly fukedd up past the point of return...
I do wonder if there will be more to come and whether or not it's be a long, overly dramatic text/email or some insidious, vicious jealousy ploy. Her birthday is only 3 weeks out. I can only imagine how the traumatic loss of control for such a spoiled princess has the potential to amplify and ruin "her day". I'm not longer confused and in the fog...it just pains me that it wasn't unconditional love after all.
Understanding fully that these people have zero capacity for empathy, it seems they feel regret when they know they've truly fukedd up past the point of return...