Survey: The Utility of SoSuave (Only Three Little Questions!)

[Demon]

Unlike certain individuals who prefer to tell you what to think, I would like ask you what you do think.

1. Of what use to you is the SoSuave.com website and/or newsletter?
   
2. Of what use to you is this community?
   
3. What improvements would you suggest to yield more value to you?

 

[Babnik]

I really think that there are way too many virgins who try to give advice based on the DJ Bible and also there are woman haters who think that being NICE is AFC and etc...

Also, everyone simply NEXTs hard to get women and think its Alpha and she wasn't worth it.

Otherwise, mature tips are very good.

 

[izza]

1.) At this point, it provides me with interesting, abstract tidbits about women. I say abstract since I don't approach women very often.

2.) I join the community because I cannot approach. I went out today, and I simply could not do it. This community keeps me focused on my goal. But if I could approach, I wouldn't use it much. All the "tips and techniques" that can possibly be learned are programmed into me! But what I want to do is gain the courage to approach. That is somewhere programmed in me too, but I can't find it.

3.) What good are tips and techniques before you can approach any girl, any time?

 

[Demon]

Come on, people. There has to be more than two people with their own opinions. Show some confidence and post your responses.

 

[Javelin44]

1. Of what use to you is the SoSuave.com website and/or newsletter?
The sosuave website and newsletter are constant reminders of what I have become in the past few years and what I have involved myself in. It is an influence of change in my life and the different aspects of it.
2. Of what use to you is this community?
This community gives me a sense of brotherhood. I see that we all have the same problems and are able to share them as well as our ideas freely because we do not judge each other (or at least I try not to).
3. What improvements would you suggest to yield more value to you?
The improvements I have made are mostly with my personality. When you learn more about social dynamics, you begin to understand a different perspective and a different point of view. You understand where other people come from, and try to accept their ideas, although you don't have to follow them. Knowing where other people come from is a major improvement that I value. This helps me connect with people that I previously was not able to.

 

[\O/]

1&2) Support, advice, helping people and for entertainment purposes. I love this site and it's always cool to read about other peoples progress, inspiring articles and new techniques or routines. The probles is that so many people have little or no experience from the field, which results in lots of contradicting material and advice on this forum.

3) I think there should be a beginners forum. People are asking the most obvious, meaningless and naive questions. It's clear that none of them took the time to read in the bible before posting. That's a problem.

Also, I think there should be a forum for field reports (FR's). Those are the threads I find most interesting. They are being ruined by random replies from KBJ's, instead of recieving constructive critisicm and feedback from experienced and knowledgable guys. Feedback in these reports will result in a great improvement in future dates or whatever the FR is about.

I know it has been suggested before, but I don't know the reason as to why it was voted down..

 

[Cod3r]

1) No particular use at the moment past entertainment, not actively gaming at this juncture of my life

2) It's entertaining, funny to laugh and see other people choose to change their life and if I can help out, I'm glad...

3) The Community that really helped me (shall not be named) had a FR's section that was constantly updated everyday and I found that very interesting, also I had a mentor teach me individually. We shared a personal relationship, he had my phone# and we met up and went out into the field together, it was more real and we both kept each other accountable...


-Cod3r

 

[Cronus]

Of what use to you is the SoSuave.com website and/or newsletter?
Of what use to you is this community?

1&2) I used to lurk around here about 2 years ago, not posting just reading. Back when I was in high school. It gave me guidelines to improve my life and taught me things that I have found real useful not only in dealing w/ women, but in everday life. Now, I can strike up a conversation with anyone and have a meaningful conversation (not just, how are you?). I rediscovered this site a little while back while cleaning out bookmarks. I revaluated my life and decided while I still have plenty of things to improve, I like what I have done with my life and the person I have become. I decided to start posting so that I could share some of my experience with others that needed it.


What improvements would you suggest to yield more value to you?

3) From what I have noticed, there seems to be a lot more people not going out and trying to apply what they learn. There is more noise and not enough info. Something needs to be done to increase the quality of the posts. For example, I see a lot of questions that can be answered with a simple read through the DJ Bible. I reread the Bible when I found this site, and most of those articles still provide amazing advice. I can now understand where some of those writers are coming from.

 

[comic_relief]

Unlike certain individuals who prefer to tell you what to think, I would like ask you what you do think.

1. Of what use to you is the SoSuave.com website and/or newsletter?
   
2. Of what use to you is this community?
   
3. What improvements would you suggest to yield more value to you?

1.) sosuave.com and the newsletter do not help me at all. Sosuave.net offers me a lot of information.

2.) i like the commardary (sp) of the community and if I need a kick in the @$$, than i will get it. It has helped me out significantly.

3.) The most important values that are added to me from the forum is the self-improvement that I have made (the things that I have done from this), not getting oneitis anymore, and women are just to add to my life, not to complete it.

comic_relief

 

[Demon]

Only seven responses? Shameful!

 

[The Forms]

Of what use to you is the SoSuave.com website and/or newsletter?
When I first found it it was like uncovering some sort of gnostic truth about the world. Nowadays, I don't really stop by as much, just because I don't need it much anymore.


Of what use to you is this community?
The community doesn't really do too much for me. Really, reading the bible was all that I really needed. The only thing to community is nice for is just rewording things in a way that finally hits me about a thing I didn't quite get here or there. But, at the end of the day, the only way to make things work out is just trial and error on your own part. Get the basic tools here, and fine tune your own person approach on your own.


What improvements would you suggest to yield more value to you?
Things are pretty straight the way they are. Really its just a matter of making things happen on a personal basis for most of the guys around here.

 

[resilient]

Of what use to you is the SoSuave.com website and/or newsletter?

The website and newsletter was useful initially when first being exposed to the DJ mentality. Over the long haul I learned more from personal communication with guys that have been on the forum the longest.

Of what use to you is this community?

Troubleshooting in approaches and ways to handle being a man and remaining a challenge in a relationship.

What improvements would you suggest to yield more value to you?

Close threads of topics that been beat to death on here.

 

[Demon]

A whole two more replies! Wow.

C'mon, guys, you know you want to share your opinions about SoSuave.com!