in order to appropriate deal with women you have remember that they have no problem create a situation where it is a lose lose for the man. either he's her AFC slave or he has to walk away.
so when you are with a woman that gives you only one of those two choices i suggest you choose hte latter. let some other AFC be her slave and waste his years.
You need to go out and find women who think you are the prize. women who want to please you so that you will please them in return. NOT women who want to sh*t test you and break y ou down so that they can control you.
we all have to learn and remember to treat ourselves like the prize. to treat ourselves like the most valuable thing on the planet. would you take your most cherished position (lets say your dog, if you had a dog) and let some chic drop her pants and take a diarhea crap all over it? no way. if she crapped on your dog, you'd knock her out.
its sad to see so many men willing to let a woman take a dump all over them. and not just once. every f*cking day for months, even years, on end.
there ARE decent women out there and theres no need to put up wiht the hoes. decent women are more rare, which is why you gotta keep cycling through the hos until you find hte decent ones.
and if its any concillation, when you walk away from the hos you hurt them by doing than more than by doing anything else. the worst thing you can do to a ho is walk away, because:
1) it tells her "you ain't no great prize honey"
2) you just lost yourself the prize. you just lost yourself the one non-AFC to come along in your life and some other woman is now going to get the joy and pleasure of my companionship.
and you know how they will react to this? They will go find some other AFC and take out their anger from you rejecting her on him. and he'll come to this board going "why is she doing this to me? I love her but she treats me like crap. please help guys.".
hahaha.
this is why i keep saying over and over, unless you can be happy WITHOUT women, you'll never be able to walk away.
WALKING AWAY IS A MANS ONLY DEFENSE.
guys gotta learn this.
J