surely this is a good sign right?

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=88407

I told this girl in the weekend that she looked really beautiful and she told me that she doesn't "see me that way" but guess what...she came over to my place tonight

Apparently she was just in the nieghbour hood and was thinking who she knew in the area oh and she brought her best friend with her...and while she was here, she was kind of a show off and her and her best friend were talking about her BF and saying the kind of things that boyfriends do like kissing and ****.

What do you think, just a friendly visit or something else?

I have noticed that her cheeks blush when she is around me...

What to do next please?

:)
 

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Originally posted by Damian
Personally, i'd keep upping the tension and see how she reacts. Act like she is hitting on you and you are the one that she is seeking. If you can raise the heat to a higher level without her verbal or physical protest, you should be fine to try even farther.

If all else fails, go clubbing and sarge on a few more.

-Damian
cool, cool yeah...the only thing I hated was when she left and put her hand out to shake mine and say "well we just came to say hello, catch up with you soon".

Another thing she did was use a lot of my sayings...
 

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I told this girl in the weekend that she looked really beautiful

lol can you give her ego a bigger boost ?

and she told me that she doesn't "see me that way"

game over. get rid of her. next.

Apparently she was just in the nieghbour hood and was thinking who she knew in the area oh and she brought her best friend with her

needed to use toilet BAD

did they use your toilet ?

hungry and wanted free food

wanted to show off her pet AFC to her friend because she had been bagging you out saying what an AFC she thinks you are all day and her friend was curious to meet you

her and her best friend were talking about her BF and saying the kind of things that boyfriends do like kissing and ****.

she is disrespecting you in your own house infront of a total stranger

if i lived down the street from you i would expect a phone call from you to ask me to come up to YOUR OWN HOUSE and kick these 2 disrespectful wh0res out of your house because you lack the ball$ to do it and the wisdom to know they are abusing you

What do you think, just a friendly visit or something else?

trip to the zoo

she told her friend about the new AFC exhibit

he friend just had to see it

and they stopped by

and to torture you more they rubbed it in your face about what their boyfriends do to their little wh0re bodies because you never will get the chance

I have noticed that her cheeks blush when she is around me...

chill bro she is on medication and it has side effects

What to do next please?

read the DJ Bible

all of it. for you all of it. get David Deangelo or whatever his name is double your dating. if you can't afford it "borrow" it off bit torrent

NEXT this h0 and her friend and never speak to them again

buy a machette and sit it under the sink and next time some h0 tries this sh*t just bring it out slip the cover off and sit it on the coffee table

watch the b*tches run :woo:

stop giving women compliments and telling them they are very beautiful

look up neg hit and c*cky+funny learn and master the art

it works on h0t b*tches who think their sh*t dont stink


don't give up you can do it

more research and stop putting women on pedestals


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" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
I told this girl in the weekend that she looked really beautiful

lol can you give her ego a bigger boost ?

and she told me that she doesn't "see me that way"

game over. get rid of her. next.

Apparently she was just in the nieghbour hood and was thinking who she knew in the area oh and she brought her best friend with her

needed to use toilet BAD

did they use your toilet ?

hungry and wanted free food

wanted to show off her pet AFC to her friend because she had been bagging you out saying what an AFC she thinks you are all day and her friend was curious to meet you

her and her best friend were talking about her BF and saying the kind of things that boyfriends do like kissing and ****.

she is disrespecting you in your own house infront of a total stranger

if i lived down the street from you i would expect a phone call from you to ask me to come up to YOUR OWN HOUSE and kick these 2 disrespectful wh0res out of your house because you lack the ball$ to do it and the wisdom to know they are abusing you

What do you think, just a friendly visit or something else?

trip to the zoo

she told her friend about the new AFC exhibit

he friend just had to see it

and they stopped by

and to torture you more they rubbed it in your face about what their boyfriends do to their little wh0re bodies because you never will get the chance

I have noticed that her cheeks blush when she is around me...

chill bro she is on medication and it has side effects

What to do next please?

read the DJ Bible

all of it. for you all of it. get David Deangelo or whatever his name is double your dating. if you can't afford it "borrow" it off bit torrent

NEXT this h0 and her friend and never speak to them again

buy a machette and sit it under the sink and next time some h0 tries this sh*t just bring it out slip the cover off and sit it on the coffee table

watch the b*tches run :woo:

stop giving women compliments and telling them they are very beautiful

look up neg hit and c*cky+funny learn and master the art

it works on h0t b*tches who think their sh*t dont stink


don't give up you can do it

more research and stop putting women on pedestals


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ummmm okay...I have known her for a while, we have been out together a lot and I have met her best friend before...so you are wrong there buddy.

The only reason they talked about BF's was her best friend was talking about car seats and giving us too much information about what her and BF did on them it was quite funny and we were all laughing...

She is a cool ass chick and she was in the area about 15 minutes from my house...It was the first time I have ever told her she looked really beautiful...and the only thing I compliment her on are her Jackets and Shoes...this is wrong?

They didn't eat any food or use the bathroom.

The thing is i had plan to next her...I don't know ...you do **** all for my confidence LIT because I think you might have it wrong.

Lastly, she isn't on any medication.

:confused:

why the **** are you so hard on me?.
 
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well i made some long post pointing out a whole heaps of stuff

i deleted it and will post this instead

did a search and looked at all your threads

if i could say something good to you that you could use

it would be this

stand up for yourself more with women

stop trying to understand them

accept them for what they are

eat / sleep / breathe the Don Juan bible and double your dating ebook until you are a pickup / seduction machine

its a mindset more than anything

THE BIBLE says " so a man thinketh so he is "

and stop having women as friends

accepting women as friends NO NO NO

you need some friends

MEN who you can go out sarging with and learn from

wingmen who can hook you up with a spare hot chick on the set

i never read about your friends and you having adventures picking up women

all i see are your sad posts about women spinning you in circles

while you read the DJ Bible use the topics to bring back memories of similar situations

this teaches you to break down the game and see what is really happening in slow motion

digest this and keep reading

watch the people around you

watch the interactions and break the game down real time with what you have learned

like martial arts you practice and it becomes reflex

soon some chick trys to pull a fast one on you and you see it coming and counter with a mad comeback that blows her sh*t test away


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If you are such a pimp, why do you spend a lot of your time on these boards?...and I have friends thanks and I ALREADY TOLD YOU that I don't want to be friends with this chick I was just curious as to why she came around tonight with her best friend

dude I have had a lot of relationships but i get fed up with there bull**** and I am just getting back on the horse you know...

why are your answers so different from Damien?

can some others please share there views?

:(
 

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If you are such a pimp, why do you spend a lot of your time on these boards?...

i have had it all and it gets old

got a few booty call chicks i ring when i want something

i am pursuing other areas in my life at the moment

once a pimp always a pimp

i spend alot of time on the boards in seasons. i post heavy for a few weeks then might not post for a few months.

also i continue to learn from some of the other members on forum

and I have friends thanks

i am glad to hear that i was worried about you ;)

I ALREADY TOLD YOU that I don't want to be friends with this chick I was just curious as to why she came around tonight with her best friend

you problem and yes you have one is you have to KNOW WHY

WHY WOMEN ************

dude if you don't understand why and you can't grasp the clues as to why these b*tches rolled up in your house

remember K ? the h0 you posted about so much

every post you asked BUT WHY DADDY WHY ?

like a f*cking 4 year old kid

cowboy the f*ck up and act like a man

there are bad people in the world and bad things happen

with no apparent rhyme or reason

why ? BECAUSE KID JUST BECAUSE


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for f*ck sake. this sh*t is getting old.

look, if you had a girlfriend and some other chic told you she thought you were hot. then your out with your buddy and figure 'lets stop by her place'.

why would you do that?!

its because

1) you want to show your buddy this chic who wants to bang you (EGO)
2) you want to potentially screw this chic and want to keep her on the line (ie. you treat her like a female AFC)

and that's it.

i totally agree with lost in translation.

you're her AFC pet.

she told you she doesn't see you that way, and now wants to see just how badly she can make you want her.

I just dont understand why men let women treat them like this. Is it because your hoping that maybe, just maybe, youll get some sloppy seconds?

man, just next these chics and go out and get some fresh p*ssy that hasn't been opened in a while. its much more enjoyable.

J
 

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I agree

I agree with Lost In Translation. Except that it is ok to have female friends as long as you are the one to "decide" it to be that way. But NEVER try to change that afterwards (unless she tries to rip off your clothes cause she can't figure out why you LJBFed her from the start). Female friends are useful as social proof.

I have/am learning this the hard way. All what he says is true - I have gained alot from following a similar state of mind he does (though I am far from a master, I have my AFC moments that screw me up still) Women are meant to be loved (or ****ed) but not understood -it is a waste of your time, brainspace (why try to understand illogic?), destroys your inner game by making you come across as needy in your attempt to "understand", therefore putting you into LJBF land - or at BEST sloppy seconds, thirds, or fifths (which is also highly unlikely).
 

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I told this girl in the weekend that she looked really beautiful
You've still not learnt a thing have you?

Seriously, stop posting and start reading.

This sounds like the same thing that happened with your roomie.

you post and post and post about her, but the music doesn't change.

to quote Player_S - you are acting like a Symph.

go read Kill the desperation int he DJ bible.
 

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Compliment carefully

Women do need to be told their beautiful, but it's all in the delivery.

Wrap the compliment around a joke.

I once told a gal whom I dated off and on this: "Hey, I told my friends there was this great looking gal who used to stop by my work (she hadn't stopped by in awhile), but they didn't believe me since you never freaking show up anymore."

She cracked up and tried to get a second compliment out of me, but I wasn't biting on the second one, but she sure as hell liked the first compliment and started coming around more often ...

Yeah, tell them they're good looking, sexy, whatever, but remember, do it spairingly and wrap it around a joke. That way you don't come across as an AFC.
 

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She is coming over tonight (just her) to watch DVD's with me, and I am going to make a move on her **** it if she rejects me then so be it...If she doesn't then I will be really happy and feel good and confident again.
 

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Women do need to be told their beautiful, but it's all in the delivery.
And your attitude.

There's a difference between telling a chick she's hot, when you expect something from it - and when your saying it just because you feel like it..... If you think it's going to get you somewhere then forget it.

and I am going to make a move on her
There is a danger when going into a situation with a pre conceived notion of doing something - as apposed to just letting the thing happen.

Don't force something when it just doesn't feel right.

Sometimes, not making a move - and showing little interest in making the move - is just as effective as making the move.


One time I had gone for drinks with a chic from work. We ended up back at my place and were on the balcony outside my bedroom. She tells me:

"Don't think your getting laid tonight - cause you are not. I'm sleeping on the sofa".

"Whatever you want to do" was my reply.

not 5 minutes later - she went back inside - I followed a couple of minutes later - empty drink glasses in hand - just as she was slipping into my bed with nothin but her G-String on. You know what happened next.

This chick may be expecting you to fawn all over her - It's better not to take the bait.
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
trip to the zoo

she told her friend about the new AFC exhibit

he friend just had to see it

and they stopped by

and to torture you more they rubbed it in your face about what their boyfriends do to their little wh0re bodies because you never will get the chance

lmao LIT you have a way with words, I couldn't have put it better.

sorry Jaun_Don but LIT is right, right now you are like a small harmless bird sitting on the palm of her hand pecking seeds from it, while her other friend marvels at this spectacle.

Oh and by the way DON'T EVER INVITE A WOMAN INSIDE YOUR HOME WHO COMES IN UNANNONCED AND IS NOT EVEN A WOMAN YOU ARE FVCKING WITH.

By doing so you allow her to mark your territory as her own without doing much. Why would she come unannounced?? Because she knows that you do not have any other girls coming over to fvck with you and therefore there won't be any surprises.

That is bad! If you want to catch other women you got to let them know or think that there could be naked girl fvcking with you and any unwelcome surprise visit will be rebuffed by you. Women want other women guys because that is the way they determine the value of a guy. Just like in the stock market, you got a hot stock and everyone wants to invest, and business will be booming.

Chicks that know a guy that is getting alot of ass do not drop by without calling first.

DjDamage
 

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Quote : DJDamage
Oh and by the way DON'T EVER INVITE A WOMAN INSIDE YOUR HOME WHO COMES IN UNANNONCED AND IS NOT EVEN A WOMAN YOU ARE FVCKING WITH.

By doing so you allow her to mark your territory as her own without doing much. Why would she come unannounced?? Because she knows that you do not have any other girls coming over to fvck with you and therefore there won't be any surprises.

That is bad! If you want to catch other women you got to let them know or think that there could be naked girl fvcking with you and any unwelcome surprise visit will be rebuffed by you. Women want other women guys because that is the way they determine the value of a guy. Just like in the stock market, you got a hot stock and everyone wants to invest, and business will be booming.


Jaun_Don go down the street and find a tattoo parlour and get that written on your chest


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I had a revelation today...I just don't give a **** anymore...I was thinking what makes me happy?

A)Good hip hop, weed and beer and true friends & my family having a good time, studying hard,being sociable, laughing &

What makes you unhappy?

B)Female games and head ****s

Which are you going to focus more on?

A of course...

:D

But oh my god look at this message she sent me after I told her I can't have contact with her anymore because I don't see the point in being "friends" with girls I am attracted too...


"that's fine, if want to get sooky about this **** go ahead. But ive ALWAYS been straight up with you about everything, i told you i never liked you like that more than once and u still wanted to catch up (silly me thinking the reason was coz we were mates) youre actin like a ****in chump and god knows i dont need anymore of them in my life so have a choice time crying a river to everyone about it aswell coz i know u gonna put this on me, luckily it turns out i dont give a ****. tell me how much the tickets were and ill give you the damn money, better than havin u on my back like i owe u something.

believe it or not i got my own **** to sort out, damn ive just come thru the other end of a ****in abortion from some ******* who turned out not to give a ****, one of the worst ****in times of my life and the last thing i need is more dudes who cant think with their brains, i woudlnt have minded some friends but i guess thats too much to ask, tho i always did my best to help you.

at least i know who my real friends are now? "

How the **** am I supposed to answer that?

:eek:

For the record she has NOT told me this before...I don't know where she got that from...and why in gods name would she tell me about her abortion when she was angry with me?

:rolleyes:
 

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Haha, sorry dude. Im looking at the subject of this message and then the end result.

:crackup:
 

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Originally posted by amano
Haha, sorry dude. Im looking at the subject of this message and then the end result.

:crackup:
Damn not funny but oh so very funny. This is like watching a f****g train wreck :mad:

Juan Don dude, you pretty much thought yourself into oblivion with this fiasco. I hope your spine grew a little thicker through this or it was a thorougly wasted lesson.
 

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Originally posted by insidious
Damn not funny but oh so very funny. This is like watching a f****g train wreck :mad:

Juan Don dude, you pretty much thought yourself into oblivion with this fiasco. I hope your spine grew a little thicker through this or it was a thorougly wasted lesson.
you are telling me...and yes of course my spine grew a lot thicker...I don't care...the time and energy I spent on her was wasted foolish me...

Next....
 

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so Jaun_Don were we really that hard on you

we were right

this h0 was just playing games

i am proud of you laying it down pimp style

you told her in your own words either get with the program or get the f*ck out of my sight

what happened

THE GAMES ENDED

she started speaking the truth

the mask fell away from the monster

Quote : Jaun_Don
that's fine, if want to get sooky about this **** go ahead

you called her bluff and she is pissed off

Quote : Jaun_Don
But ive ALWAYS been straight up with you about everything, i told you i never liked you like that more than once and u still wanted to catch up

hahaha she just wanted to use you as an emotional tampon

Quote : Jaun_Don
(silly me thinking the reason was coz we were mates)

cry me a river.... cry me a river...

she is throwing a pity party

Quote : Jaun_Don
youre actin like a ****in chump and god knows i dont need anymore of them in my life

dude she calling you a chump. this is what she was telling her friend before they pulled up to your house the other day

and she doesn't need any more of them in her life

sounds like she has 50 AFC worshippers damn lol she is pro

Quote : Jaun_Don
so have a choice time crying a river to everyone

hahaha the b*tch stole my line "cry me a river"

damn you h0 !

Quote : Jaun_Don
i know u gonna put this on me, luckily it turns out i dont give a ****

that is a very very dumb female attempt at reverse psychology

Quote : Jaun_Don
tell me how much the tickets were and ill give you the damn money, better than havin u on my back like i owe u something.

call her bluff she is full of $hit

this b*tch thinks this will make you forget

ticket price + $5 for beer = price you tell her

consider it compensation ;)

Quote : Jaun_Don
believe it or not i got my own **** to sort out, damn ive just come thru the other end of a ****in abortion from some ******* who turned out not to give a ****

yeah dude she just came through abortion number 27

cut her some slack

b*tches keep f*cking thugs having crack babies

but like she said it's the guys fault cause he didn't care so she killed the baby because she only was gunna keep it to lock him down and take his cash

Quote : Jaun_Don
one of the worst ****in times of my life and the last thing i need is more dudes who cant think with their brains

don't take no advice from her bro

she is no angel

and not the smartest tool in the shed

Quote : Jaun_Don
i woudlnt have minded some friends but i guess thats too much to ask, tho i always did my best to help you.

*sniffle* damn.... she .... all she wanted was a friend...

her 50 AFC feet worshippers and 30 crack h0e friends...

thats only 80

and her family

all she needed was one more... you Jaun_Don

you were the pokemon she needed for the complete set

Quote : Jaun_Don
at least i know who my real friends are now?

yeah incase the drugs got you dizzy b*tch it ain't Jaun_Don

the man is a Don Juan

ALL DAY EVERY DAY

no giving chicks a shoulder to cry on

see the sign on Jaun_Don's door "BIG PIMPIN"

thats how it is either get with the program or take your baby daddy drama elsewhere

Quote : Jaun_Don
How the **** am I supposed to answer that?

ignore her

she is not worth the 20 cents for an text message

Quote : Jaun_Don
For the record she has NOT told me this before...I don't know where she got that from...and why in gods name would she tell me about her abortion when she was angry with me?

because you stood up to her

you acted like a MAN

you called her bluff

you ripped the mask from her wh0re face

so she thought f*ck it i will try the sob story aka AFC heart string puller


keep away from her and i like your new attitude

Quote : Jaun_Don
A)Good hip hop, weed and beer and true friends & my family having a good time, studying hard,being sociable, laughing

stick to that plan

keep away from that h0

get some more and keep pimpin'


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