Super Beta Plate or BPD?

[ColdCore]

So dealing with this plate that obviously has caught the case of feelings. We fvcked quite a bit months back then she talked about wanting me to herself. I told her that is not something I am looking for. So she got all heated called me "bad man" and selfish. So I NC'd her. Several months later she reaches out to say hi and hope I am well. We start communicating again. I have her over a friends house on sunday while I house sit, and so we smash on the couch. (Still not interested in a relationship with her)

Last night I invited her to a movie with me. Very casually. More along the lines of "I am going to see a movie possibly tomorrow. Come if you want"

She wasn't happy with that invite and wanted "Hey would you like to see a movie with me?" (Sh1t test)

So I disregarded it with a "Ha ha"
Move on to this morning and get this huge text along the lines of
"Hey I don't know if I want to go to the movies with you. Something isn't right and I feel like you dont really want to go with me. blah blah i think blah i feel blah. Things feel empty. I used to get excited to see you and i felt you were excited to see me...............(more complaining) The way you invited me to the movies was real ****'ish (is that a word?)"

So I am thinking of replying with:
"Morning, The movie starts at this time meet me at X if you want to. If not it's okay."
And disregarding her emotional rant.

Thoughts?

 

[Sprayarc]

Maybe you shouldn't worry so much and enjoy her. Just be aware and be ready to eject if she gets crazy or weird.

 

[ColdCore]

@Sprayarc I know what you mean. I was more wondering about disregarding the emotional tirade and just moving forward as if nothing happened.

Anyway
I sent her the Morning, and time for the movie. she accepted and will meet there.

 

[LiveFreeX]

What are you hoping to get out of this relationship? What's the take away?

 

[Sprayarc]

@Sprayarc I know what you mean. I was more wondering about disregarding the emotional tirade and just moving forward as if nothing happened.

Anyway
I sent her the Morning, and time for the movie. she accepted and will meet there.

That's good. I'd act like nothing happened and just push and pull. Make sure you don't text to much.

 

[NSX-R]

Great respond.
Just hold your distances because the chick sees to make things out of her mind. Too many disney movies hurt the brain . The chick probably is under this effect xD

 

[ColdCore]

Great respond.
Just hold your distances because the chick sees to make things out of her mind. Too many disney movies hurt the brain . The chick probably is under this effect xD

LMAO you nailed it. She loves to talk about disney ****, ha ha.

I don't want anything except a good time with her. And I already made that clear previously with her.

EDIT: She flaked. Told her "I refunded the tickets. Have a safe NYE."

Gonna go NC with this one for a while. (Excuse she didn't get enough sleep and not sure if it is coming to see me or getting over her cold.) I am not going to beg a woman to do anything. Her loss.

So this leads me to another question.
When you NC a plate for whatever reason. When they start texting and asking "is something wrong?" "Are you grumpy with me?" The basic **** test to see if we are bothered by their actions. What are some of the responses here? If you choose to respond at all.

 

[Glumix]

I usualy tell her "not at all" and then go back to NC and never initiate.

 

[Sprayarc]

LMAO you nailed it. She loves to talk about disney ****, ha ha.

I don't want anything except a good time with her. And I already made that clear previously with her.

EDIT: She flaked. Told her "I refunded the tickets. Have a safe NYE."

Gonna go NC with this one for a while. (Excuse she didn't get enough sleep and not sure if it is coming to see me or getting over her cold.) I am not going to beg a woman to do anything. Her loss.

So this leads me to another question.
When you NC a plate for whatever reason. When they start texting and asking "is something wrong?" "Are you grumpy with me?" The basic **** test to see if we are bothered by their actions. What are some of the responses here? If you choose to respond at all.

Ignore or play dumb

 

[parkthebus]

What she was trying to communicate with you is that she senses your lack of investment and indifference towards her and she is not OK with it.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I usualy tell her "not at all" and then go back to NC and never initiate.

This.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

I usualy tell her "not at all" and then go back to NC and never initiate.

This is good advice, straight forward, simple and effective.