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Hey guys I'm new here,i'm 18 and i'm a senior in highschool I'm about to graduate these year as still a VIRGIN!Now let me tell you guys something about me,i'm shy and not very social and i'm an outcast I have no friend,no male or female friends.All through highschool I have no approached or talked to any girl because I have a fear of approaching or talking to a girl,these fear is messing up my life.I have read all the books and I'm still afraid to approach or talk to a woman,its sooo nervwracking even on the internet,when I go to chatrooms i'm kinda of afraid to chat with a girl,I know its like every time I see a hot girl,my heart pounds,I sweat and it becomes soo nervous.Im about to turn 19 in couple weeks and graduate I 'm gonna graduate as a virgin, I never kissed a girl or made out or I never had a girlfriend all my life.Please I want these fear to end someone please help me???
 

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see that link on the top right , that says "the dj bible"....
click it....
and that will be the beginning of your help process.....
then scroll down and read all those articles... read it once and be amazed , read it twice and learn and understand it , then apply it to the way you live your life....

trust me , i know its a looooong ass read , but in the end it will blow your mind , change your views on many things and open your eyes to the world of hot babes around you.....

peace =)


if u have any specific problems after reading all those articles , then feel free to pm me , im always happy to help people.....
 

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Yeah, try the bible first, if you have questions afterwards, feel free.
 

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The problem is I have read the bible, and all other books trust me you guys nothing seems like these fear is going to end.Thats why I signed up here on these message board to get somehelp,I have tried other messageboards and sites like these and I reapt nothing seems like these fear is ending.Dude man it is soooo nervwracking to approach or yet alone talk to a girl I hope you guys will post tips on helping me,I have gotten soo much tips and advice on forums like these and nothing is changing hopefully you guys will help on these forum,come on you guys please help me overcome these!
 

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Originally posted by Deagleclaw
Hey boys,

If you're reading this, you are likely a "Shy Guy". Meaning you find yourself retreating and not speaking around women. You don't make advances toward women. You sit around on a Saturday night playing video games, or if you do go to a club you would have better spent your time playing video games. Okay, well this one's for you guys. I'm GIVING you the answer you need. I'm not gonna hold your hand on this one. You either do these things, or you ain't gonna get any woman worth the time of day. C'mon, who do you wanna be. Ferris Buller, or his loser friend Cameron?


1. STOP F*CKIN' WHINING.
Only YOU can overcome your own shyness. You're being a f*ckin' p*ssy. There is a miracle cure for overcoming shyness. It's called growing up. You are the center of your own universe.

2. END THE "NICE GUY" PROBLEM FIRST
Being shy isn't your f*ckin' problem to begin with. Fact of the matter is, you're a "Nice Guy" and you're not gonna get any with that hangin over your head. It's time to grow up. Be a f*ckin' man. You've got your head full of romantic ideas about love. Newsflash, you're a guy! READ EVERY ARTICLE YOU CAN ON THIS SITE ABOUT NICE GUYS! STOP BEING "THAT GUY"

3. ACTION
You're too f*ckin' scared that you're going to say or do something that will offend the girl you like. WHO CARES? When you want something, you have to go out and get it. It's not going to magically fall in your lap. What you've been doing up until now OBVIOUSLY does NOT WORK. You've got to present yourself as a MAN, and ACT LIKE ONE!

4. FEELINGS
Women want a MAN. You know a MAN's MAN. A Steve McQueen or a James Bond. MEN have 3 Feelings... HAPPY, MAD, & DON'T GIVE A F*CK. P*ssies have feelings like melancholy, existentialism, depression, romantic feelings. Women don't want a p*ssy boyfriend, they want a man. Nothing turns a woman off quite like an effeminate guy like you.

5. RESEARCH
Do your homework, find out what dating and mating is all about. You've been raised with a woman's viewpoint about relationships. It's time you f*ckin' woke up. Watch "Desmond Moriss' The Human Animal" for the inside track on dating and mating. Find out what women are looking for. It's a biological drive for women to find a MAN.

6. YOU'RE A GUY
Realize that! Live it! Men are not intimidated by women? Why should we be? We're Bigger, Stronger, More Successful, And BETTER LOOKING. Why else do you think women wear make-up and perfume... cuz they're ugly and they stink. You're letting a WOMAN intimidate you? How does THAT make you feel. You're a GUY! YOU dictate the terms of your relationship to a woman. Whether you're going to be her friend, or lover. If you want to be her lover, don't settle for friend, either you go out or you move on.

7. STOP POSTING AND START SEARCHING
There are hundreds of articles on this site on this topic alone. Look em up and you'll find your answers there.


Deagleclaw out

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No matter what comes, walk like a man. - Al Lan Mandragoran (Wheel of Time)
have you read these articles , these are the ones that you are supposed to read.... cuz this is basicly what every other guy here will tell you.... its just all packed up in the bible....
 

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you know what I'm starting to notice, I think there is no hope for me for I don't think I will ever have the balls to approach or yet alone talk to a female,i'm seriously a lost case,plus no girl or women would want to be with a dorky guy like me. I think there is no hope for me,do you guys think i'm hopeless???
 

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Originally posted by AverageAsian
you know what I'm starting to notice, I think there is no hopefor me,i'm seriously a lost case,plus no girl or women would want to be with a dorky guy like me.But you guys even if you guys post advice, I think there is no hope for me,do you guys think i'm hopeless???
WTF???

what the fu\ck do you want , a mother to hold you in her amrs and tell you that you are special.... ????

get a frikkin hold of yourself, no one is gonna think of you as a cool guy before you get some goddamn confidence in yourself....
this isent some after shcool special thats gonna comfort you and tell you that you are worth all the good in the world....

for fu\ck sake im tired of these people that come here , and start yapping on about im not worth anything , theres no hope for me....

YOU want a better life, RIGHT??
Then start working on it from the inside out , cuz thats where you biggest probem is.....
 

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how can I work on a better life,dude my life freaken sucks,I have no friends! And everyone in school don't talk to me,and most think I'm dorky,dude I'm having thoughts of suicide,but I don't think I will do it,its errrrrr I think i'm f*CKEN hopeless.
 

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Originally posted by AverageAsian
The problem is I have read the bible, and all other books trust me you guys nothing seems like these fear is going to end.Thats why I signed up here on these message board to get somehelp,I have tried other messageboards and sites like these and I reapt nothing seems like these fear is ending.Dude man it is soooo nervwracking to approach or yet alone talk to a girl I hope you guys will post tips on helping me,I have gotten soo much tips and advice on forums like these and nothing is changing hopefully you guys will help on these forum,come on you guys please help me overcome these!
So what do you want to become? How do you invision yourself if you werent "shy"? Think about this then pm me and we'll work this out. Ive been there and now im quit a piece of work. So pm me and we'll get you closer to your ideal self...its all about attitude.
 

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I feel for you because when i first started out Opening and Fear of rejection stopped me from doing anything.

What you need to do is not worry about wtf ppl think of you. You going to die someday and none of this **** is going to really matter. Stop being so down by positive and just have fun. What i do is drill into my damn head that I have 5 fuvking super hot girls at home naked already waiting for me and i'm just there to test out how far my game has come. You don't have to be down because you don't have friends, you will have gfs who knows other people and you basically can choose to hang with them or not, and let it kick off from there. DO wtf you have to do don't sit there crying about something fuvking jump up do it and laugh if you fail and be joyful if you get success. EVery fuvk up I've done I laugh my ass off while my friends sit there just worrying about the problem. ITs no BIG DEAL , when you die your not even going to care, All the **** that passed by you have gone and you probably regret it, Just chat up a few girls just about anything, i bet you it becomes fun. Do it everyday and your naturally going to want to do it. People default state is usually the one their comfortable in that is why you don't really want to change because you feel comfortable being how you are. But go talk to girls and be talkative soon enough your going to hate not talking or being how you are now.

AFter you read this GET THE FUVK UP and go talk to any damn girl don't care if she a hb3. An just ask her any simple question "Hey do you know any cool stores to go too", anything just play around with it.

I seriously don't want you to be another NOOB, AFC added to this site. AFter you read this I seriously want you to go chat up any damn girl or everybody you meet. Even if your in a damn food court eating and just say "Hey these nuggets are awesome have you ever tryed it? Whats some other good food that you think i should try?" Do anything so longs its nothing like "O I love you" or "you're so hot" get into the mood man, don't over think.


I"M finish

FUVKING GO NOW!!!!! If you didn't go and chat up one stranger you have already failed, and I know longer want to help you.
 

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Watch "The Beauty and the Geek"... there's an AZN guy there that holds the rubrix cube time and hes the biggest nerd with the funniest Chinese accent. And he's willing to try learning how to become a club goer liek the hot chicks there.

Plus its all funny. AZN nerds are hilarious.
 

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what the hell is an AZN? lol sorry its a bit irrevelent to the subject but i've heard of 'AZN' before.

As for you averageasian remember we only get one shot at life make it worth while. Take in the tips given to you by people on this board and implement them, it will be hard at first and you'll feel like giving up but once you make those first 3 approaches to HBS it's like a snowball effect and you'll gain more and more confidence until you become the person you want to be.
 

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you guys have been giving good advice, I'm starting to feel better,post more advice, I actually feel good :)
 
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