Sunshine Girls / VERY Extraverted girls

[itdoesmatter]

hey guys, I am new. I have read the bible and noticed that it recommends sunshine girls are left alone.

I have virtually no experience with sunshine girls and now I have met TWO! Are there ways of identifying postive IOIs from such girls?

These are the things one of them does:

does these to me exclusively:

- sits close to me, almost beside me all the time (during grp gatherings)

- asks someone to repeat what I said when she could not hear clearly

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does this to everyone:

- RE-initiates conversations most of the time

- frequent physical contact (friendly and non sexualones)

- laughs even when I am not funny (eg .. when I am sprouting lame and corny jokes )

- smiles all the time


Her body language is very non defensive and she gets along with people fine.

Question: How do we know if they are interested in YOU ?

 

[OzzyBoy]

You don't unless you ask but you can't really do that. That is why the bible says to stay away from them. Maybe ask them a couple of questions or do a couple of things that will catch them off guard and see how they react that might give you a few clues. You could be talking and you could throw in something but not sounding serious about how much you would like to be dating her or something like that. Just a thought.

 

[vdk]

problem is you cant tell. plus there is a big chance they have a lot of 'guy friends' and therefore will drop you the moment they find someone better. I learned it the hard way.....

I advise you not to proceed no matter how beautiful she is(sunshine gals usually are). The only true way is to ask her out to a date. Dont say 'date' in the question but make it clear it will be just you and her and not her friends.

I go to university so I meet these women ALL the time. They are the complete package (good peronality, looks etc) but are simply undateable and too much of a 'independant woman'. Instead, befriend them and meet her endless supply of girl friends.

 

[PEACEDJ]

When she flirts with everyone and tries to get kino with everyone she can touch. You'll clearly know the difference.