Summer bootcamp week 3!!!!!!!

[gonnamakeit]

I'll make the new thread this evening. Everytime people don't finish when everyone gets moved on those who didn't finish'll get moved into the do over thread for the week.

My day's been good so far. Been getting much more confident with touching girls which is great. Got a real good convo I got the girls attention by touching her and turning her and convo went great was real happy with it. 7/10.

 

[Moon-Wolf]

Who has done 10 approaches in the last 6 months? Papa began speaking when the workshop started. Who has done 100? who did 1000? Quote from Papa "99% will not do more than 10 approaches in 6 months" I think he meant with this, 99% will not reach 100 approaches in 6 months. Very interresting, it seems like we have to take this up a notch

Papa showed us some infield videos of his students and 1 from Tyler. The one from Tyler was pretty good he did a 3 set with 2 hb 9's and a 8.5, he was using 2 steps forward and 1 step backward while using kino with rapport. It looked like this: TR-TR-BR-TR-TR-BR.

Tyler: *He held the girls hands (TR it communicate's i like you).
HB9's: *hands where held.
Tyler: Said something leant in (TR).
Tyler: Took a step back and began talking to the HB8,5 (BR) while ignoring the HB9.
HB 9: Wants Tylers attention bad.
Tyler: said something can't remember (TR).
HB 9: Slaps his left shoulder lightly to get his attention.
Tyler: *Doesn't react at all. As if it didn't even happen* and then pulled the hb8,5 closer (TR).
HB 8,5: Freaks out and goes for a make out.
Tyler: Pulls his head a little back so she can't reach him.
(He has a girlfriend and she would be watching this video)
Both of the HB 9's: Get all worked up because they think he is interrested more in them than he is in the HB8,5
HB9's: Start getting impetiant and want Tylers attantion bad.
-----Video is over-----

Papa talked about rythem, which was a new to me. How you can have your own flow with TR-NR-BR, if you opperate in TR all the time you are a salesperson, if you talk in NR all the time you are boring as ****, if you talk in BR all the time you are an *******. Well, maybe I did knew this already.

We had time to meet wings and we went in field with a group of 4. I did my 10 approaches pretty easily, just asking the way, if they where from Rotterdam and making up silly stories and we would tell them about it. Afther the program I did a 2 set and I asked the way, they said they didn't know the way, and I said thank you to hem. I think I did it because I thanked them for thier time and because they stopped to talk to me instead of blow me off. I think I will stop the probs if they didn't do anything that truly deserve 's appreciation.

I got some phone numbers from the people there, one of the guys was Rin, he was an interresting fellow who seemed to have a lot of game. I will definetly hook up with him sometime.

*Note to self: Chicken wing rape man, 1,5 hour fvck playboy girl man and oak gremlin. To be explained tomorrow morning.

 

[gonnamakeit]

Good stuff. Also glad to hear Tyler durden is actually good in-field.

Ok I technically did get the week done with over 10 short convos with girls I wanted them all to be cold approaches but I thigure I will move on cuz I did finish the week and why should I wimp out on week 4 I'll work my approaches a lot in week 4 anyway. Just I am going to make sure I do some convos in addition and some legit number closes not just get too obsessed with finishing the bootcamp and doing something like walking up to 10 random 25 year old women and saying whats your number? without saying anything else doing it in like 5 minutes which would be a good confidence exercise but wouldn't help my skills and not as good as legit approaches.


Ok I am pumped for this week everyone and you guys doing week 3 over still it's awesome your gonna make some awesome improvements too and nothing stopping you from going for the close or getting laid either.

 

[scrouds]

Post boot camp failure report.

So I didn't get the 10 done, and somehow lost most motivation. Part of me doesn't actually want to move on with this right now. I want to internalize the previous lessons, and I know that doing it my way will take a lot longer, I feel more confident in taking a month to 6 weeks to internalize the previous lessons. Inadventently, its answered my question on how to make friends and connections in a brand new "world" that's away from college and all sorts of comforts.

I wish you guys the best of luck in continuing on. I fully see myself in the future getting back on the plan once I feel like the eye contact, hello and conversation trains are embedded into my head, into my patterns. I see those changes now, and I saw myself slip back actually. I did the 50 hellos, so now I didn't have to do it the next week. I think this needs to be cumulative, in a way. Its time for me to hunker down and drill myself until 50 hellos is an everyday occurance. Time to make conversation with everyone and anyone until it is natural. When that is done, I will be back. Boot camp for one if i have to.