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btownbuck2012

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alright so NONE of those 4 numbers amounted to jack shvt and my internship has been SUCKING UP my free time for the last couple days, but I do plan to finish 100 approaches before the summer is over. I'll keep y'all updated
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
alright so NONE of those 4 numbers amounted to jack shvt and my internship has been SUCKING UP my free time for the last couple days, but I do plan to finish 100 approaches before the summer is over. I'll keep y'all updated
Good luck and keep approaching. I went to a local moderately sized city and did about 15 approaches and all I got was a Facebook full name. Yeah, it sucks, but it means I got serious work to do. I should've been able to get a number from a cute HB 7 Latina today(I did number close attempt her) but she said she would just see me around. I talked to her for about 10 minutes and teased and negged her a few times and kept her laughing. I think if I had used kino I would've fared better. That, and if I wouldn't feel so weird about number closing MILFS that are probably taken, I could've got a number or two there. Also, I noticed that even though I opened a few girls successfully, after a minute or so of conversation, they would walk away and go about doing their business. Also, no girls stopped in their tracks when I walked past them, smiled, and said "Hey, how're you doing?" One Asian mature girl smiled and answered me but she kept walking. I went to Wal Mart, Books-A-Million(I bought The Game there), and the mall. Then again, my openers were all situational and indirect. I didn't get blown out of any sets though immediately, I opened all of them successfully, which is crazy considering I was in a city I had never sarged in.

Let's keep our heads up and be completely honest with ourselves and work to improve ourselves.:rockon:
 

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did two more with a friend of mine today at my hometown mall

Approach 31

we head into barnes and noble and see a cute girl checking out some puzzles or w/e. I ask her if she's single and she says no.

Approach 32

We see two really cute girls having a bite to eat. It wasn't the food court but just a little side area outside one of those jewelry stores connected to the mall. Anyways I walk up and strike up a convo. I use my "are you single line" We had a decent 10 minute convo. One girl was blonde the other was a brunette. We found out that they JUST graduated high school....so yea. Anyways the blonde seemed really interested and gave me her number. I'm only in town for about 4 more days so we'll see where this one goes. I'll keep ya informed

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MY BAD!

Approaches: 32
Numbers, Dates, Sex: 5 (numbers)
 

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Please change your approach a little bit. It's painful to read. I'm not dogging you, just being honest. Hit them with the, 'I think you're gorgeous and had to come over here to meet you.' Disarm them first and then ask if they are single or what-not.
 

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lol @btownbuck2012

is that all you do is approach random women and ask them if they are all single?
lol real talk that made me laugh hard, i dont think I ever seen anyone on a hunt that hard
 

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Yah I think you should change your approach as well like another dude mentioned. It's good to disarm them by saying that you don't mean to startle them and that they are attractive, also that you don't do this on a regular basis. Hey man I respect your directness.
 

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use an opinion opener just to get them talking first. i know its old but i still love "jealous girlfriend" then go direct and tell them you think they are cute. i wouldnt even bother asking them if they are single. most of them will lie anyway just to get you to stop talking to them. all you are doing is giving the girl an option to end the conversation. its the same thing as asking a girl "would you like to keep talking to me?" most of them will say no and walk away. as you can see after 32 approaches you ratio is not good. you will also find out that all the phone #'s you get will all be flakes and will turn into no dates. even if out of your 100 approaches this summer, and all 100 of them gave you their phone#, i'd be supprised if you got more than 1 date out of this experiment. you have to make a solid impression on ther girl if want the # to turn into a date. no 2 min conversation will ever get you a solid phone#, even if the girl thinks your cute. most of the time a phone # isnt worth the paper its written on, so focus on setting up a date instead. i also use this mentality, "you cant f.u.ck. a phone #" think about it this way, if you did the exact same thing you are doing now, but instead ask them if they want to f.u.ck. you would get the same results, about 1 out of 100. however you are doing a good job getting rid of your approach anxiety.
 
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