Sum Deep Sh*t and need to know if I'm going psycho

[Dimebag_Darrell]

yep, it's f*cked up. Its what I get for not sarging enough. Yeah, I'm not p*ssy whipped but I can't stop thinking about her.

Reason why? Because the chick I wanna get with totally confused and is confusin me...she has made everything in the DJ bible look fool proof and afterwards totally almost destroying the way I'm supposed to run game and distorting the integrity of the philosophy of being a don juan, pua, etc...

Its driving me nuts that I did so many things right, got positive results and then got blind sided by lack of communication?, lack of trust? lack of swiftness? I dunno, but this chick totally either flaked on me or she died..

I met this chick a month ago right. I liked her and I knew she was hot for me because of the way she looked at me, her overall signals were green..I got her digits before she split and since then I've only been able to talk to her by phone or text and mainly text. I set two dates or three dates. the first time I had to ditch the plans because I had to take care of my new puppy.
The second time her brother came in from Vegas and so she couldnt do it.

And the 3rd time we were going to do it and but then I could never reach her..and when I did she still wanted to see me but then nothing.....I figured after 2 days that she was and from the looks of it, was leading me on or was probably scared of getting emotionally or physically hurt. I finally got tired of her excuses of bad phone reception or that she called me and I never answered and so I texted her saying that although I havent stopped thinking about her, I wasnt interested in her bullsh*t games and she just f*cked herself from something great(the girls do love me!)..and I left it with a good bye...

Well, I was certain that with me nexting her it would be all good..but...its been almost a week and I can't stop thinking about her. Actually it's been a month since I have seen her face to face. I just don't know what the hell is going on. I've taken 3 girls out for ice cream and made out with 1 of them, yet my gut still is bugging me about her. I just don't know. I'm trying so hard to forget her(I've tried picturing her as a monster with a huge strap on penis like the lead singer from GWAR).

I totally want to call her but I'm afraid that would be a stupid move. I want to move on but something is driving me to have her tell me to f*ck off or something. Does anyone even understand me? I'm sooooo confused about this girl that I'm tired of her yet, I can taste her, like a premonition or psychic connection thing that coincidence won't let us meet again. I have a deep feeling that this girl is thinking of me..its not an AFCish thing, its more like a higher level of communication connection thing that I can't name or explain.

See, I know when a chick doesn't like or doesn't want to see me any further and although it might hit a little hard, after a few hours or few days I'm already moving on, thinking about eating IHOP pancakes or something but this time it's totally different and its too almost too f*cking weird or scary to touch let alone discuss it with any of you.....I just don't wanna care anymore about her, but something is pulling me to indecision, or the fact that I need to see what's is truly up with this girl.

Can anyone even understand me?

 

[Nexxus]

Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
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can anyone even understand me?

nope. but it looks like you're really into her and she isn't, let her go

 

[The Comeback Kid]

I think I understand :woo: ....

Walk away. VERY smiliar situation had happened to me. Turned out the girl was probably just playing games and trying to toy with me emotions.

So if this girl is giving you extreme mixed signals like you seem to be saying, just walk away. You don't deserve to put up with this BS.

 

[LikRetsam]

A female is making you lose your head and question everything you have done to her?

Oh you're right; you don't need more chicks to fix this problem. You need to stop pretending to be king pimp and start becoming king pimp.

 

[Sammo]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
A female is making you lose your head and question everything you have done to her?

Oh you're right; you don't need more chicks to fix this problem. You need to stop pretending to be king pimp and start becoming king pimp.

Is it just me Lik or do these misconceptions seem to be a growing trend on this board?

Aaah, the male ego.

 

[guitaronfire411]

I know it's hard, but think less, do more.

 

[jenzos]

maybe you brought it up upon her too fast. maybe she got the ida that u wanted her as a girlfriend and she wasnt into it.


uhhh physically hurt? lol.

 

[jenzos]

Originally posted by Sammo
Is it just me Lik or do these misconceptions seem to be a growing trend on this board?

Aaah, the male ego.

i agree. everyone tries to pull the ****y thing. its okay. but we can tell when ur trying too hard hahaha.

edit: not talking about my man Dimebag. Im just maknig a general statement.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

The answer is that she is playing games with you, as I mentioned above.

Why am I so sure?

Because the EXACT SAME THING happened to me around a month ago (well, almost), I liked this chick who I thought for sure liked me. We talked for a couple weeks a lot, then I subtly asked her out. She said yes. Of course, things can change in a heartbeat - and in this case, it did.

From that moment on, I have never talked to her. The day I got home from school, she had my screenname on AOL blocked. The next day, she makes it noticable that she is trying her best to avoid me (she had friends blocking my view of her and some of her friends walked around to tell her if I was near). One time, I was walking out to my car like I do everyday. She comes out to her friend's car for some reason and when she sees me, she hides behind her friends AND other cars. It go too chaotic and I "next"ed her.

The lesson I learned here was that when a girl starts to do this sh*t, don't put up with it, and just walk away. In my situation, it turned out my friend was right in saying she's a sl*t, and I'm happer than ever that we never went out.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

Yeah,...girls are f*cking gay! The only time I can actually see myself moving on is when I see her again and tell her that she's fat and she made Jabba the Hut look attractive, although in reality I DON'T HATE HER! AND I'm not like emotionally hurt or distressed by her mixed signals..it just perplexes my mind. Its kind of like wondering how in the hell would we ever live if The Beatles never would have come together and made the White album. Its a perplexing and weird question..notion..I don't know and don't want to want to know but I do..

Man, I should have gone to Kansas for that Opeth concert. I saw Opeth in July, I was having problems with this one chick(not as deep as this) and one day I went to Sounds of the Underground festival, saw GWAR play "preschool prostitute" live and I saw Opeth blow my f*cking mind away to near orgasm with their incredible music..I immediately forgot about that *****...but not this time.

F*ck....

 

[The Comeback Kid]

Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
Yeah,...girls are f*cking gay! The only time I can actually see myself moving on is when I see her again and tell her that she's fat and she made Jabba the Hut look attractive, although in reality I DON'T HATE HER! AND I'm not like emotionally hurt or distressed by her mixed signals..it just perplexes my mind. Its kind of like wondering how in the hell would we ever live if The Beatles never would have come together and made the White album. Its a perplexing and weird question..notion..I don't know and don't want to want to know but I do..

Man, I should have gone to Kansas for that Opeth concert. I saw Opeth in July, I was having problems with this one chick(not as deep as this) and one day I went to Sounds of the Underground festival, saw GWAR play "preschool prostitute" live and I saw Opeth blow my f*cking mind away to near orgasm with their incredible music..I immediately forgot about that *****...but not this time.

F*ck....

Weell, it's gonna be hard and will take time, but u gotta do it. :woo: I don't advise doing the Jabba the Hut skit though, because you want to look like the bigger person. Just walk away and she'll have nothing.

Check out some other hotties to try and her her off ur mind lol.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

Dude, I've made out with 2 girls since her.. 2 girls one was a 6 and the other an 8, still no avail..but because I'm not the type of dude who gets down or mad about female's tendencies towards flakiness anymore because I've seen rejection numerous times and especially this summer. I was and am blossoming when it comes to interacting and seducing chicks. I rose from a summer with 5 numbers, no f*ck or kiss closes to this summer which had me at over 60 numbers and 10 f*ck closes and 12 kiss closes, yet I'm hit with this hoebag's bullsheot. I figure it can't get any worse, seriously. You're not hurt, know about the girls and how they work, can say you're a don juan and can give useful advice yet you get an itch, a flat tire in your way to your destination, a setback that is an illusion of a problem and solution at the same time. One thing though, talking about this with you has helped me a lot because I really have had not time to talk to any guys on this forum or anywhere else for that matter, just my sister(damn her) who introduced me to this damned girl, evil girl and she keeps telling me that she has been trying to reach me but I'm being the b*tch...(grabs the 12 gauge, drinks a beer and shoots the neighbor's cat)..arrgh, women..