Suicidial One-itis

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

OK it seems that EVERYBODY is split on this. Of coarse the do-gooders are all "It's ok to feel like this" and the MEN are like "Grab those round things between your legs and make sure they're still there".



This guy has got to be shown that it is NOT ok to feel like this. You think he's bad now? What about when he's older if he loses his job, or his wife leaves him or something?


Know what happened when I felt REALLY shítty over a girl? I posted my bs stories here, leading up to a drunken "I love her" post. I was told to BE A FVKING MAN. I was told again and again until I started becoming one. If I was told that it was "ok" to be feeling what i'm feeling and that sooner or later I'd start feeling better, chances are I'd STILL be a major AFC at this stage, falling in "love" with girl after girl and basically fvcking up my whole life.



I think we should leave this and let the guy who started this post decide what route he wants to take. Is he going to take the EASY route, the gentle route as you guys hold his hand all the way to the gay pride parade - OR is he going to be a MAN about things and start becoming RESPONSIBLE for his own actions and start changing his life for the better ???



he should be a Man of Action. MAN...ACTION:
A man who takes action, not an AFC who wallows in his own self pity.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Close this thread, clearly the man is just crying out for attention.

If he really does kill himself, it'd probably be someone's responsbility to say something (?) so better off just closing this topic before he says "I'm going to do it tomorrow".

 

[GlutusMaximus86]

Nice post BBB

Is he going to take the EASY route, the gentle route as you guys hold his hand all the way to the gay pride parade

Just because there gay dosen't mean there little pussies, that's just a stereotype. Don't follow stereotypes, that's one of the resons world is so f***ed up today because everyone assumes those stereotypes are true. If you don't believe me take sociology.
I was suicidal from 9th to 10th grade for various reasons ( family fights, being bullyied, and the occasional girl that I got way too obssesed with) the summer between 10th and 11th grade was the best summer I ever had. I found this website and I also got a great job with people that were natural djs and treated me with respect which helped me gain more respect for myself. What I'm trying to say is go out do something where people will respect you. Like BBB said try and help other people or even just a regular job will help you as long as the people around you respect you you will gain at least some more respect for yourself. If they don't respect you don't waste your time with them.

 

[Boricua_33015]

I thought this was closed?

Look. The way Ronny writes is good because it gets through your head easier. BUT if you want to make him learn with the tough love that you give him, at least you should say something in the beginning of the post like "don't be offended by whatever I am going to say, Im just going to try to get it through your damn head" I recommend this for all the times you try to give someone tough love.

If you don't excuse yourself then yea maybe he will take it personal and then just say "OK! thats it, everyone hates me!" *pop.....

News Reporter: We are at the scene of a suicide...... you know the rest.

You all just don't know how sensitive these types of people are to critisism or insults. I know because I used to be one of them.

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

Originally posted by GlutusMaximus86
Just because there gay dosen't mean there little pussies, that's just a stereotype. Don't follow stereotypes, that's one of the resons world is so f***ed up today because everyone assumes those stereotypes are true. If you don't believe me take sociology.

See you didn't read my post, but rather just looked for something to moan about. It's stereotypes now, is it?


According to your post, you need other people to respect you before you can respect yourself. Which is what got the chap in this position in the first place,

 

[GlutusMaximus86]

See you didn't read my post, but rather just looked for something to moan about. It's stereotypes now, is it?

I'm not whining about it I'm just stating my opinion about that issue.

If they don't respect you don't waste your time with them

Did you read that part of my post?

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

Originally posted by GlutusMaximus86
I'm not whining about it I'm just stating my opinion about that issue.

I didn't say that you were whining...I said you were moaning

Did you read that part of my post?

Yes I did...did you?? I don't know what you were trying to prove by saying this, because what i said that you said...is EXACTLY what you said.


idiocy IS a crime

 

[kevbo]

these are the kinds of threads that make me want to leave this place sometimes. this site needs more people like solja j, dbot, and bbb. why? they're here to help people. for posts like this, it's best to assume they're being honest, because chances are that they are. almost every guy here was in this situation. most of us were probably at least close to suicidal at some point. having ****s like ronny and smooth just makes things worse. if you have such a problem with these posts, why do you go to the trouble of replying?

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

Originally posted by kevbo
these are the kinds of threads that make me want to leave this place sometimes. this site needs more people like solja j, dbot, and bbb. why? they're here to help people. for posts like this, it's best to assume they're being honest, because chances are that they are. almost every guy here was in this situation. most of us were probably at least close to suicidal at some point. having ****s like ronny and smooth just makes things worse. if you have such a problem with these posts, why do you go to the trouble of replying?

Um...it seems as though you didn't read my post either. Yes I dislike posts that talk about wanting to kill yourself because of a girl. Do you like them?


IF you had of read my posts, then you would see that I did help him. I told him to start being a man and to be less of a pússy. I even went to the trouble of finding an article for him to read in the DJ Bible, because we all know that no matter how many times we tell him to read the bible himself, he'd say "Yeah I already did that, but it wasn't any help".




AS I explained in my earlier post, I TOO was like this with a girl. AND I was told to be a FVCKING MAN about it...and guess what? I became one.



So the lesson we have learned here today, is that people like to read posts only so far as they get something which they can quote, or complain about. Brilliant.



Also as you can see yourself, the replies from the smarter people have stopped, because they realise that they jumped wrongly at me in a moment of stupidity. NOW it's up to the rest of the uber glutus-kevbo morons. Have fun guys.

 

[WrEcKLeSS2000]

You should listen to the song Stan by Eminem...Eminem mentions some good words at the end...The song isn't about like girls really but its about a crazed fan that is suicidal...Eminem at the end makes a good point saying...Whats that you like cut your wrists too, i say that **** clowning, How fked up is you...You have some issues stan i think you need some counceling...

 

[Solja J]

You're in control of your mental state. What have you done to get depressed? What have you been thinking about? It seems like you're thinking very negative.

IF you had of read my posts, then you would see that I did help him. I told him to start being a man and to be less of a pússy. I even went to the trouble of finding an article for him to read in the DJ Bible, because we all know that no matter how many times we tell him to read the bible himself, he'd say "Yeah I already did that, but it wasn't any help

I told him to be a man, but in another calm manner. If you're in control of your emotions thats what being a man is all about!

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

Originally posted by Solja J
You're in control of your mental state. What have you done to get depressed? What have you been thinking about? It seems like you're thinking very negative.

HOW is that telling somebody to be a MAN??? You just encouraged him to spill his guts some more.

I told him to be a man, but in another calm manner. If you're in control of your emotions thats what being a man is all about!

Yes being in control of your emotions is EXACTLY what being a mant is about. Oh wait, NO.

 

[K56Connect]

So, did this guy finally blow his brains out, or is he laying low, not responding, and secretly whacking off to all the angered responses everyone's giving him.