BackInTheGame78
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Still doing fairly well overall, have 3 or 4 plates, but I am trying to replace the bottom 2 with new women as one is not that great in the sack(dead fish) and the other is getting a little annoying personality wise...
Have been on 5 dates the past 3 weeks with new women. All of them seemingly went well. Had a good time, laughed, joked around, teased them, played darts/pool with a few of them(depending on if place had this), I laid back and played it cool, they would always end up positioning themselves towards me at some point and then I would proceed to escalate...ended up making out with all of them, a few of them quite heavily. Did not act needy or AFC, told them I'd talk to them sometime or they'd tell me to call or text them, but I never did until at least 2 or 3 days after. A few initiated texting with me first. Did not get into any long text conversations with them, couple back and forth texts, then asked them out again.
Funny thing is, I haven't been able to get any of them out on a second date. Either schedules haven't matched up or for whatever reason they decided not to go out with me again. I know they won't ever tell you the real reason as to why, but I'm almost half tempted to just straight up ask them WTF is up with making out with me and then never wanting to see me again? I don't really care about salvaging any of these women, but I just need to get this figured out for future dates. Something is happening between the time we leave the date and the time I contact them again, meaning they are thinking about what happened or imagining what I will be like in the future and deciding not to see me again. I'm muscular(college linebacker build), fairly good looking, and have my sh!t together(job, car, own a house), I can be edgy at times, I'm not afraid to speak my mind or say something that will offend them.
I'm at a complete loss right now as to what is going on. I have another date setup for Thursday with this really cute woman that is really into fitness and working out like I am and definitely want to make sure I bring my "A" game to the date and then have my "A" game post date to ensure another date(if we hit it off like I think we will of course).
I understand that most of you are going to say "They just weren't interested" but it has to be something more than that. I've never had this much of a headache getting a 2nd date before and its starting to irritate me a little to be honest. Any advice would be appreciated along with some DETAILED advice to ensure you get a 2nd date when the 1st date went well...
Have been on 5 dates the past 3 weeks with new women. All of them seemingly went well. Had a good time, laughed, joked around, teased them, played darts/pool with a few of them(depending on if place had this), I laid back and played it cool, they would always end up positioning themselves towards me at some point and then I would proceed to escalate...ended up making out with all of them, a few of them quite heavily. Did not act needy or AFC, told them I'd talk to them sometime or they'd tell me to call or text them, but I never did until at least 2 or 3 days after. A few initiated texting with me first. Did not get into any long text conversations with them, couple back and forth texts, then asked them out again.
Funny thing is, I haven't been able to get any of them out on a second date. Either schedules haven't matched up or for whatever reason they decided not to go out with me again. I know they won't ever tell you the real reason as to why, but I'm almost half tempted to just straight up ask them WTF is up with making out with me and then never wanting to see me again? I don't really care about salvaging any of these women, but I just need to get this figured out for future dates. Something is happening between the time we leave the date and the time I contact them again, meaning they are thinking about what happened or imagining what I will be like in the future and deciding not to see me again. I'm muscular(college linebacker build), fairly good looking, and have my sh!t together(job, car, own a house), I can be edgy at times, I'm not afraid to speak my mind or say something that will offend them.
I'm at a complete loss right now as to what is going on. I have another date setup for Thursday with this really cute woman that is really into fitness and working out like I am and definitely want to make sure I bring my "A" game to the date and then have my "A" game post date to ensure another date(if we hit it off like I think we will of course).
I understand that most of you are going to say "They just weren't interested" but it has to be something more than that. I've never had this much of a headache getting a 2nd date before and its starting to irritate me a little to be honest. Any advice would be appreciated along with some DETAILED advice to ensure you get a 2nd date when the 1st date went well...