Suddenly cold?

[saturos]

The girl i've been interested in suddenly seemed cold and distant for the last two days when i see her in class...
For a while now, we've flirted and stuff and like two days ago we were laughing and having agood time, but today and yesterday she just seemed to not want to talk. Is she just in some bad mood or something? I know that I haven't done anything that would be offensive or anything...

 

[guitaronfire411]

Maybe something is on her mind? Death in the family? Who knows?

Keep your cool and give her space. She will come to you eventually.

Proximity, words, etc.

Need more info.

 

[saturos]

Ah, she's in my Chem class and we sit by each other.
I wasn't really interested in her initially because she was really shy around guys and i didn't feel like bothering, but now i am sort of after her. Obviously, since we sit together, we usually talk every day, but the class is also almost without breaks in terms of taking notes, so when i talk to her, some days it would just be nothing except for about school and chem. Lately i've been trying to talk to her more and kino and crap and the like and i get the feeling that she is interested.
No words exactly come to mind, but she basically just didn't seem like she wanted to talk...i'm guessing hopefully just a bad mood.

 

[sanjimbo]

I'm going through the exact same thing with a girl right now. The only difference is that I have her in different classes. I wasn't interested in her at first, but now I'm chasing after her. On Tuesday things were going great, but the last two days seemed like she didn't want to talk.

Today I went up to her after class and tried to talk to her but I was basically doing all the talking; she would only reply with a couple words, so I cut it short because it felt uncomfortable. I have her in two classes and at the end of the other class she started talking to me. I don't know what the deal is.

 

[Don Shinra]

offer her your sweater?

 

[IPalindromeI]

If a girl goes cold, and you continue to chase her - the balance of power tips in her favor. Then you are done for.

The reasons don't really matter. Bottom line?

girl going cold = you move on to the next one

 

[saturos]

...@ last two posts

 

[Poonani Maker]

It's your job to warm her up. If you're not doing your job, however warm you are, then it's HER problem, not yours.