such bull****. oh well. hoes gon be hoes

[the third eye]

i dont really know how to find my other thread so ill just post a new one with what I typed up for the OP last time, plus the update from today.

PREFACE: Im 18 and a freshman in college. theres this hb7.5 that has been bothering me for sex for quite some time. i know i could grab this lay easily, plus since she lives right down the street. only problem is that im a virgin and although ive hooked up with a few random girls ive always had pretty bad anxiety around girls im attracted to. Im not really attracted to this girl because she is really ditsy (or stupid?) but she has a pretty nice body. shes a few years younger than me and i was wondering if i should just go ahead and **** her to lose my v-card and maybe gain some experience. Plus i wont have to worry too much about my performance because she lacks a few years experience that other girls my age have. What should i do? (i should probably add that when i ignore this girl she will sometimes text me like 6 times without me replying so i think shes a little crazy)

For anyone who cares: i just got perscribed anti depressants for my clinical depression, have been wrking out regularly again, browsing sosuave, and really just working on bettering myself and my confidence. would this decent looking, stupid, naive young piece of ass be a decent starting point for my journey to being a DJ?

okay so i went and met her at school. i tell her we should drive somewhere but she said she cant leave. so then we were walking around looking for a spot to go and she leads me to this path in the woods. she stops right outside it and said she doesnt want to go in, so we sit down outside and im doing kino (which i suck at) when a group of kids shows up. i dont know if theyre following us or not so we walk around waiting for them to leave and then after they do we return to the same spot. then like 2 seconds later some other girl shows up who is apparently friends with hb7. she said somebody named "piper" said to come get her, at which point i told her to **** off because i knew she was either trying to ****block me or there was something going on that i didnt know about. she keeps coming and jabbing her mouth to hb who is doing the whiney but sort of playful voice telling her to go away. at this point i was just fed up and walked out without saying anything more to either of them. i am currently ignoring all call/texts from this crazy. after i began driving off i started getting thoughts like i had made a rash decision. idk if this is because of my self-defeating personality or what.

howd i handle this situation?

 

[Mike32ct]

I don't disagree with what you did. I probably would have done the same.

Both girls were in the wrong. One was a c@ckblock (CB). Plus your girl couldn't keep her mouth shut and pretty much invited the CB drama.

If you still want to b@ng her, let her make it up to you. If you don't want any more drama, just let it go.

Overall, I think you did the right thing.

 

[the third eye]

I don't disagree with what you did. I probably would have done the same.

Both girls were in the wrong. One was a c@ckblock (CB). Plus your girl couldn't keep her mouth shut and pretty much invited the CB drama.

If you still want to b@ng her, let her make it up to you. If you don't want any more drama, just let it go.

Overall, I think you did the right thing.

im letting this go. honestly it took alot of effort for me to psych myself up for this because unless im already horny, i will deliberately go out of my way to avoid sexual situations(like wtf?). i spent at least an hour with mental prep which is the only reason im pissed. i could care less about this girl, but i realized today when i was feeling it that she has such a nice ass so im gonna just keep my one and only option (at this point) open. ive literally ignored this girl for like a month at a time and she would still send me texts near daily, so i know she'll still be there when im done ignoring her lol

 

[marmel75]

Sounds like typical high school stuff to be honest...

 

[the third eye]

Sounds like typical high school stuff to be honest...

i know. and i halfway expected something like that to happen which is i guess why it was so easy for me to walk off when that bull**** presented itself. the last thing i said to them as i was walking off was, "thats so ****ing childish"

idk if this girl was following us or if somehow there was an elaborate plan i was unaware of but i got fed up with it real quick. i still kind of have the feeling that i was just being a ***** and i was too eager to choose flight over fight, but at the time thats not what was running through my head so idk. im overall just a bit confused lol