Such a Hard time Meeting New people

[fonderboy]

Hey man you are in the same situation as me.

I found something that REALLY boosts self-confidence, though.

LIFTING WEIGHTS!!!

It's a TREMENDOUS confidence booster. Not only do you look bigger and more muscular, which makes you in turn feel less self-conscious and better about yourself, but also you gain more testosterone!! That's right, that wonderful male hormone that makes you more DOMINANT, AGGRESSIVE, and ALL THINGS MANLY!!

I use to feel really lonely and sad a lot, but now my outlook on life is more positive and I am much more confidence and less self-conscious, thus I don't care what I do and what people always think of me.

Also, I am no longer afraid of speaking up. I speak up in class a lot and make wisecracks and it gets you noticed. People will talk to you after class, and friendships will bond, etc. (BTW I'm only in high school so this might not applly to you) but anyways just talk LOUDER and MORE CONFIDENTLY and WALK MORE CONFIDENTLY and RADIATE CONFIDENCE.

 

[kk2004]

okay

making friends isnt hard..but making friends who know hot girls are. They usually tend to keep to themselves and dont befriend other people too easily. On top of that bcuz Im indian I feel that They wouldnt like me in the first place.

Being open and friendly is hard, bcuz my nature is to be quiet and lonely..I dont get invited to that many parties..I dont know people remb. Holding convo's is difficult and being open and friendly is very hard for me.

Strangers or new people are intimidating, I tend to keep to myself and not venture far from...I keep to myself mostly.

Im self conscious...and i dont know how to stop it.

The answer is prob a higher self confidence maybe by working out..and self hypnosis

 

[kk2004]

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[trudj11]

what a *****!

i dont what your real problem is man, but you gotta stop cying to some forum about feeling bad about yourself. if you tink you are too skinny do something about it mutha****er, instead of going around waiting for someone to tell you that you dont have to change anything, and that youre perfect just the way you are or whatever. i dont why you think you being indian is onna be a problem for you dawg, unless your a fob or some ****, you shouldnt be having *any* problems due to that. grow some balls *****. heres a piece of advice that will go a long way.. start eating a lot of food (whatever you want, all the junk you wnt and anything), and hit the gym HARD. trust me on this, one desi to another, that girl wasnt an accident. she saw something that you are just not seeing..; when you figure that out, you wont need a lameass "wingman" and you wont have to have try to make tons of friends to meet women. the only reason guys on here think they need to meet women through being part of some elaborate social ring is that women dont give them the time of day otherwise, but as any tru don juan knows, women have no problem with letting you know they are into you if got it goin on..