By the way,
since I posted this post, I've incorporated a script into my NLP regarding dancing.
The script goes, "You're an outstanding dancer and you enjoy dancing in front of others."
(NLP is about "programming" you mind. It works. God does it fukking work.)
Anyways, about a month after I started programming myself w/r/t to dancing, I was at this street plaza kind of thing where this Latin band was playing, and it was at night, and bunches of people were dancing, and I was with my girlfriend.
Well we watched for about two songs. And she was just kind of watching the people dancing.
And the old part of me was thinking, too bad you don't dance, you could impress her, but then I remember, "You're an outstanding dancer and you enjoy dancing in front of others."
So I said, "Let's dance," and I grabbed her hand and led her out into the middle of the crowd and dance.
Did I know exactly what I was doing? Nope!
But you know what she said to me mid-way through the dancing. She said, "You know you said you wanted to take lessons, but you don't have to, you're already so good."
And when we left she was all over me, and told me the next day and a week later how much fun she had dancing with me.
And how did I do so well.
Because I remembered, "You're an outstanding dancer and you enjoy dancing in front of others!"
(BTW, I program myself four times a day, once at rising, once before sleeping, and twice each day in your car. And if you're going to develop scripts for yourself, you, the reader, here, use the second person. It works better than the first person.)