Success Story :)

[RandomGuy22]

Hi, a few weeks ago i posted here for ideas on how to make move on a potential girl, since I was going out w/ her on our first date. I am happy to report that now, 5 weeks later, she is my girlfriend. This site didn't get her for me, but it helped me tweek my personality and make me the person who did get her.

Anyway, this is the part that is really important. A lot of you guys say that this site won't help, and that being outgoing and confident won't get you girls you want b/c you're not "cool" enough or "popular" enough. Let me tell you, this girl is about a 8 in my book, she's a Senior(older than me) and she's captain of our tennis team. Tonight she was over b/c my mom is out of town , and we talked for a bit. Now before our first date, i was told by a friend that she was "talking" to this other senior guy who i'll call John. I'm completely secure abou tmy sexuality, and i like to think that i have a good grasp on how good looking i am. And let me tell you John, in most girls eyes would be considered "hotter" than me, probably much much hotter. He's a senior, and she told me that her and John went out a couple of times but nothing happened, even though she liked him.

Guess why she didn't like john?

HE WAS TOO SHY! !!!! he NEVER tried to do ANYTHING, so she got bored and MOVED ON. I won her over b/c of some of the things that i read on this site that helped me realize to be a true DJ you have to have confidence and go for things. She said that was the thing she noticed first about me, that i was confident and fun to hang around. I wasn't "shy".

So, to all you potential DJ's who think confidence isn't as important as everyone makes it seem, it is. beleive me.

thx DJ's

-RandomGuy22

 

[Sammo]

Nice work buddy!

 

[triple_ultima]

Props. Too bad you've fallen into the "relationship pit" though. I would have kept it purely physical. It does go to show you that shyness gets you nowhere in life however, and that popularity really isn't crucial, though it certainly helps.

 

[bust.it]

Originally posted by triple_ultima
Too bad you've fallen into the "relationship pit" though. I would have kept it purely physical.

i disagree.

IMO i think it takes MORE to reach the higher level of a relationship. after a while, DJing is easy because it comes naturally.

for me, working the relationship is a challenge. more power to you that she's your gf and not another hook up.

 

[triple_ultima]

Oh I wasn't saying that at all. I know it requires more effort to actually be in a relationship. I just hate relationships because I am a very bitter, cynical person. That's all.

 

[xxxgunz]

i sounded like john