Success rates in nightclubs?

[SteR]

Hey guys I'm just wondering if any of you can tell me about the general success rates in picking up in clubs?
I went out last night and I must've approached at least 10 women and I didn't seem to get anywhere with them. I mean I don't think my approach was too bad - I literally just went up to the bar and asked the girl next to me or whatever if she could get me a glass of water or whatever and then I smiled and initiated convo.
Thing is I did start using the cf etc on some of the girls and 2 in particular were lapping it up and they were both friends but then they both seemed to just leave even though they were showing quite high interest levels. I don't think I was too drunk or anything either as I wasn't messing up with what I was saying.
I guess I'm just a bit pissed off lol because I approached so many women and yet go no return. Gay.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

The club is filled with men so it's all about being the better one... Dress sharper, be better looking, dance better, be more charming, be desirable in all possible ways. Be even more confident, don't be drunk etc etc etc.

 

[Viking25]

Women go clubbing to have fun,reject some men,boost their ego,play the game...but not meet someone! Clubs are the worst places to hook up IMO.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Best place for ONS... ALOT of girls go to clubs to also pickup someone or have sex or meet someone.

 

[Golden Arms]

I have to side with KineticCharm on this one

I can't believe somebody would say club is one of the *worst* places to hook up

 

[Timski]

did u say those girls just left you?

you're the one who's supposed to leave them (wanting more) after u've done all the c+f etc

basic DJ rules man

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Clubs are VERY good to pickup girls BUT Clubs are also very very superficial meaning that clubs is one of the places looks means ALOT.

 

[tx_xp]

First of all it isn’t always true that the guys outnumber the girls in clubs, however, this is the norm. There are clubs where the girls outnumber the guys, but this detail is not a requirement for it to be a good club. There should be a good mix however.

You should size a club up in the first few minutes of being there and next the club if needed (leave). Doing your research before leaving will sure help. Have a list in mind of several places where you may go tonight and know what that club has going on. Also know what time the club gets kicking and what time they die. If the law requires they stop serving at 2AM you may find that they start to die around 1:30 or so. You may also find that they don’t really get going until 11PM. This would only give you about 3 hours prime time.

Go out to have fun and frankly don’t approach as many women. Use the time you have to build relationships with the women in the club and at the end of the night leave yourself with choices. When I say relationships I don’t mean deep ones, I just mean that when you are come over to their area they are encouraging you to stay and when you are there, they are having a better time because of it. Have several groups that all feel the same way about you, this will help as you’re the life of the party.

 

[DankNuggs]

Clubs rule, however in my very extensive experience the trouble with trying to find a girl to date at a club is the fact that most girls get so sloshed, especially if your hanging out and having fun, that its awkward after the fact because she or you don't remember what happened/was said...

Its like trying to date a girl you met on vacation, the circumstances are different, which means you have to start all over again and base the relationship on reality...

But the hook up, get numbers, grab some ass, the clubs rule...


Those ten girls by the way could have had BF's, been dating people, girls night out, for what ever reason, don't worry about success rates, just have fun and you'll meet people.....

 

[SteR]

Yea I think looking back I was actually really drunk - i had half a bottle of vodka before entering the club and then several more beers inside . Anyway I shall be going out tonight and although I'll be drinking I'll make sure that I'm not wasted and talking crap.
I'll let y'all know how it went when I get back

 

[uniassign]

Hey guys I'm just wondering if any of you can tell me about the general success rates in picking up in clubs?

The usual success rate is about 80% number close, then perhaps about 30% of them will go out with you again. Don't forget, these are COLD approaches, meaning the girls have NEVER seen you before, and probably never see you again.

I literally just went up to the bar and asked the girl next to me or whatever if she could get me a glass of water or whatever and then I smiled and initiated convo.

Strategically poor place to start talking to chicks. Why? Because chicks at the bar are trying to get drinks. Incidentially that's where most LAMOs make their moves as well.

Think about it, the chick is trying to get a drink. She is pre-occupied with getting the bar tender's attention. She won't pay much attention to you, especially if you are just having friendly conversation.

Try when chicks are sitting, or already have drinks in their hands. Have interesting things to say, interesting and funny stories to tell. That's how you get good reactions, as opposed to boring "what do you do" questions.

Yea I think looking back I was actually really drunk - i had half a bottle of vodka before entering the club and then several more beers inside

Yeah, that could be your problem.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Here's a thread from a week or so ago about clubbing.

Don Juanism and the Club

 

[Player_Supreme]

Nite club success isn’t that hard once you learn the rules:

1. If you don’t have the aura to pull it off then dress for success. If you don’t reek of power then you need to dress for power. Women love a well dressed man, no matter what the environment.
2. When you walk in. Take a moment to stop at the door and survey the surroundings. Look at where all of the fine honeys are clustered at. Take your time even if somebody is behind you. You’re a winner and let them wait. Walk in as if you own the joint.
3. Walk through making eye contact at all of the fine dimes that are there. Ignore the lesser quality ones.
4. Go to the bar and buy a fancy smanzy drink. Then post up near the dance floor. I actually stand on the edge of the floor or I will sit right on the edge. You want to be in the honey eye vision.
5. Pick out one you like. Make eye contact with her. If she returns it. Then walk over to her.
6. Say “What’s your name” she responds , You say. Susie (or whatever her name is) my name is ( ), when a good song comes on I want you to dance with me.
7. Then walk the fawk away!

What you’ve done is establish control over her. Most will sit or stand and wait for you to come “get” them. Why? Because they’ve just promised to dance with YOU! Other chumps will go up and they will usually turn them down if they are digging you and wait like good little girls for YOU to approach.

There is a phrase to remember: Chase a ho and get a chumps cop, stalk a ho and get a pimps cop. **warning*** I’m not talking about pimping but having the power of a pimp over a woman. Know the difference. In my game power is everything. Its better to walk in and get seated like a king than to wait tables. This means that power is better to have than to not have in any situation.

Now when a song comes on that you like go get her ass.

I pull 100 percent with this technique. I’ve never not pulled. Last Friday I posted my success. I went to a place called The Press Club in Sacramento. It’s an all white club. Downtowner type of whites…ex skin heads who grew up and realized the world was a bigger place than their own little world. Myself and a bouncer were the only brotha's in the whole joint.

I went with my buddy for support on his first date to help guide him to the land of pvssy. I pulled a girl name Cathryn who is a bi chick…not my taste.


Like I posted last Friday…look who is on here late at night posting and who is out there doing this dam thang!

Now for the short attention spanners I will cut this post short...sorry kid.

 

[CLOONEY]

I've heard the rumor around this site that clubs are a bad place to pick up. Those who say that must be FUKCING ugly.

Dont just approach a random chick. Usually club pickups come on the dancefloor. You get eye contact, then a smile, then u slowly work your way over to her.

 

[MVPlaya]

Player_Supreme, if you pull 100%, you should challenge Mystery, the dude from mASF. Go to the forum at mASF and simply create a new post saying "Player_Supreme Challenges Mystery" or something like that, I'd love to see if you guys could teach eachother a thing or two. Mystery = the 31 year old clubbing guru at mASF (who charges $300 a seat @his seminars).

 

[Befuddled]

I'm not too huge on the club scene personally, cause i dont care too much for dancing. But i think it's relitavely easy to do.

I was at one the other night a really georgeous brunette caught my attention but she was with like 2 other guys. So anyway,i was just having a good time on the dance floor just moving to the music, and apparently i missed some clear signals, from other girls. When theres a live band performing i get into the music too much...very trippy...and the alcohol dosent help either . But i ended up in the area of this brunette and i actually managed to get her to notice me...and had a dance with her, while the dudes were just watching which was kinda weird. But i think if your there to have a good time, and arent dripping with desperation, you should do fine. the only thing that keeps you from doing anything is the loud loud music.

Ive never picked up a girl at a club, although a couple of my friends have told me that some girl/s were preety pissed at me for missing their signals..i beleive the term was woman-hater or something....once again i blame the music and alcohol ). but i dont thinks it's as tough as ppl say it is, i mean everyone's there for one reason. It's the human mating ritual of the 20-21st century for heavens safe.

 

[Kourt]

walk up to the bar and sit down next to the chic of your choice and say "if you buy me a drink, i'll let you kiss me" see what happens and go from there

 

[squirrels]

"Success" is a vague term. I've ended up grinding and making out with MANY girls in "the club" before. I have yet to actually "take one home."

But then again, that's probably my fault more than anything.

 

[IrReSiStIbLe]

Ok, I'm gonna make it VERY simple, and some of you might disagree with me as it may offend you, but... Clubbing is ALL ABOUT LOOKS... sorry.. Thats reality..

Went clubbing with a mate of mine, who is the captain of his footy team and a model, to a club the other night (im better looking than him btw, just not as tank) and together we got at least 8 numbers.. Every chick we spoke to was very nice to us, and respnoded VERY politely to anything we said or did.

When i go with my ugly friends(not really ugly, just very average looking), theyd be lucky to get an UG to look at them and if theyd approach a chick, she'd be very cold with them.

It's very simple-
1) Invest A LOT into your looks (Hair, face, body, etc...).
2) Wear the most up-to-date clothes you can find. The thing with most AFC's on this site is, they are too stingy to spend $35-50 on a shirt, not knowing how much it could benifit them. They'd rather spend the same amount on computer games, software, or other irrelavent stuff...
3) STAY AWAY FROM STUPID LINES!! (Some as mentioned by some ppl above).. Be yourself, there is nothign that pisses a woman off more than a guy who is getting out of his way- verbally or physically- in order to pick her up.. But ofcourse none of you are gonna listen to me and keep on wondering what the hell is wrong with you.
4) Good posture, walk slowly with no fear in your eyes, and try not to look at every chick in the club, show that you are not there to pick up, you are just there to have a good time with your mates.. trust me..

Good luck,
IrReSiStIbLe.

 

[PlayerSupreme]

100 PERCENT!!!!

Success rates in nightclubs? "

100 percent!

I don't approach if there's no interest. I always find interest. When I want a ho from da club I go get hurr.