sandman6991
Senior Don Juan
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Guys...I'm really needing your help on this girl...I'll try to keep it somewhat short...but I am NOT moving on...it's not one-itis either...and if it was...I'll manage to fight through it...she's my only option that is realistic at my school...so let's make this happen.
Background:
I met her last November...she is the sister of a good dude friend of mine...so I met her at a basketball game...BEFORE you say sutff about her brother...we're good friends...and he wouldn't mind at all if I dated her...
I did a GREAT job talking to her at the basketball game...I teased her...mainained high value...even got a good inside joke...when I went to school the next week she was all over me..to a good extent...wanting to talk to me whenever I passed her in the halls...etc...
Fast-foward to January...I'm at a basketball game...she calls me to sit with her...we talk pretty good...things are going well...BUT I've only talked to her twice here...which is something that I failed to think about...I always get ahead of myself...and by then I had already assumed that she liked me...
Big mistake...stupid...things take time...I rush things...I'm impatient...I've waited so long for success that I want it ASAP...
I started having a friend of hers ask if she liked me...what a moron...but all this didn't start up until around the Valentines Day Dance...
My friends asked her if she wanted to dance with me...I know..big AFC mistake...stupid...
But she said she would dance...and the next song.."Photograph"...we danced...and I will say it was on of the best three-four minutes I've had...AFC again...but I'm GOING to get this girl...so...I might as well not return to reality...I recognize where I'm at with one-itis...but I'm going to get her...or die trying one...*Not literally...I'm not gonna cut myself of anythin*
So then...after the dance...a friend asked if she liked me..and she said she "didn't know"..during this time...she was coming in my fourth period...to talk to another of her friends..then I continued my stupid behavior...I got nervous...and didn't talk to her much at all...and when I did...it wasn't the most enthralling conversation in the history of the universe...
As the school year ended...it got worse...I tried to get the courage for two or three weeks straight before school ended to ask her to a movie...and I know she could sense my desperation...which I hate that I was so stupid...and finally on the last day...my best friend told her I needed to talk to her...and she knew what was coming...but I left early...and never talked...so the summer began with her probably having a pretty bad taste in her mouth concerned with me...although she was still friendly..as she is to EVERYONE
Summer...I try to get girls...I don't. Wow! What a quick summary.
When school started...I did much better with her...not displaying much of the neediness..and making her laugh a lot...but I did talk to her a lot..and she is super friendly...so finally...she sits with me at lunch...she was next to me...my friend in front of us...I begin an arm wrestling thread in order to get me and her to arm-wrestle laster..he interrupts...and challenges me to arm wrestle! Moron. I lose. I'm strong..it's gay. I'm a football player. WTF?! I don't get it either. Then he gets KILLED by another dude at the table...and she reaches across the table and teaches him the proper technique...for like a hour...
She is also not being as responsive as she was earlier in the year...I need to kick things up a notch..her brother wants to help me with this...another problem..she is all over this HUGE NERD...who doesn't even DATE..I think she doesn't like him like that or anything..but it's hard to see her wanting to talk to him much more than me..she actually goes to talk to him when we're casually chatting..PAINFUL...
She did sit with me again today..but still not as receptive to the flirting..humor..and jokes...maybe it's my mind...maybe it's not...
I think there is hope..you decide. I need the help! I want this girl. Thank you guys!
Background:
I met her last November...she is the sister of a good dude friend of mine...so I met her at a basketball game...BEFORE you say sutff about her brother...we're good friends...and he wouldn't mind at all if I dated her...
I did a GREAT job talking to her at the basketball game...I teased her...mainained high value...even got a good inside joke...when I went to school the next week she was all over me..to a good extent...wanting to talk to me whenever I passed her in the halls...etc...
Fast-foward to January...I'm at a basketball game...she calls me to sit with her...we talk pretty good...things are going well...BUT I've only talked to her twice here...which is something that I failed to think about...I always get ahead of myself...and by then I had already assumed that she liked me...
Big mistake...stupid...things take time...I rush things...I'm impatient...I've waited so long for success that I want it ASAP...
I started having a friend of hers ask if she liked me...what a moron...but all this didn't start up until around the Valentines Day Dance...
My friends asked her if she wanted to dance with me...I know..big AFC mistake...stupid...
But she said she would dance...and the next song.."Photograph"...we danced...and I will say it was on of the best three-four minutes I've had...AFC again...but I'm GOING to get this girl...so...I might as well not return to reality...I recognize where I'm at with one-itis...but I'm going to get her...or die trying one...*Not literally...I'm not gonna cut myself of anythin*
So then...after the dance...a friend asked if she liked me..and she said she "didn't know"..during this time...she was coming in my fourth period...to talk to another of her friends..then I continued my stupid behavior...I got nervous...and didn't talk to her much at all...and when I did...it wasn't the most enthralling conversation in the history of the universe...
As the school year ended...it got worse...I tried to get the courage for two or three weeks straight before school ended to ask her to a movie...and I know she could sense my desperation...which I hate that I was so stupid...and finally on the last day...my best friend told her I needed to talk to her...and she knew what was coming...but I left early...and never talked...so the summer began with her probably having a pretty bad taste in her mouth concerned with me...although she was still friendly..as she is to EVERYONE
Summer...I try to get girls...I don't. Wow! What a quick summary.
When school started...I did much better with her...not displaying much of the neediness..and making her laugh a lot...but I did talk to her a lot..and she is super friendly...so finally...she sits with me at lunch...she was next to me...my friend in front of us...I begin an arm wrestling thread in order to get me and her to arm-wrestle laster..he interrupts...and challenges me to arm wrestle! Moron. I lose. I'm strong..it's gay. I'm a football player. WTF?! I don't get it either. Then he gets KILLED by another dude at the table...and she reaches across the table and teaches him the proper technique...for like a hour...
She is also not being as responsive as she was earlier in the year...I need to kick things up a notch..her brother wants to help me with this...another problem..she is all over this HUGE NERD...who doesn't even DATE..I think she doesn't like him like that or anything..but it's hard to see her wanting to talk to him much more than me..she actually goes to talk to him when we're casually chatting..PAINFUL...
She did sit with me again today..but still not as receptive to the flirting..humor..and jokes...maybe it's my mind...maybe it's not...
I think there is hope..you decide. I need the help! I want this girl. Thank you guys!