Michele l'Arcangelo
Master Don Juan
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Okay, the background of this other girl. She's decent looking (some would say hot), younger than me, smart and sassy... but as I write this description... I think I'd pass on her now... considering 90% of the time, I HATE younger girls.
About her situation: I've been witty, funny, confident, smart, and slightly "jerkish/****y" at times to her and EVERYONE at work. We've worked together for 9 months, but not many times through out those 9 months. I never showed any real interest in "getting to know her"... but only innocent flirting.
But now, the time of year where our store goes to an amusement park is coming up and I wasn't sure if any of my coworker buddies were going... so I decided I'd try to make sure I was in a "group" of people I know... and definitely sit with someone I "like" and not be the oddball, since my buds might not go.
So the week before, I went in to pick up my schedule and tried picking up hours. This girl said she wanted me to work for her, and I told her, "Yeah sure... In one condition" and told her to talk to me in a few minutes since I'm "doing something" and I walk off. and I know she's curious because she follows me and asks what the one condition is.
But later I get the schedule to write down my hours, wave the girl over to talk to me after she's finished with a customer, and to come discuss the one condition. Customers start pouring in, and I wait about 5-10 minutes since I'm done writing out my schedule. I'm not mad, of course, but I hate being at my job if I'm not working... and I wanna leave ASAP. So I walk up to the counter, press the feed button on the reciept printer, write her a note.
It read:
Txt msg:
Her "blah blah about the note haha, sit with you on one ride, on the way there/way back, or the whole time? I promised I'd sit with <female friend>."
Me "yo i'm not into texting too much, lets use our cellphones like they're supposed to be used."
She calls and she talks about the one condition and that only (ding ding red flag). I make some jokes about her voice on the phone, blah blah blah, and It appears her friend can hear me because i hear "whoa, jerkish?". I don't make a big deal about it, and I start talking about how it's all or none, and If not, she can think of some way to make it up to me. blah blah and she said she'll call me in the morning. Neat.
She didn't, so I left one, and one only text message to her noontime saying "Sooo..?" No response. Couple days later still no call, I decided to call her while I was out and leave a message. No word from her yet. I decided to keep it at one text and one voicemail maximum, then delete the trick.
Alright, today I went into my work to pick up my check and schedule. went to the break room where some of my female coworkers and a new coworker were having their lunch break.
One of them (a female) I'm real friendly with and we talk about things openly. i have a feeling this girl has my back more than anyone else at my job... as in she'd probably keep her mouth shut or defend me if people were talking crap about me.
(Not that I'm paranoid, I just know the dudes at my job don't like me because I appear anti-social, quiet, but confident and I show that I am not into their stupid "I'm a badass" attitudes. I know 100% they think I'm a pretty-boy.)
So my reliable coworker told me about how she heard that I'm "creepin' on <girl's name>"
First, let me give you the definition of this slang word that girls use loosely nowadays.
I just explained to my reliable coworker (in front of the other people) that: "I have no idea what she means by creeping, since every girl uses that word to describe everything, And that It's not like I text message her or call her. I only called and texted once and left it at that."
After that, they changed the topic to me getting a buzzcut and nosering out of the blue.
Later when there's no coworkers around I ask her about it, and she said she doesn't know... she's just repeating it for me.
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Now sorry for this VERY unnecessarily long thread. Details help people.
I'm not mad about the situation with the girl, I doubt she called me a "creeper". I just know she told other people at work, and they labeled it that judging from the ghetto wannabes at my work.
Now I don't know if I even wanna go to this amusement park with my store. I might be the oddball, because I have no clue if my buddies are going.
Only reason I wanna go is because it's a steal, costs $45 covering: charterbus (gas), food, and tickets which cost $45 itself.
Being called a creep is such a confidence killer, everything I thought I was doing right was smashed into the ground with such a stupid word.
All this for trying to get to know and be nice to one person for once.
I MIGHT go to the park with the store, and go solo trying to practice my game on girls who live 3 hours away from me... but that would be awkward if I bumped into people from the store.
About her situation: I've been witty, funny, confident, smart, and slightly "jerkish/****y" at times to her and EVERYONE at work. We've worked together for 9 months, but not many times through out those 9 months. I never showed any real interest in "getting to know her"... but only innocent flirting.
But now, the time of year where our store goes to an amusement park is coming up and I wasn't sure if any of my coworker buddies were going... so I decided I'd try to make sure I was in a "group" of people I know... and definitely sit with someone I "like" and not be the oddball, since my buds might not go.
So the week before, I went in to pick up my schedule and tried picking up hours. This girl said she wanted me to work for her, and I told her, "Yeah sure... In one condition" and told her to talk to me in a few minutes since I'm "doing something" and I walk off. and I know she's curious because she follows me and asks what the one condition is.
But later I get the schedule to write down my hours, wave the girl over to talk to me after she's finished with a customer, and to come discuss the one condition. Customers start pouring in, and I wait about 5-10 minutes since I'm done writing out my schedule. I'm not mad, of course, but I hate being at my job if I'm not working... and I wanna leave ASAP. So I walk up to the counter, press the feed button on the reciept printer, write her a note.
It read:
Back reads:
After I gave it to her she smiled and laughed and said she'd text me later that night. I was thinking "ding, ding, red flag... I'll just turn texting into phone talking".
Txt msg:
Her "blah blah about the note haha, sit with you on one ride, on the way there/way back, or the whole time? I promised I'd sit with <female friend>."
Me "yo i'm not into texting too much, lets use our cellphones like they're supposed to be used."
She calls and she talks about the one condition and that only (ding ding red flag). I make some jokes about her voice on the phone, blah blah blah, and It appears her friend can hear me because i hear "whoa, jerkish?". I don't make a big deal about it, and I start talking about how it's all or none, and If not, she can think of some way to make it up to me. blah blah and she said she'll call me in the morning. Neat.
She didn't, so I left one, and one only text message to her noontime saying "Sooo..?" No response. Couple days later still no call, I decided to call her while I was out and leave a message. No word from her yet. I decided to keep it at one text and one voicemail maximum, then delete the trick.
Alright, today I went into my work to pick up my check and schedule. went to the break room where some of my female coworkers and a new coworker were having their lunch break.
One of them (a female) I'm real friendly with and we talk about things openly. i have a feeling this girl has my back more than anyone else at my job... as in she'd probably keep her mouth shut or defend me if people were talking crap about me.
(Not that I'm paranoid, I just know the dudes at my job don't like me because I appear anti-social, quiet, but confident and I show that I am not into their stupid "I'm a badass" attitudes. I know 100% they think I'm a pretty-boy.)
So my reliable coworker told me about how she heard that I'm "creepin' on <girl's name>"
First, let me give you the definition of this slang word that girls use loosely nowadays.
Note that this conversation took place in front of other coworkers. I kept my cool.
I just explained to my reliable coworker (in front of the other people) that: "I have no idea what she means by creeping, since every girl uses that word to describe everything, And that It's not like I text message her or call her. I only called and texted once and left it at that."
After that, they changed the topic to me getting a buzzcut and nosering out of the blue.
Later when there's no coworkers around I ask her about it, and she said she doesn't know... she's just repeating it for me.
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Now sorry for this VERY unnecessarily long thread. Details help people.
I'm not mad about the situation with the girl, I doubt she called me a "creeper". I just know she told other people at work, and they labeled it that judging from the ghetto wannabes at my work.
Now I don't know if I even wanna go to this amusement park with my store. I might be the oddball, because I have no clue if my buddies are going.
Only reason I wanna go is because it's a steal, costs $45 covering: charterbus (gas), food, and tickets which cost $45 itself.
Being called a creep is such a confidence killer, everything I thought I was doing right was smashed into the ground with such a stupid word.
All this for trying to get to know and be nice to one person for once.
I MIGHT go to the park with the store, and go solo trying to practice my game on girls who live 3 hours away from me... but that would be awkward if I bumped into people from the store.
