Study: Romantic Relationships turn women off more than men

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I brought this up in a previous post. If men don't see the hypocrisy a 50 year old guy is telling his listeners, any average girl would make their head spin in 52 seconds, let alone a hot one.

Rollo has to say "Do as I say, not as I do" because it makes him money;
his podcasts are juicy when they trash women and tell men to sleep around, not commit, etc. Gives good ratings, its tantalizing, its sexy, it gets to men's emotions.

Can imagine a podcast with Rollo saying "Find your one soulmate in your 20s and stick with her and don't have sex any other woman ever." First of all, it's not juicy, wouldn't make good ratings. Second, men can't find that easily, so they would end up trashing him and it would make him look bad.

But to say "Don't commit, don't have kids." Men can do that easily and feel good about it....great for him.
I stopped taking Rollo seriosuly when he came out with "The Players Handbook" I'll assure players ain't reading it they don't need to, it's only incels and dorks reading it. The guy is out of touch hasn't been in the field activiely unless Rollo cheats on his wife and it's confessional ala Derrick Jackson wouldn't shock me. None of these content creators are wh they portray themselves to be in public as they are in private
 

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Think about who is doing most of the "romantic" stuff?

The typical "nice guy".
Well yeah, I'm well aware that women find those type of movie romance cliches like a bed of roses to be a huge turn off...they wanna be spanked and dirty talked.
 

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Well yeah, I'm well aware that women find those type of movie romance cliches like a bed of roses to be a huge turn off...they wanna be spanked and dirty talked.
And that's why they love romance novels...because they get the best of both worlds in one which almost never exists in the real world so its a true fantasy.
 

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Romance takes commitment and why commit to anyone at all when there's so much you can do in life these days that gives you the same fulfilment as romance, and unfortunately, many haven't ever felt it before, even from past relationships, so people (and mostly women) doesn't even know what it feels like to begin with and may just go on with their lives alone (or sleeping around) thinking they're fine and that romance is just overrated.
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because they get the best of both worlds in one which almost never exists in the real world so its a true fantasy.
What about if I tell you I know men that does both? But maybe like the romantic things are lowered to 20%, while the like "spanked and dirty talked" things to the 80%.
If you try to reverse the ratios, it would be hard to keep the woman. It also depend on the woman itself.
 

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I‘m in this age range and the majority of women I know are all going through various stages of menopause. Their reproductive organs are done and that phase of life is done. What does this kill? The female sex drive if she has any left to begin with. Ironically, men’s can go on until he’s 80 and on his death bed. But for women, not so much. So imagine being post wall looks wise, dried up vag, sexual desire vanished,
I don't know what kind of women you're dating, but This is not my experience; in fact, it's quite the opposite.
 

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Women do things like this as a normal course of their lives and so, while being doted on is a good feeling to them most likely, the act of planning it out itself is not impressive to them.

I think men feel good puffing themselves up doing romantic things because they put the time and energy into it that normally they’re not accustomed to doing.

The best use of a man’s time and logistical skills, I believe, is cultivating a well rounded life.
 

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the act of planning it out itself is not impressive to them.
Sometimes it's necessary.
Not a manipulation, but if you want great sex that night, you have to plan or at least have a plan, to guide and "control" her emotional treadmill.
 

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Sometimes it's necessary.
Not a manipulation, but if you want great sex that night, you have to plan or at least have a plan, to guide and "control" her emotional treadmill.
With all due respect, Casanova, you just quoted me in a recent thread that you’re nervous looking women in the eye.
 

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Interesting...women have been found to be the ones turned off by romantic relationships more than men in this study...

No surprise, they wouldnt get wet for a horny chad that just wants to have his balls empty inside them.

I would also consider that sometimes it's weaker men to be more romantic so at some point women start to equate the two things among the many reasons.

I'm in my late 30s now and actually I dont mind talking real politics with women and discussing relationships not any different than business deals, I appreciate when they appreciate it.

Most women dont want "romanticis" they want commitment that comes in an improved life style.
 

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No surprise, they wouldnt get wet for a horny chad that just wants to have his balls empty inside them.

I would also consider that sometimes it's weaker men to be more romantic so at some point women start to equate the two things among the many reasons.

I'm in my late 30s now and actually I dont mind talking real politics with women and discussing relationships not any different than business deals, I appreciate when they appreciate it.

Most women dont want "romanticis" they want commitment that comes in an improved life style.
Fvck politics...I would run not walk away from.any person that wants to spend their days talking about that nonsense.
 

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Fvck politics...I would run not walk away from.any person that wants to spend their days talking about that nonsense.
Agree.... the most pointless and useless way to spend time. Politics is boring... I mean REALLY boring.... what I find much more interesting is how and why human beings make decisions. No one's opinions are every really changed in political discussions... but it is interesting to learn who/why that took the position they have.

Whenever anyone starts talking politics, I never take a position because I refuse to engage in such stupid nonsense. Rather I ask why they believe what they believe, how someone got to the point where they have made an emotional decision is a better insight into the person.... what are their values, what they consider important.
 
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