hmmmm............
singleagain: I think that what you need to do is sit her down, and have a little chat with her.... say things like "okay look, I feel that you are becoming way too attached to me... I thought we agreed to not be bf/gf etc.. So why are you acting like you want us to be more than just friends with benefits? You do things like leaving things at my apartment, getting pretty jealous when I bring other women up, calling everyday... *pause for a few seconds* ... What’s going on <her name> ?" *wait for response*
Any type of relationship, be it a friendship, friends with benefits, family, etc, Communication is vital... Without it any relationship is bound to fail. And sometimes being blunt about things is what needs to be done.... And its not like you will be hurting her of coming off as a jerk etc if you say this to her... All you will be doing is getting her to tell you whets going on in her head/heart... And then if she really DOES want more than just being friends with benefits, then as much as it might not be something you want to tell her you will need to tell her something along the lines of "Look, there was a time where I DID love you, and there was a time where I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you and only you, but that changed, and you know that, and I cant just make myself feel the same way about you... I just cant... So you need to decide, either you will accept what we are now and not hope or want anything MORE, or we will need to stop seeing each other altogether"
This way, if she does want more, you will go your own separate ways and she wont have to get even more hurt in the future. If you really do care about her and don’t want to be a jerk to her and not only care about yourself and your d!ck, then you will be willing to sacrifice the sexual pleasure so that she wont get more hurt in the future... Though she probably WILL deny wanting more, what she feels for u will catch up to her.. and when it does, she WILL admit it.. and when she does, is when you will need to tell her that you two cannot see each other again.
There are plenty of women out there, you don’t need to hold on to this ONE woman, especially given your past with her.
Anyways, I hope you make the right decisions and find love again in the future.... Because love is so much better than sex, and you know it as well as I do
Get yourself out of the sticky situations, and find yourself a comfortable, more fulfilling relationship with a girl you actually love and care for.
Laterz...
