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Its been this way for 3 fvcken years on and off and in the end im always the persistent one always persisting. tryin to get with her. I know shes feenin the same way i am, but her game is workin better, she got more control over herself, i have to change this some how, give me advice pleaseeeee
 

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How can you have 500 posts and not be able to fix this yourself?

Go out, find the hottest girl you can, and make out with her. We'll call her girl number 2.

If girl number one comes back, that just broadens your options.
 
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In your desperation, you sound and probably look pvssy-whipped! Get over it!!
 

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If it's been 3 years, I'm hoping you've at least banged her. If you have, keep her around for the sex while you find another woman.

If not, man, it's time to take the "L". Admit defeat and move on. Learn from your mistakes.

You gotta let go. If it's been 3 years and you haven't hooked up with her, it doesn't matter how much she wants/wanted it, it's not happening. Don't know whose fault it is...don't care. Just learn from it and move on.
 

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Originally posted by Hubris
How can you have 500 posts and not be able to fix this yourself?
I have the same thought myself.

If you want advice, you just need a little research skill and put it to use in this site. It's already there. Dig it out.

You asked for help, and the Sedona Method has been working for me and it MAY work for you to control any of your unwanted emotions on the spot. AFC is a guy who can't/forgot how to control his eagerness (emotional). The method has been validated and proven effective by a Harvard Medical School study.

Here's a link where you can buy it $140 cheaper. Buy the full course audio CD, it's a lot better investment. Here it is: The Sedona Method

I still have lots and lots of issues I have to deal with, but daily I'm moving forward to be a master of my own thoughts, which governs all of my emotions. I think with this effective program (a very foolishly simple program I would say) and self discipline, can help me to achieve just that.

I'm actually setting a goal to myself to become an emotional chameleon person, no one can make you/persuade you to be angry, sad, jealous or whatever. . You're the master of your own emotions right? You felt those unwanted emotions because you, by habits, exaggerated it. Make sense?

Relearn to let it go, and you'll have more of what you lack. Read the (real) bible on Talents for example. The rich is getting richer, the poor will become poorer, the people on the middle will more or less not going anywhere.

Hope this help. Good luck.
 

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Some guys can be on this site for years, give excellent objective advice to others, and still completely fvck up their own lives due to being emotionally involved in a situation.

Yes, HB, (?) you are too close to your situation.. let go of her! You cannot see it but we all can.

STOP and move on!

Dietzcoi
 
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