Stuck between a rock and a hard place

[muffin]

I had been dating this girl for a couple of months and things were going great. @ weeks ago I went a 4 day camping trip with family. We constantly texted each

other every few hours and I was looking forward to getting home and spending time with her. After the 3'rd day I get a text from her saying that it's not going

to work, and that she thinks I'm with my ex and take it, can't stop thinking about it etc. I try to reassure her that I am not with anyone but she doesn't

listen. After I get back home we don't talk for like a week, a few days ago we finally got together for a face to face talk. I learn that it was her "hatin ass" girlfriends who were filling her head with this nonsense because I guess they

felt I was taking her away from them. She confided in me that she still had feelings for me but she promised her friends that she wouldn't go back to me.

I have pretty strong feelings for her so I kind of want to make it work but my gut is telling me it's not worth it. Advice please

 

[ARrocket]

The way I see it, your gut is usually a pretty good thing to follow. If you have a feeling it's not worth your time, it probably isn't.

And, think about it logically for a second. She "claims" she likes you, but she doesn't like you enough to spend time with you...because her friends "told" her not to. Sounds like BS to me. If she liked you, she'd be with you instead of with her friends all of the time.

Bottom line: Forget her. Game her at a distance, if that makes sense (and by that I mean emotionally distant).

 

[Cassanova_Child]

^^

agree with above.

 

[j0n024]

Bottom line: Forget her. Game her at a distance, if that makes sense (and by that I mean emotionally distant).

I agreed till this part, WHY should he even give her attention if she doesnt care enough about him to even be with him. I say just tell her straight up I know I'll probably get flak for it but just be like

"Hey I understand your a follower you follow whatever your friends tell you like a little puppy it's ok I UNDERSTAND, so please dont go crazy when I tell you this but lose my number because I dont have time for followers or games and anyways your friends will keep you company....bye"

Dont waste time on women that dont even MAKE time for you.