stubborness in modern dating

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That's a very popular belief you have legend, but I beg to differ. One night stands are a dime a dozen. Getting to know a chick and then ****ing her, unless the getting to know her is ruse, usually leads to something more than a "one night stand", getting to know her after you two banged (and NOT before) rarely seems to amount to much (except for a glorified fvck buddy).....IME.

Noted, and agreed in part.

Even with hard sex escalation, ONSs don't happen the majority of the time. My operandi is sexual escalation first; deeper rapport second. However, I agree insofar as with some girls, this stratagem can backfire; while with others, yours can be crippling.

Being fluid in accordance with the targets' needs is best policy.