Strong Independent Women

[anonymous12345]

As we know they are everywhere and problematic. Let’s collect are collective wisdom.

A good assumption is that Swedish girls are it, and I have a plate-ish who is. In bed she disconnects before she heats up, and doesn’t fully submit. She has psychologically a lock, is blocked.

Some solutions are:

• Poor alcohol into her. Dangerous, and not preferred, but perhaps a transition phase. One bedded Norwegian girl once said to me “You don’t like alcohol? I’d probably do anything if I’m drunk.” Old news.
• Remove her block. Make her fall in love, more time, more comfort, I don’t know
• Be more attractive
• ?

For curiosity, why do they become “strong independent”? I think it is rather “undeveloped, immature women” just like men generally have their own drawbacks if they don’t walk their path. That’s why you find great western girls in Miami and NYC, it’s women who have through hardship of life become comfortable in their femininity, and are proud and comfortable in that. But also land of the free.

Another solution is to skip them, if one can. Muslim girls are great if they are westernised, that is don’t wear a hijab and all that. Dated one muslim girl and she said “X, if we are gonna do something we must get married first.” Learn from me: muslims in hijab are always a dead end. Asians are best, an entirely different breed. Latin girls have strong femininity/feminine pride too.

 

[holidayad_]

For curiosity, why do they become “strong independent”?

Brainwashing.

In bed she disconnects before she heats up, and doesn’t fully submit. She has psychologically a lock, is blocked.

High body count. She is not capable of feeling anymore.

 

[parabellum]

Brainwashing.



High body count. She is not capable of feeling anymore.

I suspect they can, but it’s so difficult it’s not worth it if you can find a better prospect.

 

[anonymous12345]

High body count. She is not capable of feeling anymore.

Nope, seems to be a good girl. She's been in an LTR, glad and talkative, not jaded or so. It's some other block.

I made out with a Swedish older woman and she said some of the same things, like stopping and saying "No, not more for you", as if sex is some kind of reward/punishment. It smells like something from upbringing.

 

[BaronOfHair]

A good assumption is that Swedish girls are it, and I have a plate-ish who is. In bed she disconnects before she heats up, and doesn’t fully submit. She has psychologically a lock, is blocked.

You expected a Scandinavian gal to be anything other than frigid? I've got more bad news for you, hombre:

-The company you work for only values you so long as you're a reliable employee. They DON'T think of you as family

-The police department doesn't exist to protect you... They're in the business of tracking down perps AFTER a crime has been committed

-The Easter Bunny Doesn't exist

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Scandinavian girls are weird.

Are not worth it. It is just feminist hell on earth .
Roosh V. learnt the lesson the hard way.

Don't Bang Denmark: How To Sleep With Danish Women In D…

Dating in Denmark.

www.goodreads.com

 

[Bingo-Player]

Just like men , women don't necessarily get what they want in the dating market

Some girls like to think their capable of bagging that 6ft+ dark millionaire but in reality can't get anywhere near one

"strong independent" at its core is just a female coping mechanism for not getting what you want

thats why you get a lot of these girls post wall declare themsleves as strong independent women

Yea right.....

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Some girls like to think their capable of bagging that 6ft+ dark millionaire but in reality can't get anywhere near one

That is kind of "The structural cycle women delu lu mental disease" (in lack of a better word or it). of chicks there days and it never fails.

They all think they are 10's and when 10%'er guys gives them access to their dycks they even more think they are 10's and cannot understand why these guys won't commit (Because they are just c u m buckets to them).

So they end up in the being alpha widows in their early 30´tes and refuse to settle with anything else and/or losing up their endless demand list of "guys must have/be, being childless spending time making endless useless attention wh0ring TikTok's about "where is the good men?" videos and other TikToks/social media post about how its "soo goood!" to be a single independent, strong boss bytch wwhich need no man", while drinking endless amounts of wine while recording these video with their cats.

Some jokes does write itself by their own.
You cannot make shiete like this up.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Or you just are good enough in bed so she isn't that into it.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Or you just are good enough in bed so she isn't that into it.

Doesn't unfortunately work everytime tho...

 

[SW15]

The "strong, independent woman" is not independent. She is outcome dependent and operates from a dominant frame. Many of these dominant frame women who claim to be "strong, independent women" depend on dominating some beta male. They feel more normal in that arrangement though it's not the arrangement that would bring them the most happiness.

 

[BaronOfHair]

The "strong, independent woman" is not independent

Anyone who has to regularly announce how strong and independent they are is the equivalent of Ol' Bruce here

The facade never matches up to the reality

 

[AureliusMaximus]

The "strong, independent woman" is not independent. She is outcome dependent and operates from a dominant frame. Many of these dominant frame women who claim to be "strong, independent women" depend on dominating some beta male. They feel more normal in that arrangement though it's not the arrangement that would bring them the most happiness.

Well there are so many women out there that live in "Delu lu land" which have absolutely no clue how much they need men and are dependent on us for their own survival. We're the backbone of any civilization and if you removed all men then society would start failing within hours.

But weak men also enable this female behavior. Obviously there is two people needed to do a tango...

 

[itouchyou]

High body count. She is not capable of feeling anymore.

I used to find it difficult to see evidence of this but let me tell you a story..

There's this woman I know who when she was 27, met a guy off a dating app. This guy was a doctor around her age. In NYC. She herself is a highly accomplished career woman.

After a year they got engaged, and they set the wedding date which, to their knowledge, would be shortly after the pandemic was declared. When it came time, she broke up with him. I think she had to leave the city due to work and that combined with the pandemic, figured it was best to end it?

I don't know for sure why she did, but on her social media page there are pics of them with captions saying how in love they are, how her boyfriend is such a good guy, etc etc.

It just blows my mind that a woman could be engaged to a man, supposedly be in love, have a wedding date set, then end the entire relationship in an instant.

Anyways, I later find out that this woman sleeps around. Type of woman who will date a nice guy, tell all her friends about him, meanwhile bang a FWB on the side while she's getting to know the new guy.

So now I'm convinced that high body count women simply don't have the same ability to be loyal/faithful as chaste women.

 

[itouchyou]

I used to find it difficult to see evidence of this but let me tell you a story..

There's this woman I know who when she was 27, met a guy off a dating app. This guy was a doctor around her age. In NYC. She herself is a highly accomplished career woman.

After a year they got engaged, and they set the wedding date which, to their knowledge, would be shortly after the pandemic was declared. When it came time, she broke up with him. I think she had to leave the city due to work and that combined with the pandemic, figured it was best to end it?

I don't know for sure why she did, but on her social media page there are pics of them with captions saying how in love they are, how her boyfriend is such a good guy, etc etc.

It just blows my mind that a woman could be engaged to a man, supposedly be in love, have a wedding date set, then end the entire relationship in an instant.

Anyways, I later find out that this woman sleeps around. Type of woman who will date a nice guy, tell all her friends about him, meanwhile bang a FWB on the side while she's getting to know the new guy.

So now I'm convinced that high body count women simply don't have the same ability to be loyal/faithful as chaste women.

Edit: Not to their knowledge, they didn't know the wedding date would be near when the pandemic started.

 

[holidayad_]

It just blows my mind that a woman could be engaged to a man, supposedly be in love, have a wedding date set, then end the entire relationship in an instant.

Yeah, usually that's how they behave...

They live a mindset of abundance. They choose. It's very easy for them to jump from branch to branch. It has a lot to do with their biological nature too, which is often related to their hypergamy.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I used to find it difficult to see evidence of this but let me tell you a story..

There's this woman I know who when she was 27, met a guy off a dating app. This guy was a doctor around her age. In NYC. She herself is a highly accomplished career woman.

After a year they got engaged, and they set the wedding date which, to their knowledge, would be shortly after the pandemic was declared. When it came time, she broke up with him. I think she had to leave the city due to work and that combined with the pandemic, figured it was best to end it?

I don't know for sure why she did, but on her social media page there are pics of them with captions saying how in love they are, how her boyfriend is such a good guy, etc etc.

It just blows my mind that a woman could be engaged to a man, supposedly be in love, have a wedding date set, then end the entire relationship in an instant.

Anyways, I later find out that this woman sleeps around. Type of woman who will date a nice guy, tell all her friends about him, meanwhile bang a FWB on the side while she's getting to know the new guy.

So now I'm convinced that high body count women simply don't have the same ability to be loyal/faithful as chaste women.

It’s good you’re convinced.
Anyone who wants a lowdown on female infidelity and how their rotating polyandry ruins men should read this essay.

https://toqonline.com/archives/v7n2/v7no2_Devlin.pdf

 

[The Duke]

For curiosity, why do they become “strong independent”?

Most do for two reasons...
1. Society has told them its the cool thing to do and encouraged them.
2. They have made bad choices regarding men. They got serious with too many beta males and didn't ever find happiness. They got with men they had to pay for. They got with men that would rather play video games than work. They got with men that financially drained them.

None of them are as strong/independent as they think.