Strip Clubs

[Enzo]

You guys ever been to them? I had a crap night on the town so ended up in one. I have a rule that I will not pay for a dance or to get in and fortunately some of my friends who went a while back gave me 4 free entry passes on of which I used last night.

To be honest it was a good and bad time. Saw some of the most gorgeous women I have seen in a long time, getting down and dirty for free. On the other hand it does bring out the afc tendencies in a man by making him almost worship the women he sees instead of saying "she could be mine, IF I let her!" You also have to pinch yourself and realise that even if a HB comes up to you she only wants to get some fast cash and nothing else.

Despite the abundant nudity I found myself not turned on. I dont know why but I think it has something to do with me really finding women attractive who are in to me. When you realise that everything you see and hear is just an illusion, it is not that fun anymore. I would have rather been in a club with a beautiful woman checking me out and chatting to her with the possibility of going home with her, then at a bar with tonnes of HB's pretending to like me. (but daymmmn two of the girls were hot , cant stop thinking about her body... flawless, I would have to game that if I saw her in a club) Some of the women looked so innocent too, like if you saw them on the street you would never guess what they do.

I just sat there the whole night, chatting to the punters and did not spend a dime. Kind of cheap, but ah well.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

That's EXACTLY what I did last night! It was a crap fucking night, and a friend of mine was desperately making calls trying to find a spot. We ended up going to a strip club. We got in for free. It's like, I don't want to spend my money on someone who ACTS like she's into me. Even if I was just looking for a hard on, I couldn't get it. I'm suppose to be turned on by this chick spinning on a pole, but I'm not. I need to like her as a person first. HAHAHA. I know this sound kinda faggy, but shit I need to be liked. :lol

 

[PRMoon]

I'll only go to a strip club if I have too much money on my hands and I can afford to blow 200-400 bucks in a night. This is obviously a rare situation because I only go to strip clubs with people who ask me and are really well off or VIP or something along those lines. You really do need to have some dough to make a strip club fun. I mean lets not pretend, these girls are working, and if you have to pay to get any real action in there (ie private room or extensive lap dance).

Like I said I don't really frequent the strip clubs. There's also no chance I'll ever date a stripper in accordance with the pact my room mate and I formed about dating scandalous, crazy, local girls and strippers meet every bit of that critera.

 

[AverageFC]

have a rule that I will not pay for a dance or to get in

What the fukk kinda rule is this? That's how people make their money man.

What kinda job do you work?

 

[PeeGee]

I went for the first time yesterday and it's not a big deal. How exactly can you trick yourself into thinking her false come-ons are anything but an attempt to get you to spend money?

And yes, the naked girls dancing don't really get you hard. I blame that on my not being able to use my imagination/fantasy when I know it's just all fake.

Not spending money there? Don't expect to stay long!

 

[Enzo]

Originally posted by AverageFC
What the fukk kinda rule is this? That's how people make their money man.

What kinda job do you work?

Student haha! The rule comes from the fact that I have a contempt for the sex industry but a love for hot naked women!

Nah if it was a night out of fun and I knew the women were not doing what they do out of desperation then it would all be good and i would have no problem paying for an entertainment service. I just wont pay for someone to pretend they like me or give me some attention cause I have paid for a lap dance once and it felt really bad. Another reason I wont pay for that stuff is that I am sure people get addicted to it and since the chance of me getting into a club for free is low it wont happen that way.

When i get really desperate I either have to man up and try to meet women or sit alone and deal with it. I cant use money to make myself feel better.

 

[AverageFC]

I knew the women were not doing what they do out of desperation

I wouldnt call it desperation. Some women are students.

 

[Ken785]

Originally posted by Enzo
I have a rule that I will not pay for a dance or to get in and fortunately some of my friends who went a while back gave me 4 free entry passes on of which I used last night.

go dl that song gangsta boo- can i get paid (strippers anthem)

 

[MindOverMatter]

i thought the stripper anthem was "perfect gentleman" by wycleaf jean

lol

those hos have way too many anthems

 

[Giuseppe Notte]

You said it well,

strip clubs are just an illusion. See but don't touch. Who needs that?

If you want to get strippers, I know a guy who gets them. But he is a performance artist and he is living their life style! Also, most of these strippers are into gothic s'hit which I don't fancy.

If you go to a strip club to have fun, I say go for it. But if you feel like it's ruining your state, better find girls somewhere else. It's much easier and more rewarding.

 

[alphawolfx]

yea... strip clubs... i don't really see the point... been to two of them,. yea it's nice to look , but kind of pointless, unless you're gaming them (and you can actually SUCCEED)

i think strip clubs should start serving food. instead of hooters, where the girls are just dressed kind of skimpy, and now it's a family place, there needs to be a place where a guy can go and get sports, wings, beer, and tits in his face all in the same place. now THAT would be awesome.

 

[Enzo]

I just tore up the rest of the free tickets I have. I had a think about it and I decided that I am much better then going to places like those for entertainment. I am deserving of the best of women and dont need fakes to pretend that they like me or take their clothes of for my gratification. If there is a girl I find attractive then I have to go and get her for myself! no BS.

 

[earthshyne]

Is not the TRUE test of a successful DJ...

... is his success in dating / and spending intimate time with strippers... for FREE???

Don't try this at home.

 

[RoeCyris]

ok i didnt read most of the replys but these are the words from this hot stripper in my BIO class who i've made friendly wit recently:

there are three types of guys that come into the club. first you have the regulars. guys that are in there every single day and are kind of sleezy. they don't tip well cuz they are there everyday and the girls dont really like them. second there are college guys who are just in there for a good time. the girls tend to like these guys cuz they are usually around their age and just trying to have a good time which strippers are good at providing. they usually get very drunk and because of this they tip very well and while they sometimes get grabby they usually don't mean any harm, they just get wrapped up in it. third you have the pathetic folk. guys who come in every once in a while and probably only see tits there. I asked her if she ever feels bad for them cuz their life must suck she said "no, they are so depressed and patheic that it almost makes me feel dirty to strip for them." which i found interesting.


by the way, she works there to help pay a $4,000+ debt she accumulated due to surgery and health problems last year as well as to pay all of her school tuition and books etc.. So don't be to quick to judge a person because of their ocupation. She told me its alot of people with situations similar to hers and most girls dont last more than a few months cuz its pretty damn exhausting.