i go to strip clubs about once a month with a couple of buds to celebrate a deal we've closed. we have a really positive attitude and frame of mind and it shows.
i also go with totally AFC clients, who ain't gettin' none. i think i can write half a book on dancers (don't call them strippers, they don't like it).
i love to practice the DJ skills on these girls because they are TRUE EXPERTS in all that is AFC. you can also do some major mental kino on some of these chicks. MAJOR! (read below).
i'd recommend that you go there just to practice your convo skills--on a chick that wants your money, no less! i fvck with them, tease them, mess with them, in a very polite and humorous way. this gives you good practice in neg hitting hot chicks.
i rarely pay for a lap dance or VIP, just the stage bar. i always strike up interesting convo (i'll buy them their drinks though, cuz most have a quota). you should hear what they say about all the AFC's.
i never, ever, compliment them on their looks and body. i will also ignore the hottest ones in the place. go for the HB7's (this is by dancer standards). they are usually much more interesting.
i've gone out with several in the past. the part timers are the best, since they usually have a "real job" or are students.
the best way to approach it is this: go in there with the George Costanza attitude: THE EXACT OPPOSITE; of every other chump in there. you'll shine like a beacon. dress really nice, but casual. wear VERY good cologne, but not too much. SHAVE: dancers don't like stubble in their chest! have really clean hands. go with one or two buds at the most and don't get drunk (drinking isn't allowed in CA full nude clubs). wear really nice shoes. wear a really nice watch. a Rolex doesn't hurt either
be very respectful to them and try not to swear.
you'll look like a million bucks compared to everyone else. word will spread about you and your bud, even if you're not shelling out the cash.
these chicks talk to each other in the dressing room! 'hey that guy over there is really cool, he's mine!'. or, 'that guy over there is a stinky pig'. or, 'i keep working on that guy but he isn't interested' (ummm hmmm...).
it's also really easy to make other dancers insanely jealous, even if they aren't really interested in you. you're having good convo with an HB9, and nothing more. the next minute, you're getting a lap from a HB6 and the other one is wondering, WTF? i'm way hotter than she is! she'll probably come back to you like a magnet!
if you think you might get a number, NEVER get a lap dance, because you become a client. this is why i rarely get laps in the first place. never treat them like sex objects in any way if you're trying to do a PU.
i love messing with them. they love it too. it's a really interesting vibe doing this.
honestly, i think every DJ in training and Masters should try to pick up a dancer every now and then, at their place of business, on their turf. not for smokin' sex, just a date.
think about it, these chicks have VASTLY more experience with guys than any other. they've seen it all off the job, in their normal lives. plus, they've seen even more in their professional lives. in this regard, you really have to respect them. it will definitely hone YOUR skills. you really have to seduce these chicks.
watch out though: most HATE guys. most are fvcked up. most are greedy little ho's. most are attention ho's. then again, read these boards on all the "regular chicks". enough said! but some are really cool and down to earth. enough said!
never get into an LTR with a dancer unless she agrees to quit. it's either ME or your dancing career. make the choice. this is why the part timers supplementing their incomes are the best. you've just given them a good reason to get out of the biz. they'll thank you for it, indirectly.
i'll go for the ones that say, "yeah, i'm getting out of it..." but actually mean it. if they've previously done it full time, but now part time, they're on the right track. a decent part timer can easily make 2,000 per month, cash. so, they're giving up some good bank.
Escude,
my interest has actually gone up! for the reasons outlined above. i love going to them. you're prying away a chick from making bank, just because of your charming personality. the hour spent with you, just talking, they might have been able to make $500. it's a valuable skill!
Charm,
Sunday afternoon and nights have been good to me also. also friday and sat afternoons before 4:00 too--this is when a lot of the part timers work.
MENTAL KINO...
and YES! some of them dance because they love to be watched. these are the ones you want to go after, since money is probably secondary. sometimes you can tell, just by the way they move and the way they look at you. make sure you give some KILLER, KILLER, EYE CONTACT when they're these types are on stage. make sure you nod your head and have a devilish smile mixed with a few big one's. the devilish one, save for when she's facing you, on her back, legs open, directly in front of you--with KILLER EYE CONTACT! give her a subtle nod too. if she puts her hand down there for some rubbing action while maintaining EC, with the legs opening wider, she's totally into it. if she doesn't do the same thing to another guy, she might be into you too! give her another nod of approval and keep the game going.
give her some subtle "hand signals" on which "parts" you want to see and what you want her to do (she'll probably do it). believe me, sometimes theres a powerful vibe going on, as if she's on stage just for you, and only you.
she'll come over to you when she's done and ask for a lap because that's her job. DON'T DO IT! tell her you'll buy her a drink (remember, this isn't a night club--these chicks usually have a 6-8 drink quota to sell and if they don't, it comes out of their pocket). then the convo and idle chit chat and don't mention anything about what just happened on stage. DO NOT GET A LAP FROM HER!
better still is to have another dancer (unwitting wingman) sitting next to you (preferably between you and your bud, very easy to arrange) whilst the other (target) is on stage. this way, you can make some comments to the wingman about "how she moves...she's sexy...she's got a strong vibe..." here and there. let your bud do most of the talking with the wingman while your target is on stage--definitely act disinterested to the wingman. don't mention anything about the target's body or how "hot" she is. just pretend your target is the most delicious burrito you've ever had. your target will notice that you're paying attention to HER and not to the wingman. the wingman will notice you're NOT paying attention to her, but to your target. believe me, they will talk to each other.
if you can swing it, ask her to go on stage again. if she does this, you both know what's going on and it's clear that both are diggin it. repeat everything i just said but with more intensity.
i've picked up a half dozen dancers this way. it's a very interesting dynamic, almost a hypnotic connection, and my buds help me out cuz most are married. all but one was really cool. a few times they've asked me for my number. try it for yourself!
fvck this was long--
