Strip Club tips

[ToZe]

Hey so I finally went to the strip club last night for the first time, it was very nice . So I was wondering, are there any ways to make a stripper do an extended lap dance? Like how do you make them actually think about you instead of a customer... 20 bucks for one song is a lot you know. Are there any ways to make them give you a longer lap dance

Also, it was a mile easier for me to talk to a stripper than a citizen girl, where I can't even ask what her name is... is that normal.

 

[Captain Harlock]

as long as you're paying her she'll never think about you as anything other than a customer. And that's the same reason why it's easier to talk to her.

 

[Da Realist]

Here's my tip: strip clubs are a waste of money. They do a little dance and expect your money. There are a lot of women giving it away for free, so why put effort into getting a longer dance from a stripper?

 

[ToZe]

Yeah I get it strippers are there to make money! I think I fell into that "I'm In Love With A Stripper" trap with this blonde... lol

 

[piranha45]

that's their strategy, the more she can get you to like her, the more often she gets paid.

 

[PRMoon]

A stripper MIGHT give you an extended lapdance if she thinks you're going to cough up the 500 bucks it cost to go to a private room. Other then that, you should realise that this is their j-o-b job. The aren't there taking their clothes off for fun. They're doing it because they want to get paid bottom line.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I met a guy once that had the absolutely most powerful "natural" game I've ever seen. He said that he developed it over time, and one of the keys to his success was memorizing all of Ross Jeffriies NLP seduction patterns and then practicing them on strippers. The important key is that he thought of them as only "practice" and wasn't worried about banging them, just improving his conversation skills. he did drop a ton of cash, but not really any more than paying for a professional sparring coach, for example, if you were practicing martial arts.

Kind of like riding bike with training wheels. Because you are paying her, you can try really outrageous conversational techniques that would normally get you blown out with a normal "citizen" girl.

Then using "normal" techniques on citizens will be more powerful.

just a thought

 

[DJDamage]

Also, it was a mile easier for me to talk to a stripper than a citizen girl, where I can't even ask what her name is... is that normal.

Of course its easier to talk to strippers, they are making it easier for you to feel comfortable so that you would be more willing to part with your money.

20 bucks for one song is a lot you know. Are there any ways to make them give you a longer lap dance.

Maybe its not what you want is longer, but to feel better?! If you want to go that route, I know this guy who likes to go to strip clubs wearing a very thin and loose pair of pants with no underwear.......... all he needs is one good lap dance heh.

 

[Smack]

And another one falls into the trap...

 

[f283000]

strip clubs are a waste of money and are afc behavior much like watching porn, but boy are they fun!

 

[edger]

Strip club frequenter here. I've had a lot of hot dancers grab my d*ck during lap dances. I've had one hottie whip my d*ck out and start stroking me off and another hot dancer who offered to do the same if I got a private dance(she obviously couldn't give me a handjob in front of the staff). All this at no extra charge.

Most dances I get are quality(heavy grinding). I will only get dances from the creme of the crop, hottest women. These women aim to get me off, which they do quite a good job doing. *wink*

Let me say also say though, I'm not one of those strip club guys who watches the women in awe like an AFC. I just kick back, relax, and take it all in. I also don't tip the b*tches with dollar bills, nor do I tip after a dance...I think it's stupid. The only time I'm spending money on them is if I'm getting something out of it...otherwise f*ck 'em. Wham bam, thank you mam kinda guy. Same sh*t with the high end prosties.

 

[edger]

Here's a good story that I was going to make a thread about. This past Friday me and my buddy went to a strip club here on Long Island. No joke, this dude, great guy, love him to death, is the epitome of an AFC. Nervous, shy, comes off really inexperienced with women. Cool guy though. Anyhow, we're at this club on Friday and this dude's got 4 different women during the time we're there giving him FREE, lap dances. They weren't even paying attention to me. I couldn't believe it. I can't ever say that's even happened to me, and I'm the total opposite of him(don't act AFC, not shy around women, confident, act DJ-like, you get the picture). Like I've been saying, more women than you think gravitate towards AFC's. I see it a lot. Every woman is different out there(contrary to what this site makes it seem like). If there's one crucial realization I've come to in this journey through women, it's that.

 

[Smack]

It is certainly true that some women seem to gravitate more towards shy guys, yes, even when the shy guys are AFCs. I wouldn't say that all women do this, or that they find all aspects of AFCism appealing, but some do try and get it on with the shy guy. They're also a lot more obvious in their intentions to the shy guy. When I was really, really shy women were a lot more obvious to me in their intentions. (Shame I never acted upon it!) No that I'm not, it's almost as if they expect me to always do most of the initial work, and take charge.

Perhaps some women just like the thrill of taking charge and being the dominant one for a while, and the shy guy can give them this.

 

[Zonder]

Here's a good story that I was going to make a thread about. This past Friday me and my buddy went to a strip club here on Long Island. No joke, this dude, great guy, love him to death, is the epitome of an AFC. Nervous, shy, comes off really inexperienced with women. Cool guy though. Anyhow, we're at this club on Friday and this dude's got 4 different women during the time we're there giving him FREE, lap dances. They weren't even paying attention to me. I couldn't believe it. I can't ever say that's even happened to me, and I'm the total opposite of him(don't act AFC, not shy around women, confident, act DJ-like, you get the picture). Like I've been saying, more women than you think gravitate towards AFC's. I see it a lot. Every woman is different out there(contrary to what this site makes it seem like). If there's one crucial realization I've come to in this journey through women, it's that.

Why would a stripper give a free lap dance to the AFC who might fall for her and give her wads of cash in the future and not to the experienced DJ?

 

[Captain Harlock]

Exactly my thoughts. Don't forget they're still professional strippers as long as they're giving lap dances in the club.

 

[edger]

Why would a stripper give a free lap dance to the AFC who might fall for her and give her wads of cash in the future and not to the experienced DJ?

Yeah but, the AFC will STILL get a dance from her regardless of whether or not she gives him a free dance. A dancer doesn't need to do much for an AFC to be enticed by her. All she really needs to do is come up to him, start a conversation, and start flirting with him, or even be a little touchy feely with him. It doesn't require a "free dance" to get the AFC to spend money on her. I mean, come on, we're talking about an AFC here. Doesn't take much to get them to fall victim to a woman.

 

[Duffdog]

hmmm...

I thought that this thread was going in a totally different direction. For some reason, I thought it was going to be about how to get a stripper to go home with you. LOL!! In that case, I could help, but as far as strip club etiquette ...I dunno.

 

[radiodude]

The only free lap dance I ever got was from a stripper that wanted me who knew me from outside the club.

Otherwise, you always pay for more.

Now there was this one time I bargained a girl down to a more reasonable price because I just didn't want to spend as much as it was going to cost to get a private dance. So i offered a reasonable amount and she took it. (Could have been a slow night)

On a side note, I also made one break change for a $5 one night because I was out 1's. That was for a lap dance.

 

[Levex]

Heres a tip:

When she's dancing right in front of you and bends over, roll up a dollar bill and poke her azzhole with it.

Gets a reaction every time.

 

[spider_007]

only tip your gonna need for that corwd:

BRING LOTS OF MONEY!!!!