I met this pretty hot woman online. She seems pretty uptight and doesn't loosen up quickly. She prefers to call it being "intense", which I have duly neg-ed her for!
Anyway, taking a cue from this forum, it was my motive to not email/text too much, and try to get quickly to the point about meeting up.
So, we exchange about 4 very short emails each, some pleasantries, some teasing from me, and in the end, I ask for her number clearly mentioning to coordinate a date. She gives me her number.
I wait a day and text her, and after about 4-5 short texts (each) exchanged to build some rapport, I tell her to meet me on wednesday at 8, if it works for her. She is like "I wish. But i have a class until 9, and a final the next day". She is a phd student, studying - so Ok, no worries. So I say "Yikes. good luck. what other day works then (exc thurs)?".
and she is like - get this - "unfortunately, I am pretty hard to catch until the end of december". wtf?? why didn't she say so earlier - and then why is she always online and quickly texting back always if she has no intentions of meeting? (since my interaction with her was brief, and she responds almost immed, i doubt that she is just hinting that we won't meet)
ANyway - the more important thing is - before "her highness" is free, 3 weeks will pass.
My main question is: What should be my approach towards her during this time - say 'hi' etc once a week to keep in touch? or just go NC and reinitiate when she frees up?? Feels like the latter would mean starting all over?
I am of course spinning other plates till then.
Anyway, taking a cue from this forum, it was my motive to not email/text too much, and try to get quickly to the point about meeting up.
So, we exchange about 4 very short emails each, some pleasantries, some teasing from me, and in the end, I ask for her number clearly mentioning to coordinate a date. She gives me her number.
I wait a day and text her, and after about 4-5 short texts (each) exchanged to build some rapport, I tell her to meet me on wednesday at 8, if it works for her. She is like "I wish. But i have a class until 9, and a final the next day". She is a phd student, studying - so Ok, no worries. So I say "Yikes. good luck. what other day works then (exc thurs)?".
and she is like - get this - "unfortunately, I am pretty hard to catch until the end of december". wtf?? why didn't she say so earlier - and then why is she always online and quickly texting back always if she has no intentions of meeting? (since my interaction with her was brief, and she responds almost immed, i doubt that she is just hinting that we won't meet)
ANyway - the more important thing is - before "her highness" is free, 3 weeks will pass.
My main question is: What should be my approach towards her during this time - say 'hi' etc once a week to keep in touch? or just go NC and reinitiate when she frees up?? Feels like the latter would mean starting all over?
I am of course spinning other plates till then.
