Strange time for disappearing act?

Flex Luther

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Need some help..
My girlfriend has a history of disappearing acts that I've managed to quell thanks to this site 'do not let your gf disrespect you' being a good thread.
We have planned to go away for the weekend together this Saturday, as I live away from her studying, the phone is our main means of communication, we have spoken almost everyday until last Friday. I was too busy to call/text and likewise the following Saturday. However, I called Sunday.. Straight to voicemail?
Called again today.. Same again? Text.. No response.. Email (reminding her I'm to be treated respectfully etc) no response?

I am too busy to become frustrated atm and very much adherent to self improvement but how do I proceed?

Has anyone else experienced similar behaviour/situation?
 

Suspens

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Flex Luther said:
the phone is our main means of communication
Fail. Anyway, she isn't your "GF" anymore, assuming it's a LDR. Go ghost on this 'plate' for now and find another GF.
 

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Flex Luther said:
Need some help..
My girlfriend has a history of disappearing acts that I've managed to quell thanks to this site 'do not let your gf disrespect you' being a good thread.
We have planned to go away for the weekend together this Saturday, as I live away from her studying, the phone is our main means of communication, we have spoken almost everyday until last Friday. I was too busy to call/text and likewise the following Saturday. However, I called Sunday.. Straight to voicemail?
Called again today.. Same again? Text.. No response.. Email (reminding her I'm to be treated respectfully etc) no response?

I am too busy to become frustrated atm and very much adherent to self improvement but how do I proceed?

Has anyone else experienced similar behaviour/situation?

good now learn to screen and you will start to get somewhere, learning how to not let you gf be disrespectfull is just one thing, with if you screen right it won't ever be something you need to worry.

clarification though you didn't show on your plans and don't bother to even call her or what?

btw when she disapear she is doing something too important to care about you, take notice long distance LTR never goes well
 

Flex Luther

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Alvafe said:
good now learn to screen and you will start to get somewhere, learning how to not let you gf be disrespectfull is just one thing, with if you screen right it won't ever be something you need to worry.

clarification though you didn't show on your plans and don't bother to even call her or what?

btw when she disapear she is doing something too important to care about you, take notice long distance LTR never goes well
to clarify our plans are for next weekend, I was busy this Saturday.
Thanks for your advice
 

Flex Luther

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Suspens said:
Fail. Anyway, she isn't your "GF" anymore, assuming it's a LDR. Go ghost on this 'plate' for now and find another GF.
Too simplistic.
The phone is not our only means of comms, we see each other regularly. It seems to be a running theme in this forum that next her is a go to response for every difficult situation, but as the thread confidence persistence states; this is not how a true Don Juan acts. I posted about this girl months ago and received the same feedback, yet her IL has been at its highest since then, until now. I turned the situation around previously by acting like a man, if I had moved on then I would have missed out on months of great fun and sex because it was the easy route?
 

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Suspens

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Too simplistic.
I know i know. Right now you are begging for respect via email, to which she has not replied.

Sorry but this one is over.
 
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