Some time later she started dating a guy, who I suspect is beta, who she is engaged to now. He even told her she is in charge and she sets the relationship rules.
It sounds like she already knew this guy before you were dating her. Just about every girl
says that they "don't want just a physical connection" but will just go get ****ed anyway.
Hell, maybe she
knows you want to be dominant and that's
why it didn't work. She has her boy toy and she's the dominant partner, so in her mind, she may be set with that. Go find a girl who wants to be submissive.
Thing is - she still randomly reaches out to me on FB, and shares thoughts, and other details of her life... and I am finding it difficult to maintain this platonic connection, because every time she reaches out I think of her juicy ass and get aroused.
Is it ethical to tell her that? What should I tell her anyway? Should I say anything at all?
Have you tried... ghosting her? Either that or you need to spice up your messages. IF you're not going on dates with her already, then just ghost her for a bit and see how she sends you messages.