cordoncordon said:
I don't know sometimes it just seemed like for someone who got that much play, you seemed overly worried or analytical about women, like your confidence wasn't where it should have been considering your "stories" and experience.
For the record.....I have claimed many times that I do not have sex with a lot of women.
I do know a lot of women....yes. Some of them I have had sex with, some I have messed around with, and others I'm just not attracted to for whatever reason.
The analytical part comes from my personality. I like to pick things apart, especially when it comes to women cause the subject fascinates me. And when I have a real life experience I like to get various opinions on it no matter how trivial it might be. It really helps me learn, and I can more easily identify my shortcomings.
So I can imagine when you were younger that you might have struggled somewhat with women before you found out what worked for you today. So deep down, and again this could be totally off base, but deep down you might be like one of those woman who as a teen was fat, wore braces, never had a date, and as she got older blossomed into a hot piece of azz. And yet in her mind, she will always be the awkward, ugly duckling teen, and so she dates guys that are beneath her look wise. She doesn't have the confidence. You for sure have the experience with women, but maybe underneath it all that subtle lack of confidence or urge to analyze women comes from your lack of what most would call classic good looks and struggles with women early on in life?
To say that you are way off base would be a lie.
I didn't do ANYTHING with women until I was in my late teens.
Remember, I suffer(ed) from social anxiety my whole life. It's still with me today although not nearly as bad as when I was younger. High School is a rough time for a lot of people, and when you have severe anxiety and you move to a new state when you are a freshman and the people in the area pretty much SUCK, well, that's what you get. Or rather that's what I got.
That's why it felt good at the halloween party last week cause i was more social than I think I have EVER been in my life in a group setting.
And with all that being said, you are not ugly in the least, so please don't take it like that. I guess it all comes back to after reading about your stories for a few years here, i expected a Brad Pitt player type guy, and that isn't you at all. Not that there is anything wrong with that lol.
Not taking it that way at all, cause I know I'm not ugly, my momma told me so, lol
As we all know with women it goes well beyond looks. I think my greatest asset is my ambition. I don't wanna put a number on myself but based upon reactions I get from people I think I'm at least above average in the looks department (like I said.....I don't photograph well AT ALL) so of course I get my share of women attracted to me looks wise, but when I manage to project my personality the attraction level increases tenfold.
