Stop making women out to be so smart.

[DJinTraining06]

I gotta say one thing about this site. I feel its warping alot of minds. Most of the tips and advice is good im not bashing it, but i also gotta say this. Women r not that smart, they do not have that much willpower, and they r just as horny, needy, desperate, lonely, and impulsive as us. Levels of this vary from girl to girl but they all have these traits at some level.

So my point is, its riduclous that we all come on here and micoranalyze wat we did wrong and right with girls. (i know i do it everyday)
Because we r giving them way to much credit here. They r not these complex people we make them out to be.

If a girl likes u after a date, almost nothin u do could ruin that unless ur a total dweeb. If she doesnt like u theres almsot nothin u can do right. So lets stop with this "i blew it" "u blew it" "u did it all wrong" etc. etc.

I would bet money most of the time its about looks. i met a girloff match who though i was "so cute and had great eyes" she meets me in person and she seemed uninterested from the start. I dont look as good as my pics on match.com, i would bet money that is it.

I dunno i just feel they r no diff than us when it comes to dating. The only difference is that they hate to reject guys and dont have the heart to do it. So they make up excuses as to why they dont wanna see us again and make themselves feel better by acting like we failed some test of manhood. and all of us guys actually beleive wat they say and think wow girls r so smart and complex. Gimme a break. they have less will power than us probably. If we have a chance to go out with the hottest girl, we will, and the same goes for them with the hottest guy. If we aint attracted we dont bother, and the same with them.

Like many people say on this board, never listen to wat a girl says right? Cuz its nonsense. Women r just like men. The rules r just diff and they get to act different.

 

[DJinTraining06]

i've also noticed that girls only like me when im off my guard and bein myself.
And that has included sayin "i had a good time, we should do it again sometime" The ones that liked me never had a prob with that.

 

[skip2mylou781]

DJInTraining06 - i HATE how you post so many stupidass threads

BUT

i love your thread right here ALOT.

guess what buddy? it IS all about looks.

If a girl thinks you are hot/handsome/sexy/really cute, then u can do very little wrong

the opposite is true.........watch for my thread I am about to post about this. Thank you for bringing it up!!!

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

bump

 

[skip2mylou781]

hey god, watch for my next thread, u better help me push the looks issue cuz im bout to make THE MOST CONTREVERSIAL THREAD SOSUAVE HAS EVER SEEN

 

[vorbis]

I agree with this post but would just like to add (happens to me anyways) that her liking you doesn't automatically lead to sex. I mean if she likes you after a first date, you should get a second date no problem. From then on though, it seems to become less about looks and more about building a sufficent connection so that you can get laid.

 

[DJinTraining06]

I agree with this post but would just like to add (happens to me anyways) that her liking you doesn't automatically lead to sex. I mean if she likes you after a first date, you should get a second date no problem. From then on though, it seems to become less about looks and more about building a sufficent connection so that you can get laid.

Oh of course, but im just sayin that their reason for not wanting to see a guy again r not always so honorable as they want u to believe. Ive had female friends tell me stories bout their love lives and theyve said things such as, hes too short, bald, hairy, etc. They will then go and tell the guy that it was soemthin he did, like "he came on too strong" or watever. If he was Mr. sexy they would love strong.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Exactly.. this thread is correct however.. I would like to say that women have better social intuition than men do. They even have it at very very young ages. Not only do they judge people, but they are actually accurate most of the time when they do judge people. This power fascinates me. It's documented in tons of literature too.

Oh i agree they r very perceptive with that stuff, like mind readers soemtimes. But my pt is still true tho. They dont have that great of willpower. Dont u see all these girls with guys who treat them like sh*t? The guy is either very good looking, or they r so desperate, needy,lonely, horny that they stay with him. So wat im sayin is yea u r prob right about them being socially aware and good judges of character but that doesnt mean they listen to their intuition.

 

[mrRuckus]

Lots of women think i'm really attractive but i do things all the time that completely turns them off because i don't care that i'm turning them off mostly because they're either physically or emotionally unattractive themselves. It's amazing how fast you can turn a woman off and leave her feeling smug that she got one over on you even though you did it on purpose just so she'd go the hell away.