GreatHornedOwl
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 11, 2010
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- Age
- 42
This is a mistake I see a lot of guys make, and it's one that usually seals their fate. When you're running game on a girl, either in person, or even in a text after you've gotten her number, why would she be suppositioning you with her Facebook? Think about that for a minute. Face-to-face conversation and phones are two perfectly acceptable means of communication, why is she complicating the process by offering you this? For one word: Attention. She wants you to see her slvtty profile pictures, more pics with random guys she posed with at the bar, and the slew of lame guy followers that tell her how hot she is. Then you come in, the guy that's trying to seduce her through a social networking site. Don't kid yourself, what might have started out as flirty, playful interaction has turned into you jumping through hoops trying to get her through a computer. This is not eHarmony, this is not a Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan movie.
Here's a recent text I had with a girl I met at the mall, verbatim:
Me: what's up for tonight?
Her: going to the bar with some friends tonight, u coming?
Me: can't make it, what time you getting back?
Her: idk, probly late
Me: text me when you're done
Her: were gonna be bar hopping, what's your fb?
Me: No
Her: lol what?
Me: who cares what my fb is?
Her: add me then. why wont u come out?
Me: had to put my caterpillar to sleep, it's been a rough day
Her: hahaha, i don't play games
Me: Ditto
Conversation ended.
Now I want you to read that text log again. There were 3 red flags that would probably have gone undetected to the untrained eye.
1.) She wanted me to come out to the bar with her girlfriends to get drink hustled.
2.) No compliance when I told her to text me when she got back
3.) Facebook gibberish
Attention wh0re spotted in under 5 minutes of text exchanges after initial meeting. I made plans with a different prospect and ended up getting some wicked head.
Moral of the story here, an AW stands no chance against a guy with a lot of numbers.
Here's a recent text I had with a girl I met at the mall, verbatim:
Me: what's up for tonight?
Her: going to the bar with some friends tonight, u coming?
Me: can't make it, what time you getting back?
Her: idk, probly late
Me: text me when you're done
Her: were gonna be bar hopping, what's your fb?
Me: No
Her: lol what?
Me: who cares what my fb is?
Her: add me then. why wont u come out?
Me: had to put my caterpillar to sleep, it's been a rough day
Her: hahaha, i don't play games
Me: Ditto
Conversation ended.
Now I want you to read that text log again. There were 3 red flags that would probably have gone undetected to the untrained eye.
1.) She wanted me to come out to the bar with her girlfriends to get drink hustled.
2.) No compliance when I told her to text me when she got back
3.) Facebook gibberish
Attention wh0re spotted in under 5 minutes of text exchanges after initial meeting. I made plans with a different prospect and ended up getting some wicked head.
Moral of the story here, an AW stands no chance against a guy with a lot of numbers.