Stop enabling single parent women

[ChristopherColumbus]

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You are merely trying to stack the deck in your favour. And that is why It's actually better for alpha types to live under a feminist system where women's sexual needs are prioritized, rather than a beta male "honour" system.

Not if we are social animals.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

@Dr. Reed

Hey, pretty much agree with everything youre saying, after going through absolute hell with my last breakup and racking my brains on how to deal with my 2 year old son growing up properly with a broken family, I've mulled over alot of your ideas alot in the back of my head.

Single moms are in hog heaven, the laws are on their side, plenty of desperate pieces of chit that beg to pay their way and take care of my offspring.

She shows me her facebook. 1000s of friend requests and dms from the bottom Barrell of beta scum BEGGING for attention. One kid offered her a 18k built subaru sti motor, said he'd swap in it her forester...

Men need to STOP ENCOURAGING THIS ****.

I personally will not get involved with a single mom, unless of course I'm adding value to her life AND her kids life. Same with my son.

My stupid sexual needs arnt worth hurting other people/kids.

I was 10 and my mom left my dad to go bang some biker, she had 3 kids.

That fvcked me up beyond all repair my teenage years. Even my own mother flaked out on me man. Straight up abandoned me and my dad broke in LA, and I always wondered at that younge age, how desperate could a chode be to take in a still married mother with 3 kids?

The bible says no pre marital sex, and fornication or adultery now Im understanding why, the repurcussions have a ripple effect towards everybody.

You show a good awareness of the issues involved. Thank God we are not victims of circumstance but can carve out our own future with some hard work and discipline! Good luck to you sir~~

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

He's not wrong he's rational. It is IRRATIONAL to NOT do something that benefits you so that OTHER PEOPLE can increase their benefit.

No dude is going to restrain from getting laid to "better society." That's just ridiculous.

The main PROBLEM of society is that our collective selfish (and rational) actions add up to the decay of society.

I agree that this is due to "incorrect" government policy, but these policies are also "rational" in that they lead to more votes for the politicians who put them in place.

You can write a book targeted at individuals to live better lives as individuals, or you can target a book toward policy wonks at better social policies.

Kind of hard to do both at once.

Hmmm... there is rational and then there is rational: rational cogitation, in the way of self-interested analysis, economics and the like [ego based]; and then there is rational imagination, an understanding of culture, history, morality, religion and the like. I think a lot of the social ills we are seeing is due to the loss of this rational imagination. It has been subverted by rational cogitation/ ideology.

The rational imagination is portrayed well in 19th century literature such as the bildungsroman [the novel of the young man coming of age] which tries to rehabilitate itself to the growing institutional/ bureaucratic forms of objectivity rising in the machinery of the modern state; a kind of subjectivity fighting back against the alienation of modern life.

In my opinion, the red pill has a connection to all of this but it is reactionary; it is the consciousness of a fugitive in the hidden catacombs of the city as opposed to a wider consciousness that can travel freely to and fro though the countryside.... and so manages to put the city in context.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Well, you could argue that men do have their chance to opt out by a) not having sex or b) ensuring they're using adequate protection. Whether the baby is created instantly or 9 months later doesn't matter.. the fact is you both agreed to sex, so both have to shoulder the consequences. If a man chooses to trust in the women's birth control then it's still his choice.

Don't get me wrong, I'm on the guys side here, but it takes 2 people to create a baby.

Men can 'opt' out through self-control. Our rational desire/ imagination needs to discipline our appetites. Rationalism/ scientific ideology is, more often than not, merely the justification of those appetites.

 

[Dr. Reed]

Def agree with them using kids and baby daddies for a 2nd bank account. I see the majority of them doing so.

I've also seen men opt out. They don't ever see their kid and never pay child support. Its not opting out before the child is born, but its still a way to opt out after the child is born.

My sister has seen about $500 worth of child support in 14yrs. She spent $5000 on a lawyer and private detective trying to locate her baby daddy so they could garnish wages. As soon as they find him he changes jobs so they can't garnish wages. She finally got tired and quit worrying about it.

A friend of mine doesn't pay child support either. He rarely sees his kids. He basically has opted out!

Unless you bare an itinerate laborer or work under the table it is extremely hard to not pay child support. The state of CA contacted every college I ever worked for within day of me being hired. They also take your tax return.

 

[Reykhel]

Men can 'opt' out through self-control. Our rational desire/ imagination needs to discipline our appetites. Rationalism/ scientific ideology is, more often than not, merely the justification of those appetites.

Self control: whip it out at the last minute and *** in her mouth.

No babies. Yay.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

rational and then there is rational:

don't firget rational numbers (from the word "ratio") which can be expressed as a fraction of whole numbers.

compared to irrational numbers (with infinite numbers past the decimal point) which cannot.

If you want to split hairs, you may as well split them all the way...

 

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