"stop being so ****y"

[Packers2010]

i have been trying out a few thing on my friend. just to see what work what doesn't, to be honest, it doesn't really matter about out friendship since i leave for wales at the end of nov.

so today i noticed the greenbay repeat is on at 6. so i figure i should facebook message her to see if she wants to go see it with me at a bar. the reason why i wanted her to go is she is a very good deso driver. she always gets me home save and she gets maccas too.

so we start talking on facebook chat and i am gaming her pretty hard to get her to come out. so doesn't want to come out. so i keep trying, still nothing. then half way threw trying she tells me what she enjoyed watching baseball with me last time we went out. ( all i did was text her told her to pick me up we are going drinking. so we did. i got drunk. she sat on facebook. she drove me home. was good.) so i was like. sweet. come out tonight. still no go. then after this she tells me she has to be home for dinner because her mom is making her fav tonight. i play the whole. well i come to dinner then we go to the bar. then she says. stop being so ****y.

the thing is. i have always been a chode around her. like we have been friends before i started getting into the game so she has the proceed image of me being a chode and not a " alpha male" , for lack of a better word.

they funny thing is we had a convo about being ****y a few weeks ago. she told me her bf is very ****y but he admits it.

i just wanted to see what your thoughts are on this? yes, i know i am over thinking it. i'm not trying to get with her. i would just like to know what to do next time this happens with a different girl

 

[Scars]

Probably a sh!t test.

But sense you were always a "chode" around her, and especially after having a conversation about ****yness with her, she probably sees through your gimmick. That's why any data you collect from this will probably be inaccurate.

Try your theories on a girl you don't know, or a recent love interest. Your "friend" sees it as inconsistency, and this is how girls get creeped out.

Point is, it's okay to be ****y, but a lot of newbies make the mistake of overdoing it. Use C+F to attract, and once you know they're attracted you move into comfort and then seduce. A lot of guys see that C+F works, but then over kill it to the point where they just seem like a prick. Don't forget to get flirty and sexual with her, otherwise all your ****yness will go to waste. You're basically trying to utilize game theory on a girl who has a bf, probably not a good idea. Put your theories to the test on a girl that's worth while. You're probably creeping your friend out right now.

-Scars

 

[Packers2010]

Probably a sh!t test.

But sense you were always a "chode" around her, and especially after having a conversation about ****yness with her, she probably sees through your gimmick. That's why any data you collect from this will probably be inaccurate.

Try your theories on a girl you don't know, or a recent love interest. Your "friend" sees it as inconsistency, and this is how girls get creeped out.

Point is, it's okay to be ****y, but a lot of newbies make the mistake of overdoing it. Use C+F to attract, and once you know they're attracted you move into comfort and then seduce. A lot of guys see that C+F works, but then over kill it to the point where they just seem like a prick. Don't forget to get flirty and sexual with her, otherwise all your ****yness will go to waste. You're basically trying to utilize game theory on a girl who has a bf, probably not a good idea. Put your theories to the test on a girl that's worth while. You're probably creeping your friend out right now.

-Scars

thanks for your reply man. i do talk about sex with her all the time. it just seams weird for me that she would say this. thing is. i have drunk texed her in the past and that was not good. one time i told her to break up with her bf for me... i really need to stay off the beer.

anyway. all i'm really testing is to see if i CAN CHANGE her perception of me. i don't care if she stays with her bf or whatever. i just want to be able to be that C+F guy you know and not that stupid afc guy.

 

[Thundernuts]

dont sweat it, if this girl is just a friend then your looking at a big waste of time trying to change her perception of you. She knew who you were before, its that simple. Thing is u can't erase urself and come out ****y funny. Your attitude may change, but your still the same guy and she knows it.

Waste of time.

 

[FairShake]

Do you want your friends being ****y assh0les around you all the time?

 

[ThisIsYourWakeUpCall]

what is the concept of C+F? still very new to the don juan game