I used to work with this guy named Chris Packard. He was a complete narcissistic a-hole and I hated him to the core. However, not only did I notice that he was keeping his job...he was also going up.
With women and with work, you have to be a jerk in order to succeed. There's no other way.
The problem with depression is that it is the "niceness" disease. When you're depressed about not getting a girlfriend or getting laid, you become even nicer. You don't want to make other people upset. But by doing this you are putting their needs first, not your own.
If you don't act on it, you'll explode sooner or later. Just look at the Aurora, Colorado shooter. He was a beta guy who was angry with the world for not getting laid not not having friends. So he went ballistic and shot 20 people.
When you start realizing that you'll get your way more by being an a**, things will really start to change. But here's the kicker - women respect you more when you're not nice to them. I tried this out at work and it really worked well. If you are in a subordinate position at work, and you're talking to other women, you need to talk like you're the boss or else they will walk over you. Similarly, if you're out and about, you need to act like you own the place and you don't take sh*t from anybody, or else they won't respect you (especially if you're not good looking).
At the end of the day, women become slaves to men who treat them badly. I'm not saying go out and abuse women (although I will say this, even though it's unpopular - guys who are abusive are much better off than guys who are lonely because they have women under their control), but rather act like you are above them at all times.
With women and with work, you have to be a jerk in order to succeed. There's no other way.
The problem with depression is that it is the "niceness" disease. When you're depressed about not getting a girlfriend or getting laid, you become even nicer. You don't want to make other people upset. But by doing this you are putting their needs first, not your own.
If you don't act on it, you'll explode sooner or later. Just look at the Aurora, Colorado shooter. He was a beta guy who was angry with the world for not getting laid not not having friends. So he went ballistic and shot 20 people.
When you start realizing that you'll get your way more by being an a**, things will really start to change. But here's the kicker - women respect you more when you're not nice to them. I tried this out at work and it really worked well. If you are in a subordinate position at work, and you're talking to other women, you need to talk like you're the boss or else they will walk over you. Similarly, if you're out and about, you need to act like you own the place and you don't take sh*t from anybody, or else they won't respect you (especially if you're not good looking).
At the end of the day, women become slaves to men who treat them badly. I'm not saying go out and abuse women (although I will say this, even though it's unpopular - guys who are abusive are much better off than guys who are lonely because they have women under their control), but rather act like you are above them at all times.
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